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Grinding/Fast Dancing at a dance
16/f
2 weeks ago i was at this dance thing at school and there was this guy i talk to a lot and i think i have a crush on him but i dont really know for sure if i do. At the dance there is a lot of grinding going on and stuff like that and he came up to me and started dancing with me. I got kind of turned on when he was dancing with me and i think he was too because i think i felt his boner but i'm not sure.
Ever since then I can not stop thinking about him and i keep on thinking about him in a sexual way. Is this normal for me to think about him like that after just grinding with him? I am going to hang out with him again so should i bring this up with him in a nonchalant way? I feel weird and creepy saying this but i constantly think about kissing him ever since the dance.
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Well, from your explanation it seems clear that you have a crush on him. Understand that a crush usually has much to do with physical attraction. I'm glad you got to dance with your crush, and grinding is of course a very sexual style of dance, therefore it's only natural that you have sexual feelings for him. I don't think it's necessary to bring it up. If the physical attraction is there between the two of you, than you'll probably end up kissing him.
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Hi,
it's perfectly normal for you to feel this way if you've never done it before and it gave you pleasure.
However, I wouldn't bring it up to him. I would just let things happen when they happen. If the two of you continue to hit it off, kissing is a natural progression. I hope I helped.
Good luck,
Ediemarie
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