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How do i walk away?
So theres this guy that treats me like shit. i seriously try to be sooooo nice to him and i usually am. but he never reconizes it. I always have to text him first and call him first. and when i dont he doesnt do anything i tried not being the first to text,call etc. And he didnt seem to care. Im trying to get away from him, but its so hard. I know it sounds stupid like if i was an outsider looking in on the situation id be like leave him now. but i cant its so hard. any tips on how to leave someone and walk away before i get really hurt? thanks!
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He treats you like shit because you're being obsessive.
Ease off a little (a lot) and he'll no longer treat you badly.
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Honestly, the best you can do is this: first, think of all the crappy things he's ever done to you and all the things he's said, etc. after that, you have to realize that even though it's difficult, you just need to realize what will be best for YOU in the future. if you stay with someone so negative towards you, you could ruin your chances of finding someone who appreciates you. just think that way and i'm sure you'll make the best decision.
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Dear how do i walk away,
Hey, think, is he worth it. if he's going to treat you like that, than he's not worth it. ignore him. dont text him because no one deserves th be put down like that. if you keep lettin him do this to you then its going to get worse.so think again, is he worth the pain. write me if you need anything else.
-Lilmissadvicequeen
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You just have to think to yourself, "what am I going to gain from this?"
It is like you are playing cat and mouse, he is the mouse and your playing the role of the cat.
Nobody likes to be the cat ;] but still, being serious, do you really wangt to wait for the guy who doesn't make the effort to talk to you and you being the one doing all the work.
Think about it, if you didn't contact him, you guys probably wouldn't even be talking, and some guys are just akward like that [I know a bunch and one of them was really hard to let go] but why cause your heart soo much pain and misery when you can just let him go.
I learned this the hard way.
But you don't have to, just don't talk to him for a while and see if he wants to get in touch with you. Who knows, maybe he will miss you :] but for now, just take an intrset in some other guys, explore your options, and let whatever happens happens. yuh know?
This won't be an easy process, but that really isn't a healthy relationship for you.
Hope he stops being a jerk :]
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im in the same situation RIGHT NOW. i know its very hard, and people always tell me to just leave him, and its so hard, they dont understand, and you can;t expect them to. maybe you should try not texting him anymore, don't call him anymore, just dislocate yourself from him. find other friends to hang out with, find another guy to crush on(; if you wait longer, he's just going to hurt you even more.
hope i helpeeed<3.
emily, xoxoxoxoxo.
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its basically temptation.
there is probley something about him that attracts you to him but you have to try your best and resist. dont let yourself give him attention thats what he wants. when your about to call him, call one of your friends inside and keep your mind off of him. if he's not taking the time to talk to you then you shouldnt be giving the effort to talk to him. its usless if only one person is trying and the other person isnt, believe me i would know. and since you do know that in the end you will get hurt just keep telling yourself that and you'll be abel to let go.
i hope i helped!
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