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Hi, everyone! My name's Rae. I love painting, reading, sleeping, museums, and I work at Aerie. I'll be attending college very soon, and I'm engaged to the most amazing person I have ever met in my entire life. Life is going so well and hopefully my advice will make your life just as good, :).
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Well I have been listening to metal for around 5 years now, and I mean serious metal, not pussy metal :P
Like COB, Slayer, In Flames, Behemoth, Slipknot and so on. I hope you get the idea.
Anyway, I was wondering if some people knew some good metal bands, that are unknown... if you can bother, myspace links would be nice, but any band names would be very very much appreciated :D
Thankoo!
to be honest, i am definitely not a fan of any of those bands, except for slayer. but the music that i listen to would be things like all shall perish, the faceless, suicide silence, the black dahlia murder, and killwhitneydead. they're good stuff so check them out!
what horrible thing did she do?
Vanessa was probably 15-17 years old at the time. She was talking to Drake Bell at the time and had sent him some risque pictures of herself. Anyways, somehow it got leaked onto the internet and Drake is denying that he ever received the pictures. She publicly apologized for it and she's still a part of High School Musical!
Um, Okay. So me and this guy have been talking on the computer for about 2 years, and we go to the same school, same grade, SAME ENLIGSH/HISTORY class. And we've never ever ever talked to eachother ever. What are somethings I can say? I pretty much know him pretty well, and I think he likes me, and I like him too. But I can't like, officially like him, untill we talk in person, yeah? And he is really shy around me, so that makes me shy around him. What do I do? How can I keep a conversation going! Help.
Since you guys are both shy, one of you has to step up! If you guys can keep up a conversation online, I'm sure you can keep one in person. I know this is going to sound pretty obvious, but just go up to him and say "hi"! Just be like,"Hey, haha, this is gonna sound so weird but I think it's time to start talking in real life!". Being able to joke around will make him more at ease and you too! I know that you're shy and it'll probably be hard to go up to someone so bluntly, but trust me, sometimes you just need to jump right in there! But, if you think just going up to him out of the blue is weird, the next time you guys have a group/partner project in class, ask him to join/be your partner! You guys can talk about classwork and then slowly start getting into social stuff! Hope I helped!
I call myself a Christian but i dont go to church. I have been trying to get my mom to take me, but it seems we never have the time. I always feel guilty for this and i know im not agnostic. I really want to be a good Christian, and stay loyal to God. But i find myself always cursing, and always doubting him. Thanks for any advice! :]
You know, I had the same problem. A lot of bad things happened to me while I was younger and I blamed everything on God. As I got older, I brought Him back into my life. I don't personally go to church, and I don't really follow my life the way I should (haha). So, I really don't consider myself a good Christian. But don't feel guilty because at least you're trying to make the effort to be faithful to God and that's all he really wants. Just remember the next time you do something wrong, WWJD, it's totally cliche but it really helps. If you doubt God in any way, message me on here and I'll talk to you about any questions you have!
a friend of mine passed away awhile ago and on my myspace i have a little thing that just says rip ____ and stuff..anyways i want to know how to make the words i wrote about him clickable so that people can click on the words and it will take them to a site..the site is a bunch of pictures of him. but i dont want it to be like and url they click on to get to it, i want them to click on the actual words i wrote to get to the pictures. sorry if that is confusing but thank you!
CLICKABLE WORD HERE
(NOTE: Remember to take the astericks out, I only put them there because I wasn't sure if the code would show up on here or not!)
Hope I helped!
my face has been breaking out lately. but i havnt had my period for like 10 days now. i have proactive but it hasnt been working lately.
Try Nature's Cure, my friend uses it and he says that it works really well. If that doesn't work, try Biore Ice Cleanser, I use it and it completely dries out all my zits!
well, i know this is really weird. but should i be shaving down there like around the crotch. i asked my mom but she didnt give me an answer. im afraid to ask my friends cause im afraid that they'll call me a perv or something. please answer.
You really don't have to but it all depends on what you wanna do. Some people don't shave, some trim, and others shave it completely off. Whatever's comfortable for you, and you don't seem like a pervert! It's only natural wanting to know what to do, haha. All you have to do is figure out what you want to do, and do it!
I guess i'm lucky. I feel I have the perfect boyfriend, he's loving, caring, supportive and he accepts me the way I am.... only one problem. He wants to get married, in a church too & he wants to have children... Normally most girls dream of this. But I never have, it's just strongly against my own personal beliefs, but I won't get into that.
We talked about this and came to the conclusion that we shouldn't worry about it because there MIGHT be a SLIGHT possiblity that i MIGHT change my mind in the future... only i highly doubt it.
I'm scared he'll leave me, if I never do give in. I really love him, and I think love is more important than any of that stuff, but he doesn't agree. He feels he NEEDS it to be a part of his life.
So what do you think? Am I worrying too much? Or am I just wasting his time if we have no "future" together? Any other advice?
Just because you don't want to get married doesn't mean your relationship will become plateaued. If he truly loves you, he should try to be accepting of your decision. You two should definitely talk more about why you don't want to get married and try to come to a better understanding with eachother. He's probably thinking that it's the American dream: the wife, the kids, the white picket fence, etc. Honestly, I'm pretty sure you have a 50% chance of changing your mind down the road. When I met my fiance, I didn't want to get married or have kids either. Now, my motherly instincts are starting to come up to the surface. I think it's sort of a waiting game and you both should just enjoy eachother for now and see where life takes you, you just never know what might happen.
hello,
i am 14 years old.
okay, well my boyfriend broke up with me because he liked my best friend, but she does not like him. she likes my ex boyfriends best friend. but now my ex is being really mean to me and my best friend. he is saying things that are not that nice. what should i do?
-Strawberry
that's easy, ignore him! guys like that just want attention from you girls because both of you don't even want him. he feels rejected and is angry about it, so he decides to say bad things about you to make the situation for himself better. by giving him attention, you're only giving him what he wants. ignoring him will show him that you and your friend could care less about him and that you guys are having a great time without him! hope i helped!
Is it a turn-off to guys if a girl has low self-confidence or in other words is shy?
Not necessarily! Some guys love confidence in a girl while other guys see confidence as being conceited, and usually like the shy girls. So, basically, it all just depends on what a guy likes! Hope I helped!
how many weeks pregnant do you have to be, for you to take a test and it to be positive?
Usually most pregnancy tests work effectively 5 days after your missed period.
My friend (used to be best friend) that i've known since 6th grade, (in 11th now) just picked up smoking weed and thinks shes the coolest person in the world, but really she has no idea what shes doing.
and shes doing some pretty stupid crap. like driving while high, doing donuts and getting flat tires-- going to class high, growing it, and trying to get her friends who are starting to really dislike her into it. not to mention she doesnt know what kind shes smoking. what if its laced with iono salvia?
Shes hurting herself and her family and her friends. She got kicked out of the band program (which was her favorite but now weed is) and shes just going downhill. i wouldnt get so worried if it was someone who could control it, or do it socially once in a while- not smoking up every day by yourself like she does now.
I've been thinking about anonymously reporting her to the police. something needs to happen to let her know shes doing something thats just plain stupid- and dangerous, mentally and physically.normally i would never rat anyone out for this kind of stuff, but shes my friend and i worry about her.
should i report her to the police or not?
Honestly, reporting it to the police won't really do much mainly because they would want to see proof or something. The best thing to do is anonymously report to her parents! Then that way, there could be an intervention and her parents will figure out a way to help her get clean. I've known people who've gone down that road just like your friend and now they're sober and soooo much more happier! Hope I helped!
OMG i am freaking out right now. for the past few months i've been texting and calling my friend but not a lot. but everytime i call him he doesnt pick up, and this other person picks up cursing me off. but when my friend texts me, its him. i dont get it, and its the same number. and today he texted me and i answered him. he calls me and leaves me a voicemail, only its not him its the other person! he said idc who you are you better stop fcking calling this number. then he texts me and says yeah bitch found out all your info, pressing charges, enjoy! is that possible to find out someones info just by their cell phone number? i'm seriously really scared, someone please give me any advice!
It's highly unlikely this person got your information and went through all that trouble to get it. He probably was trying to scare you off so you'd stop calling, haha. I mean, there is a way to find out someone's information by someone's cell number but police and phone companies wouldn't give it out so easily. It would have to be something really extreme, like, terroristic threats or something, haha. Anyways, but lets say this person did get your info and gave it to the police, the police aren't going to do anything! You're just a person who happened to be getting into a phone mix up and it's not like you've been threatening this person with death threats or anything! You're fine, I guarantee it!
okay so i dont wear the ``in `` clothes .i wear what i want when i want.lots of my clothes are tye dye or are pink,blue,black,or brown.i also have a favorite sweater that my grandma made me.it is hot pink,baby blue,white,and a mix of the pink and blue.everyone at school (not teachers)hates it.they say that i should burn it.do i wear it,or do i not wear it and hurt my grandmas feelings?
Who cares what people think!? Wear whatever you want! No one should be able to tell you what to wear, only you decide! Besides, no matter what you wear, some people might like it, and some people might hate it, either way, if you like it, then it's "in"! Haha, hope I helped!
14f How old do you need to be to get your belly button pierced? I dont want to tell my mom but I want it done. Is there anyway around that?
Could you pierce it yourself? I seen it done in the movie thirteen.. they made it seem easy.
You have to be 18 years old in most states to get professional piercings/tattoos done. Other states, the law could be 16 or even 17 years old. You always need parental consent if you're underage. A lot of people pierce it themselves, however the risk of infection and rejection are so much higher! My one friend pierced her own and the skin around the naval started to rot away. I know it's disgusting, but it's a bad idea to do it by yourself, no matter how clean you are. And please don't follow movies because it's all fake anyway. The best thing you can do is talk to your mom about it or wait until you're old enough, sorry. :/
Look I Come From A Strict Family...
Both Of My Parents Are Teachers...
And Im 13 And Im Already A Total Party Animal...
But My Parents Wont Let Me Do Anything!!!
My Dad Will Not Let Me Talk To Boys...
Let Alone Have A Boyfreind!!!!!
And I Just Want To Be On My Own A Bit...
And EveryTime My Parents Say No....
We End Up In A Fight...!
What Should I Do...!
It is said that if you ask childishly, you'll receive a childish answer. However, if you ask in an adult manner, you'll receive an adult answer. The reason why your parents treat you like a child is because no matter how old you are, you're still their baby. Honestly, you're still 13 and very young, but I understand that you want to have fun and just be a teenager. In order to get what you want from your parents, the best thing to do is sit them down and explain what you want, and why you deserve it. I know it'll be hard, but try not to raise your voice because then your parents will just completely shut you out and will stop listening to what you have to say. My parents were very strict until I started talking to them, rather than arguing. Hope I helped!
a man who is uncircumised penise always smell bad than a man who have circumised?
An uncircumsized penis only smells if the man doesn't pull back the foreskin to clean it properly in the shower everyday. Hope I helped!
i have to pack my lunch every day this month because i forgot to fill out my lunch order form and im so tired of basic peanut butter sandwiches!! i dont like lots of flavors cause when it comes to food im pretty simple but i was wondering what are some fun, healthy, tasty, and easy things for me to make for lunch? i have acess to a microwave at school too. thanks so much!!! :)
Turkey wraps are always good and so are Chicken Caesar wraps. All you need is deli sliced turkey or chicken, whole wheat wraps, whatever veggies you want to throw in there, and whatever dressing or spread you want. It's healthy and you don't even have to cook anything! Hope I helped!
Why is it a sin for a white to marry a black? All answers aprecciated.
P.S. If possible please explane it in the easyest form possible. Thanks!!!
It's not a sin! I'm an Asian girl and I have a white fiance and love comes in all different races. It doesn't matter what color you are, we're all people either way!
how do i properly shave my vagina
You must use some kind of shaving creme or mild soap or anything like that or you'll get serious razor burns and use a senstive blade razor. Be sure to go against the grain when shaving or else you'll develop ingrown hairs and that would be bad! Hope I helped!