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Shy. Hella shy.
Um, Okay. So me and this guy have been talking on the computer for about 2 years, and we go to the same school, same grade, SAME ENLIGSH/HISTORY class. And we've never ever ever talked to eachother ever. What are somethings I can say? I pretty much know him pretty well, and I think he likes me, and I like him too. But I can't like, officially like him, untill we talk in person, yeah? And he is really shy around me, so that makes me shy around him. What do I do? How can I keep a conversation going! Help.
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same problem here. i going to talk to her in person u should to
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Since you guys are both shy, one of you has to step up! If you guys can keep up a conversation online, I'm sure you can keep one in person. I know this is going to sound pretty obvious, but just go up to him and say "hi"! Just be like,"Hey, haha, this is gonna sound so weird but I think it's time to start talking in real life!". Being able to joke around will make him more at ease and you too! I know that you're shy and it'll probably be hard to go up to someone so bluntly, but trust me, sometimes you just need to jump right in there! But, if you think just going up to him out of the blue is weird, the next time you guys have a group/partner project in class, ask him to join/be your partner! You guys can talk about classwork and then slowly start getting into social stuff! Hope I helped!
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a good way to start a conversation is to find out something that they like, whether its sports, hunting, fishing, singing or dancing, etc. try to have a convo about what he likes and what he does for fun & then make your input opinion. kind likes this....
You: Hey Brad (we'll use that) what are you doing this weekend? anything interesting?
Him: Oh, im just going to hang out with my friends and play video games.
You: Sounds like fun. Have you played that new guitar hero game. Its pretty sweet. Alot of good old songs. Are you into that kind of music?
Him: Uhmm yeah i just got that game for my birthday. I kick butt. Ugh the music's alrightt. Im more into country.
You: No dude i would kick your butt at that game. Wanna try me?
Him: Yeah sure, Saturday, my house, 7:00. Be there.
See how that worked out. Try to get into his head. And learn about him. No matter what it is, act interested.
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