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um plz help txtin relationship


Question Posted Sunday March 16 2008, 1:43 pm

okay so one day this guy txted me out of the blue and weve been txting each other everyday ever since and he says hes 13 likes soccer like me and it seems like we have alot in common but weve never actually met in person or even talked on the phone just txting but dont know how to tell if hes telling the truth or not and i really want to meet him in person but what if hes not who he says he is thanx ahead of time 13/f

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chakra answered Monday March 17 2008, 4:27 pm:
he sounds like a "groomer", someone who gets kids to believe they are a child themselves and will make you have feelings for them before asking to meet.
You need to stop all contact with this person, dont even text him to say your cutting contact or that you dont trust him, just ignore him no matter what he says.

Please dont put yourself in danger, you are ok now but these men are sneaky and will try and make you fall for them, they prey on young children like yourself.

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thelaura answered Monday March 17 2008, 10:36 am:
So, some "kid" just randomly started txting you? How did he get your number?
If I were you, I'd just stop with the txts, because you're absolutely right - HOW do you know he's really a 13 year old boy and not a 30 year old paedophile?
It's risky business. and whatever you do, don't meet him - especially on your own. If you do, it MUST be with an adult.
Also, I assume he knows quite a bit about you already, but do not give out any other personal details, such as your address, because if he's not who he says he is, he could easily track you down.
Scary, isn't it?

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REALIFEADVICE answered Monday March 17 2008, 7:16 am:
Hi,

It is difficult when you've formed a relationship with a person by text message or over the internet and your bound to have some doubts and concerns.

We all hear a lot off horror stories but that's because its only the horror stories that get told - most people have good experiences.

The most important advice I can give you is if you do decide to meet up don’t go alone!

Chandler XX

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emilyjessica0x answered Sunday March 16 2008, 5:52 pm:
just like the person below me said, its an internet predator, someone along those lines. dont go meet him, its NOT safe.

good luck + hope i helped. (:

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caitiebug6793 answered Sunday March 16 2008, 5:44 pm:
It all followas along the lines of the internet predator thing. Simply don't go meet him. Don't trust anybody you haven't met.

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