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next year
ok so it is almost the end of my freshmen year in highschoool and i basically have only two friends about a month ago it wasnt like that.. me and my freinds got in a huge fight and now we are basically not friends anymore. i am now freinds with these two girls i love to death the fight wouldnt have been such a big deal if i had other friends to fall back on but i spent most of this year not trying to make new friends but sticking with the ones i had so my question is next year do you think i will be able to make alot of new friends or do u think everyone will already have there own groups i feel like its useless to try to make friends this year because i hate people in my classses and the year is almost over ? do u think i caan start again fresh next year?
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yes, theres always a time to make new friends. i have moved going into fresman year and again goin to junior year and i have a bunch of friends. sure its hard because everyone it grouped together but lots of good, nice people are inviting towards new friends. just talk to lots of people, be nice, help them when you can, talk to them and you will make friends quickly :)
good luck (you wont need it)
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It's never too early to start making friends. Why not start this year? If you go up to a nice group of people looking for friendship, I doubt they'd just throw you out right off the bat lol. There are so many opportunities for building relationships in high school such as sports and clubs. Try joining a few (if you haven't already) and just be as friendly as possible. Remember: You are all there to have fun so no real pressure. And don't automatically assume people won't like you (chances are it's usually not the case).
If you're still upset (not saying you are but if you are...) about what happened with your old friends, just bit by bit let go. I've been in this situation before with like aftermaths of friend fights, and I'm now starting to get over it and move on so I know where you are coming from. Just remember that the people who hurt you and can't see what a great person you are aren't worth your time. It's true, trust me.
Basically what I'm saying is: don't let the past affect your future negatively. It isn't useless to try and make friends, and it's definitely possible! Part of high school is meeting people and building relationships and chances are that's what everyone else is trying to do too. So no worries. =]
Good luck honey, I'm sure you'll do fine!
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