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I like the guy on my bus
ok so im 15 n the guys 17...lets call him D and my ex-bf A...so I've known D for the past couple of years...we go by the same bus to school...i'm in the ninth grade and he's in the eleventh and we never used to talk a lot in the beginning cuz he used to talk to another girl on the bus a LOT*. But she left for australia in a few months and since this june he's been acting really nice to me so here's the first part of my question:
would you say he likes me:
- firstly he never talked to me before and now suddenly he's being ultra-sweet to me and sitting right next to me on the bus
- he really tries to make comversation...i mean im pretty quiet in the mornings but he keeps trying to get me to open up...he almost never gives up.
- he teases me kinda playfully about me being so quiet and pretends to forget my name all the time (he doesn't but he's just doing it to tease me) and he laughs a lot when i'm with him.
- one of the guys on my bus tried to spread a rumour about me and another guy in my grade to D but D took no notice of it and when I told him not to listen to it he heard me out and never brought it up again.
- also when the bus reaches school he always lets me walk ahead and holds doors open and stuff which i find amaaaaaaazingly cute cuz teenage guys dont really do that in our school...
now A is my boyfriend for the past three months...it turns out that A and D know each other pretty well and D thinks that A's a good guy...so D found out frm sumwhere that me n A wer going out and asked me about it and i kinda brushed it off...we dont really talk about it and at that time me n A wer going pretty strong...but now we're all broken up for the past two weeks...D hasn't heard about it yet but I'm beginning to realise i really really like him no matter how inappropriate it is to go out with someone two weeks after your break up...i really like him. so here's my second part of the question: is it too slutty too flirt with D now?
also all this while i've been really cutesy with D in a quiet sort of way...but i want to show him how loud i am around my frnds so i thought of walking past him with my friends while he was at the basketball court since i wouldnt be artificial or anything with my friends and more importantly i want mostly guys to answer this part of the question but any tips from experienced girls will also be helpful <3
how can i give him quiet but obvious-in-their-meaning signs that i like him and (im talking about mostly physical here!)...like how should i touch him in a gentle way(not sluttish or anything) yet make it crystal clear that I like him...also there's this party coming up and one of my friends said i should just flirt with him a lot the whole night and then kiss him somewhere dark...any tips on how to create such a scenario...need lots of advice mwah <333
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Yeahh this kid DEFFINATELY likes you. the only thing is... Im a freshmen too, and I go for the juniors too ;) haha and I know how juniors can be... Especially if hes friends with your ex., im just saying be carefull. You have to let this kid know you like him some how.. And when I flirt with a guy, I usually dont touch them lol so im sorry but I cant help you with that part. And no thats not slutty lol if you really truely like him, go for it
Hope I helped :)
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OK, first of all you need to make sure that he's not just using you to get in your pants. Because im a junior girl, and i can tell you that half my guy friends are flirting with the freshmen to get in their pants.. something about virgins [yum]. So just make sure he's not into you for the sex. After i read this i smiled, the exact same thing happened to me. I was even a freshman when he was a jr. the touching him thing was good. soft, but firm... try not to touch in naughty places quite yet. rest your arm on his arm/hand... maybe he'll grab your hand and hold it. the fact that D knows A, isnt that big of a deal unless this A guy is like IN LOVE with you. D's a guy and all guys know that once you and your bf are over, its fair game... i dont know what all yall talk about, but try to get personal. and even start suggesting that yall hang out sometime. if hes into you.. he'll go for it and youll get that kiss & maybe more at the party. hope this kinda helped you out. no one can give you PERFECT advice on things like this.. do what your body tells you to. and NEVER ignore it, or else youve just made a mistake.
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