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im outgoing and my girlfriend is shy...
hii-- 14/m i just got a new girlfriend about a week ago and everything is going great...the only thing is that im very outgoing and she is shy soo im not really getting any hints to go further or anything...if your shy, what do you do when you want ur gf/bf to go further? any tips on how to treat her so i dont make her uncomfy or something?
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Hey there :)
First of all, it's really sweet of you to be concerned about making her uncomfortable. Keep that virtue :) After a week, and espesically at that age (I'm only a year older than you), I don't think I'd want to go much farther.
Hope everything works out!
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if shes shy, she doesnt want to do anything. and if all your looking for is ass, get a new girl. because she wont give it to you. trust me. unless you date her for like 6-12 months first, you wont get anything, and i doubt you would want to wait that long. also.. if she does by any small chance want to take it a step further, you'll know by if she starts opening up towards you and acting less shy and more comftorbal with you. but shy girls like guys who dont want ass, but they like touchy feely things like always grab her hand and waiste. stuff like that. it makes the girl feel like you like her a lot, and she might open up to you more.
k, goodluck (:
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Hey, my name is Faith42 and I think I can help you
don't push her or anything further till she is ready. If you do she will probably go along because
she probably don't want to break up with you. Then
when you keep pushing she won't go along with it
any more. It will ruin your relationships and your
girlfriends relationships. So, respect her ways of
doing things , and she will respect your ways of doing things!
I hope I helped,
Faith42:)
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errm i'm also a very shy person, and i deffinetly wouldnt want to do anything if i'd only been dating for a week.
you should seriously wait a bit longer and i'f you really like her you should understand that she needs more time to trust you. once you've gone out for a bit longer she'll open up, but if she doesnt give you any hints now, it seems like she's not ready which is understandeble after dating just for one week.
and some tips: you should be really understanding so she'll know you wont push her into anything. you can even have a little talk about it. just show her what a great boyfriend you are, take her out for dinner and just talktalktalk. you guys should just get to know eachother very well and the rest will come naturally.
hope i helped a little. good luck :)
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