21/F
Me and my boyfriend of four years have a long distance relationship and this is just one of many typical conversations I have with him:
"Him: so is that a no to seeing you this weekend?
Me: yea :( I'm on vacation with *best friends name* family for the weekend I would invite u but it's pretty far
Him: I don't mind the drive
Me: good to know :)
Him: lol why?
Me: cause it actually means you care enough to come see me even if it's really far and that means a lot to me... It's nice to sometimes have confirmation that you really do care
Him: your welcome!"
And that was it i havent talked to him since Saturday. Is it wrong that I'm upset that all he had to say was your welcome when I told him my feelings? It's not just that one time but it's all the time, I'll say something sweet and he'll just be really short with me or change the subject. I mean we don't hardly see each other and anyone in a l.d. relationship knows how important showing affection through text is, but he no longer gives me that and it just hurts. he use to always send me cute stuff to make sure I felt special and doesn't do that anymore I practically have to pry a sweet comment from him. Im pretty sure I deserve more right? At this point I'm ready to call it quits. I always make sure he knows how much he means to me and he can't do the same. I miss him already but I can't be the only one giving, right?
To me it actually sounds like he wanted to come with you and that he was quite upset because you didn't respond to that. you told him that you'd invite him but that you think that it may be too far for him to which he replied that it's not which sounds to me like he wanted you to tell him that he can come after all ..
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my gf was giving me a blowjob..i got excited and splashed some of my sperms on her face.den i cleaned it with a handkerchief.after that i washed my hands and cleaned them with the same handkerchief.Then after a while i fingered her.Will she get pregnant.please reply soon should i tell her to take a contraceptive pill.Pls help me!
if you washed your hands properly she wont get pregnant. even if you didnt the chances would be really low
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I am 10. I am a male. I have an 11 year old sister. She would tell. My parents would kill me.(Litterly)
you are way too young. why dont you just watch porn or something and save your first time for someone you really care for when you're older and more mature?
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am 12 he 13. he wants sex, but i told him i was scared, he respects my response,but he keeps saying that he 'wants to fuck me bad.' the more he says it i want to, but am 12 dont know what to do.some advise???
he says that he wants to 'fuck you bad' ?
wow ._. doesn't sound very romantic to me ..
if you dont want to have sex yet then dont! wait for the right guy who should be someone who respects your feelings towards sex and who really loves you and doesn't just want to 'fuck you bad'
If he keeps saying that it seems like he's just out for sex. I dont know him so I cant be sure but it seems like it. and even if he's not he shouldnt say something like that to you. It would make me feel like some kind of object. especially at the age of 13 he's probably not mature enough to use protection correctly. dont let him pressure you into it and wait for the time when you're ready or else you'll regret it. I was 16 when i had my first time and i was fine with it. I'm not saying that you have to wait that long but i do think that 12 is a bit too young.
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I had sex 10 days ago unprotected. My period should have started 7 days ago. I just took the ept home pregnancy test today and it showed not pregnant. As far as I've read 10 days should be enough time for it to show up on a test. What are the reasons that it wouldn't? Could conception have been too close to my period for it to have taken? If so why haven't I had my period yet? Any insight on any of this would be helpful!
(23/f, my man and I are trying for a family so no lectures on protected sex please!)
Thanks
as far as I know your period might be late because you worry too much about getting or not getting it. I know this is a different situation but i got my period 2 weeks late once because I was stressing over being pregnant. so stress and worrying can cause your period to be late. another possibility is that the pregnancy test was just wrong so you could try taking another one. good luck!
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somedays ago i found a woman aged 43 on facebook who was ready to adopt me..since no one loves me..she was ready to love me..she was single and divorced..she wanted a son and i wanted a mom..everything was going ok..but then i contacted her friend..and asked some question about her,.her friend told her about it..and she got mad at me and now she wants me to stop contacting her..she means my family and my world..i cant live without her..i can do any thing to get her..i love her a lot..plz help me ..i need a mom to love me iam 17 now and my name is brock
have you ever seen her in person? because if you where only talking to eachother on facebook it's probably a scam.
i think that if she really meant it she would've gotten mad just because you asked her friend a few questions. to me it seems more like she has something to hide. I wouldnt trust her.
i'm sorry that you feel like you dont have anyone but i think facebook isnt the right place for you to search for love.
just hang in there :)
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My mom says I cant because you have to have your period for 3 years because of the chemicals in the dye. My sister said that thats true to she went to beauty school shes now a hair stylist so I think she know. But is that true? Because I really want to dye my hair!
to be honest i've never heard of that. but even if thats true dying your hair is all in all bad for you. it's bad for your hair and for your skin because of all the chemicals even after you've gotten your period. so if you wanna dye it i would get it professionally done. my aunt is a proffessional hairstylist and when she dyes my hair it doesnt hurt at all and my hair still feels healthy. so if you really wanna do it find someone who knows what he/she is doing. and dont forget to use conditioner ;)
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I had sex on the eighteenth of June, and we used protection. My period has been weird lately, the last time I had it was on the sixth of June, and I expected it to come today or yesterday. Is it normal for it to be irregular after sex or am I just paranoid about getting pregnant?
i'm freaking out too at the moment so i get you :)
well.. another time when i thought i was pregnant i was really stressed out which made my period come about 6 days late..
just wait a few more days and if your period isnt coming take a test.
i'll have to take one too.. ugh :S
just so you know you're not alone xxx
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I have never been called ugly, but I've also never been called beautiful. I'm not sure. I mean, I've liked guys but none of them have ever liked me back. In the 5th grade I told a guy I used to like him but don't anymore. (It wasn't true that I didn't like him, I just wanted to test the waters. I wanted ti see his reaction.) That was thhe biggest mistake of my life because after I said I didn't like him anymore, I heard him say, "Good." My mom also once told me that the only guys that would want to hit on me would be pedophiles, (I'm really short so I look like I'm 14 even though I turned 18 in February.) the sad part is that I think she might be right. The only guys that have ever "liked" me are old guys and some of the creepy guys at our school. Whenever I even try to hit on a guy they laugh in my face. I feel like I shouldn't be so down on myself and sometimes I look in the mirror I feel like the prettiest thing in the world, but other times, I look in the mirror and feel completely disgusted with how I look. Is there a way to get people to tell you the truth about how you look?
liking someone isnt all about looks. if someone only likes you cause you look good theyre not worth it and it's no way to start a healthy relationship. of course people can tell you their opinion on how you look but everyone has a different taste so one guy might think youre pretty while another one doesnt. and besides that i know a few girls who are gorgeous but still not liked because they act like complete bitches. and my boyfriend to be honest isnt the prettiest guy in the world either but i still love him for who he is because he's one of the nicest people i know :)
so dont worry you'll find the right guy and stop worrying about your looks. i used to be like that and it really brought me down!
good luck :)
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Well, you could say I'm not really the popular type. It's not that I'm extremely unpopular either, I'm just pretty nerdy in general, because I'm interested in learning and adult life. That type of aura around me which is "I don't anything about pop culture" kind of drives off people. That, plus, I'm not that athletic (sort of, but not really).
I don't really mind being unpopular in school, but I swim on a team, and I'm in a fast group but am slow. I'm guessing my popularity and my speed (though I'm not the slowest!) attribute to the fact that I'm ALWAYS picked last in relays (races with many people).
This just really makes me feel bad. Is there anything I can do always after my relay to make me feel better when I am inevitably chosen last?
dont feel too bad about that. i'm always picked last too cause i'm really really bad at sports and everyone knows it xD i dont really mind I just laugh it off. just have more self confidence and you wont feel bad. maybe they think youre "bad" at running but i'm sure that they know you're good at school. i know a lot of people who always get picked last and some of them arent even bad OR unpopular but just have that 'unsporty" aura too xD. cause there's one girl and she's all barbie like and very popular but also gets picked last cause she's really skinny & looks like she doesnt have enough energy to do sports very well.
honestly dont worry about it and just laugh it off. think about the friends you have & you dont have to be liked by anyone anyways. and just cause youre picked last doesnt mean that youre not popular :)
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what does it mean if a boy who is a friend or an ex bf finds exuses to be around u like to come over and hang out? and if he always stares at your breast and likes to pick u up all the time and play with you hands.
He wants you.
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What is a quick and not so painful to kill yourself or how do I die? I'd rather not kill myself, I want someone else to do it for me... how do I go about doing this?
I dont think someone else will do it for you cause that would be considered murder.
just get over yourself & deal with your problems.
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i know what your thinking... "is this chick stupid?" but hear me out. me & this boy were messing around & he was fingering me. then he started rubbing his "head" on my vagina. he told me i was too tight to even go in ,but through out the time i guess i kinda got a little loosened up or whatever. he said that "only the head was there." no idea what that meant. i just kept telling him to please not go in whatever he did. i don't wanna lose my virginity at 15. so did i just have sex? :/ i wasn't meaning to go that far. OH & he was cumming while rubbing it on my clit. so could i get pregnant? he told me no. idk.
please help . :(
i'd say that once a penis enters your vagina you had sex. but as the person below me said, different people are gonna tell you different things.
as for the pregnant thing: there is deffinetly a chance that your pregnant cause the sperm might've gotten into your vagina.
and next time you should really use a condom cause even if you didnt have full on sex there was a chance of him cumming while "only the head was there"
so be careful!
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i like this guy but i used to be mean to him what should i do?
female 16
just be nice to him now. say hi etc.. and maybe once you talk more tell him that you're sorry. then he'll know that you at least like him as a friend & then you can give him hints that you fancy him and see what happens.
:)
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15/f.
I really like this guy. We've been talking for almost everyday in the past few months. We talked to much and always got the conversation going pretty deep. My friends knew I liked him, even they said that it seems like he liked me too, but the problem was that he sends mixed signals. I missed my chances of telling him, and no I wasn't scared of rejection. I was scared of loosing him as a friend. Then at around January, we just stopped talking. We were so close too. We trusted each other and understood eachother. I don't know how to make it the same. We're extremely good friends. Although at school, he never says Hi to me. (never did). Hardly, but he says Hi and talks to me in the classes we have. I really think I should get over him, because girls are always flirting with him, it drives me insane. I don't like the feeling of envy. I don't know how to get over him without ignoring him, because when I do, we just won't be friends anymore. People told me to just think of things you hate about that person, but the truth it, there isn't anything wrong about him that I can think of. It really bugs me.
So how can I get over him without ruining our friendship?
Thanks a bunch!
if i where you i'd just stay friends with him.
i was in a similar situation; i really like this guy ALOT. and we where also REALLY close friends and shared so much & he understood me so well etc :/
and he also send me mixed signals & i thought that he may like me too so i told him how i feel. then he just stopped talking to me & now we're not friends anymore. it hurt me so much & i STILL cry over it even thought it was like 6 month ago.
& then i realised that i dont bother that much about him not liking me more as a friend but him not wanting to be friends anymore. he may be an idiot for this but the whole thingy made me realise that sometimes friendship is more important than a relationship. so i'd suggest that you continue talking to him and being his friend cause if you ignore him and stop you'll probably feel worse than now.
and besides .. so what if he doesnt fancy you? he obviously values you and thats what matters. & if you really want more you can try becoming even closer friends and do smth after school etc. and maybe then he'll eventually fall for you. (:
sorry i couldnt answer the question about getting over him etc :S i wish i knew myself :S im still not over my guy either so ..
but hope i helped a little. good luck! :]
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18f. one of my grandparents passed away about a week ago, basically the first person ever close to me to pass away. well i get really freaked out about death and ghosts and stuff, and ever since the wake and funeral i can't sleep, i wont allow myself at night because i'm terrified. everytime i close my eyes i see my dead grandmother in her casket, or the casket at the cemetery .. and it truly is frightening who wants to keep being reminded of that? or at night when it's really dark i feel like a ghost is in my room and every sound i hear i get freaked out to the point of me breaking a sweat in the verge of crying. i won't go to sleep until like 7 in the morning when it gets light out because i feel at least more comfortable but this no sleep thing has really been taking a toll on my body, i feel so sick :( i still live with my parents but they can't do anything about it. i go sleep with my mom in the morning when my dad goes to work, because i feel safe with someone. my dad won't sleep in my bed, haha embarassing i know but honestly i don't know what to do .. i'm terrified and i need sleep !
is there anything i can do..
ahh im really sorry about what happened :S
this has never happened to me so i dont really know what you're going through. but maybe if you feel more comfortable sleeping at 7 why dont you just leave the lights on & go to sleep then?
maybe its a little harder but i bet that after not sleeping at all you're really tired. or maybe if you have a TV in your room watch TV before oyu go to bed. don't watch smth like ghost whisperer or CSI or smth. watch friends or whatever else you think is funny (;
it really does help cause i cant sleep lately because I'm lovesick & lost a good friend etc. i know its not as bad as what youre going through but it does help cause watching TV is quite tireing. also what you can try is read a book. eventually that'll get you really tired as well.
and as i said .. try going to sleep with the lights on. and close your curtain so you cant see the darkness outside ^^
another thing you can do is listen to music. it obviously takes the silence away & maybe that'll make you stop from thinking that there is a ghost in your room.
hope i helped a little . good luck! :]
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I sleep around
aww.
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I'm running out of new music to try. What are some really, really good bands or songs I would like if I already love paramore and a little fall out boy, but still like aucoustics?
try 'renfue'.. they sound a lot like paramore
look them up on youtube :)
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People say my eyes are really pretty in the light; they say they look like the inside of a kiwi and they sparkle. Is there any make up (no eyeshadow) that would bring out that characteristic??
i think you should deffinetely use mascara .. if your lashes are dark i'd use black & if theyre more blonde you could use darkblue..
black eyeliner would compliment your green eyes in a sexy kind of way. if its not your style though you could try using another shade of green. a friend of mine also has green eyes and uses green eyeliner & it looks really kewl
you could also try soemthing like this:
http://acclaimimages.com/photos/aa.jpg
http://www.smashbox.com/site/images/gtl_detail/softsmokydetail.jpg
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I don't have time for a shower in the morning, so I take one before bed. And sometimes I'll wake up and my hair is frizzy. Is there a quick way to bring down the frizz????
maybe try not to take one exactly before bed. i have the same thing .. i go to bed at about 10:30 on a schoolday so i shower at about 8 so my hair is quite dry when i go to bed & doesnt fizz too much.
plus it feels better because going to bed with wet hair is really annoying i think :/
i'd say try showering about 2 hours before you go to bed cause then your hair will be dry.
& of course you can use anti frizz spray etc..
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