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Do I have a right to be upset with my boyfriend?
21/F
Me and my boyfriend of four years have a long distance relationship and this is just one of many typical conversations I have with him:
"Him: so is that a no to seeing you this weekend?
Me: yea :( I'm on vacation with *best friends name* family for the weekend I would invite u but it's pretty far
Him: I don't mind the drive
Me: good to know :)
Him: lol why?
Me: cause it actually means you care enough to come see me even if it's really far and that means a lot to me... It's nice to sometimes have confirmation that you really do care
Him: your welcome!"
And that was it i havent talked to him since Saturday. Is it wrong that I'm upset that all he had to say was your welcome when I told him my feelings? It's not just that one time but it's all the time, I'll say something sweet and he'll just be really short with me or change the subject. I mean we don't hardly see each other and anyone in a l.d. relationship knows how important showing affection through text is, but he no longer gives me that and it just hurts. he use to always send me cute stuff to make sure I felt special and doesn't do that anymore I practically have to pry a sweet comment from him. Im pretty sure I deserve more right? At this point I'm ready to call it quits. I always make sure he knows how much he means to me and he can't do the same. I miss him already but I can't be the only one giving, right?
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I don't know you or your boyfriend or your relationship, but because I'm from the Internet I'm just going to make assumptions and generalize anyway.
If you're ready to "call it quits" over him not living up to some cutesy level, then your relationship is probably based in bullshit anyway.
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To me it actually sounds like he wanted to come with you and that he was quite upset because you didn't respond to that. you told him that you'd invite him but that you think that it may be too far for him to which he replied that it's not which sounds to me like he wanted you to tell him that he can come after all ..
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