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More than friendzoned
Hey! I'm 15 and female.
I've gone through a lot, but of course one of my problems has to be a guy :/
Basically, I met him, we hit it off. I didn't like him at first. I thought I'd end up friendzoning him, but I started to like him. And not for shallow reasons. Lot's of guys call me beautiful, but he's no quarterback, and I really don't mind. He's sweet, smart, and my type, and we spent a lot of time together. If someone my age can fall in love, I did it there.
So when I finally tell him I like him (VERY brave, for me at least), he responds well. Telling me how sweet and beautiful I am. Etc.
Then, the next weekend, my best friend, who knew I liked him, announces they're going out.
And she's so crappy to him. I try to forgive, to be happy for them. But she always insults him, talks about other guys in front of him. She did ABSOLUTELY EVERYTHING but cheat.
All of his friends, my friends, and even her friends told him he has the wrong girl. And I stuck with both of them through it all. I didn't wanna ruin two friendships, even though what my best friend did was bad.
And then, it happened. She cheated. She didn't tell him. She broke up with him and then begged me to tell him. She said she didn't regret cheating. I told her it was her responsibility, but eventually she got me to tell him. At least, he deserved to know anyways. But my best friend has never been a true best friend. She started acting mean. Well, more so than her usual mean self. So I stopped talking to her. I never told her off for all she did. I just stopped.
I've been there for him the whole time.
He and I still talk often (text).
My ex best friend moved, and basically told us that we should go out and she'd be happy for us.
He says he's over her, and I give him space. I don't think he knows I still like him, but basically, I feel forever friend zoned. I've tried everything. He lights up my life, but the fact that he doesn't seem to care about me hurts. I've tried moving on. Doesn't work. Please help. Anything??
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Perhaps he believes you are no longer interested in him due to what had previously happened. Just let him know again. Tell him, that even with all that's happened, you still have feelings for him. No point in being nervous or afraid, you've done it before.
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