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im 16 and ive had depression for about 6 months and it has just gotten gradually worse. I have been seeing a therapist once a week for about the past 4 months and now she said that i should try anti depressants. my mom called another doctor who can presribe me the medication but im not sure when my appointment or if the doctor called back. Im really scared about taking the meds. but im at the point where I just want to be happy again. Ive been looking up on the internet about the medication and it says some of the side affects is weight gain. I really dont want to gain weight since im self concious to begin with. Are all anti depressents commonly diagnosed to teens have this side affect? if it comes down to it i dont know what i should choose... be happy and gain weight.. or be sad and stay the same
this is all too much for me to handle
advice is needed ! (link)
Hi........ If you truely want your happiness back.... you will learn to except you the way you are... but if not... you can just stay depressed I guess. I know it wasn't much help but Ihavent ever been depressed or anything soo... I did the best I could. (p.s. not all anti~depressants have a side affect of weight gain.)


15/f

well, i've been with my boyfriend for about 11 months. and the thing is, i'm not sure how i feel at the moment. i KNOW i can do better, because he treats me bad at times, and he gets too overly paranoid. he gets paranoid by saying that i can't talk to guys. -___-" and he got mad at me for going to target after school with my friend, which is a girl. because he says that there are probably guys there... but anywho.. i seem to be annoyed with him often also. but yet when something happens that could possibly break us up.. that's when i start getting scared.. but i don't do anything about it. i don't get as scared as i used to.. but i still get scared and nervous. when he used to say "never let me go" i feel touched and stuff, and he said that to me today, i didn't feel anything.. i just changed the subject. So, what's going on? am i losing feelings for him? am i not getting enough sleep or something? or am i just annoyed with him at the moment..?

what should i do? please & thank you! (link)
Alright honey.... he needs to back off and give you some space,..... athat's the only way you are actually going to have a healthy relationship... ok???? Just tell him this: "Listen.... I think that maybe you should trust me enough and believe me that I do really care aboutn you and I wouldn't even look towards another boy if he came by. If you eally do care about me you would trust me... please. What I'm trying to say here is I guess you should give me some space and a breather or I can't go on." If he isn't effected or it turns out the wrong way... you are definitly wayyy too good for him. If he is paranoid he mcares about you so..... saying that should effect him, but if not... he is not worth it... and I know that's hard to except.... but.......... some day you will regret not excepting it.


Well, I started going out with this guy a few days ago. We talked on myspace and stuff, but when we finally got to see each other at school,it's all awkward and stuff. He doesn't talk very much, and he's my brother's best friend. Now, this means that I have to start all the topics, which I CAN'T DO. Normally I'm crazy and hyper around my friends and I used to be that way around him but it's different now. It's like when we're together, he just stands there. Is there any way I can loosen up around him? I've tried being with him around my friends but it doesn't work, i'm still really quiet. Help? (link)
Ok soo..... he must be nervouse if he's quiet which means he really like you... soo... don't be scared about him not liking you ok??? What I would try doing is just like not hanging out with him around your brother and think up a few topic starters to kind of get him started.... he should be ok the rest of the time... but if he isn't,.... I'm here to help. If he barely makes eyes contact with you it means he's scared. And... if you are hott............ don't blame him for that ok? If he is too shy for youn and you like a more "outgoing conversation starter," then just let him off easy. But if you do really like him, as time passess.......... things will lossen up... oo please just don't stress.


I have had my period for 5 years now and now i think i'm getting cramps too! (cause i can feel them)
why is that? it's so confusing (link)
It's ok...... everyone gets them!~!~!~! It's because your lining is being replaced and of course it is going to hurt a little.... midol really helps me... you should try it ok?????? I've only had mine for liek a year... but I'm a pretty mature 6th grader... bye bye.


I make skins on bebo and i really need some new inspiration and pictures

Can you give me some
funny/happy/sad etc quotes

Or give me some suggestions because im running out of ideas! I usually photobucket for images!

Please come up with suggestions it would really help (link)
Ok..... so a good love quote would be............... "Baby I'm in love with you and trying to explain that is like trying to explain how water tastes, it's impossible." And the background shoudl be like this.............

http://s206.photobucket.com/albums/bb275/serene914/backgrounds/?action=view¤t=LoVe.jpg

http://i206.photobucket.com/albums/bb275/serene914/backgrounds/LoVe.jpg



[IMG]http://i206.photobucket.com/albums/bb275/serene914/backgrounds/LoVe.jpg[/IMG]


Ya... i know I'm good.


how do you get softer skin? (link)
I wouldl say to use some lotion twice daily and you should see results soon.


Every weekend my boyfriend gose to his moms or to his friends. He hates to use the phone but I ask him to call me so that we can talk and he never dose. I end up crying most of the time because we never talk over weekends or vacations..What should I do?
Love Funsize (link)
Ok honey...... If my bf ever did that to me.......... he'd be IN TROUBLE. If he really did care about you he would call........................ And if he doesn't, he is NOT worth crying for. My bf would never do that to me which is why we are celebratin our 4 month aniversery soon. And... try calling him sometime too.... i mean if you want to talk that bad.


16/f

i've had two bf's in the past and they both said i was an amazing kisser, but i felt like it was them, not me. i don't feel like i'm doing some things right sometimes. I have a new bf now and we haven't gotten around to kissing yet.

so i was wondering if anyone has any special hints i could have to be confident in my own kissing? sounds weird, but i want to get better.

thanks in advance. :) (link)
Hi.... My name is Sydney and I'm barely 13....... and me and my bf have been going out for four months now. So.... if you're talking about french kissing................ you should prolly put your tongue in a "U" shape and he will automatically put his straight up and down... or you could spell eachother's name. Regualar kissing...... just tilt your head a little more to the side and things will turn out GREAT.... believe me.




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