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did i just have sex?
i know what your thinking... "is this chick stupid?" but hear me out. me & this boy were messing around & he was fingering me. then he started rubbing his "head" on my vagina. he told me i was too tight to even go in ,but through out the time i guess i kinda got a little loosened up or whatever. he said that "only the head was there." no idea what that meant. i just kept telling him to please not go in whatever he did. i don't wanna lose my virginity at 15. so did i just have sex? :/ i wasn't meaning to go that far. OH & he was cumming while rubbing it on my clit. so could i get pregnant? he told me no. idk.
please help . :(
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I was going to say exactly what dear abby said pretty much. All I really want to add is you are most likely not pregnant. It sounds like this is your first time doing anything sexual & aren't very educated with this. But please remember there are ways to protect yourself, like the pill, condoms, morning after pill, etc. Our world is over populated enough, so be safe:)
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Being a virgin is identified by different things by different people. It is not identified by breaking your hymen scientifically, because not all women even have hymens. For homosexual people, they can't even have penis to vagina penetration but they still can lose their virginity. Typically its qualified as penetration. Did his penis go in you? Then you may consider yourself to not be a virgin. Some people don't consider it sex if he doesn't ejaculate. I think you would have felt him going in you, so you probably are a virgin.
If his penis was in your vagina and he ejaculated, you could be pregnant. Don't let a boy give you sexual advice. They can mislead you and take advantage of you. Go to your doctor or local free clinic and get the advice you need, and possibly a pregnancy test.
-Abby
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Scientifically lossing your virginity is breaking your hymen. If he did not enter you far enough to do so then scientifically you are a virgin still. Obviously there are different views on this some religion views and personal uneducated views. There is a slim chance of pregnancy so i would watch for a missed period if i were you and i would also be checked for any stds. I lost my virginity at 15 as well and i know i was uneducated about sex. My advice to you is to educate yourself before trying to be a adult. Virginity is somethign you can only give away once. Educate yourself before trying anything else sexual if you choose to become sexually active.
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You know plan b is at best 80% effective when taken immediately after, and the effectiveness decreases every hour after you have sex. Don't you?
You're awfully smug for someone who had to preface her question with "I know what you're thinking 'is this chick stupid'"
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Yes, you could get pregnant. He got semen directly on and around your vagina, pregnancy is a real possibility.
No, you aren't really a virgin anymore. Virginity is more than just not having had a dick inside you. It's a reference to sexual purity, as in innocence of the knowledge of carnal pleasures.
In laymans terms, you know all about sex and sexual desire, and you've come close and done enough that you aren't an innocent anymore. You're not a virgin.
Get over it. Virginity isn't important, being intelligent and responsible is. In the real world, in adult terms, you'd be far better off if you'd chosen to have sex and used protection, even gotten on birth control. As it is, you're a 15 year old child who is imitating adult sexuality without knowing what the hell she's doing or how much she's screwing with her future.
Close your legs and keep your clothes on. Period. You aren't ready for sex, and if you're stupid enough to let another guy in your pants without a condom for him and some birth control for you, you deserve what you get.
Sadly, the kid you'll probably end up having will not.
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Some might say you did have sex, others might not. Technically, you had a penis inside of you, and that's what sex is defined as. In the end, though, it's all up to you and what you think.
You could absolutely be pregnant from him ejaculating on you. In addition, you were at serious risk of STI transmission, because he obviously wasn't wearing a condom.
My advice is to get to the doctor ASAP to get yourself tested for STIs, and to keep an eye on your period. If you're late, take a home pregnancy test.
In the future, always make sure that anyone who has any sexual contact with you is making a condom! It's all about protecting your body. If he won't wear one, he doesn't respect your right to a healthy body and you should toss him to the curb.
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Yes, you did just have intercourse and I think it was highly inappropriate for this boy to do that to you and if it were me I would make sure that he didn't get away with it, but that's up to you and if there's anyone in authority (hopefully your parents) that you can share this with that you trust. There's always a chance that you could get pregnant but if he was not inside of you while cumming then the chances are extremely low. I would also talk to your doctor about getting tested for std's since obviously he wasn't wearing a condom
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i'd say that once a penis enters your vagina you had sex. but as the person below me said, different people are gonna tell you different things.
as for the pregnant thing: there is deffinetly a chance that your pregnant cause the sperm might've gotten into your vagina.
and next time you should really use a condom cause even if you didnt have full on sex there was a chance of him cumming while "only the head was there"
so be careful!
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Okay, first of all if you are NOT ready to have sex, then you probably are putting yourself in a really bad situation with your boyfriend. He is a boy and when those hormones get raging they completely forget about you and how you are feeling about it. Now as for if you had sex, I think that depends on translation, different people are going to tell you different things. Sex is classified as penis inside vagina to most people, and the head of his penis did go inside of you, but others may say if your cherry did not burst(unless it already has because of him fingering you or some sort of activity) then you are still a virgin. I would say that yes you did sorta have sex, although not full on. And yes you could get pregnant, if his sprem even gets near your vagina then there is a chance, sperm is crafty and has one goal, to get to your egg. If you have your period already then yes there is chance that you can get pregnant.
I advise sitting down and really thinking about whether or not you are ready to have sex, if not, then do NOT put yourself in this position with your boyfriend again. Let him know where you stand and if he starts to go too far(like it seems he did this time) stop him. If he really cares about you he will understand, if not he isn't worth it. Also, if you are thinking of becoming sexually active please please please think about protection, such as the birth control pill, patch, or shot, and condoms. If you feel as though you are not ready, let your boyfriend know and stand your ground.
If you need to talk further you may email me at bacardii_caddy@yahoo.com.
Good Luck :)
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