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I cant stop loveing him.
Okay well there is this boy that I am in love with.Also he liked me last year and we where really getting along and we where like best friends and I was loveing it.So when this new girl comes he starts likeing her and is being mean to me and acting really strange.But than summer came and I was getting over him untill the first day of school I fell for him again And I have no clue why its scareing me I really want to get over him and I want this girl gone.So please help me.
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Ah omg this happened to me too! I was finally just about to get back with my exboyfriend of 2 years after we've been broken up for 6 months. I was soooo excited, but then this girl comes to my school from all the way across the country and ruins everything. God its so annoying I just wish the girl would go back to where she came from and I bet that's how you feel too.
Well, you have two options. First, you can eather get over him or make him jelous.
To get over him, you have to totally completely forget about him. You may think it's impossible, but you can do it! Don't even LOOK at this boy!! The second you do, you'll fall back in love with him. You have to get yourself a new guy that is so cute that will make you wonder why you even liked the other guy. That will deffinately help you get over him.
To make him jelous, it's hard, but possible. When you see him in school or whatever, pretend you don't know he's there. Hold your head up high and walk right by. Try hooking up with one of his friends. Even someone older or cuter that's not his friend will make him jelous. Most importantly, act like you don't care. If it seems he's rubbing him and this new girl in your face, he's trying to make you jelous. So, just pretend it doesn't bother you. That will make him mad. Give him what he don't want!!!
I hope I helped!! Good luck hun :)
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There's never going to be a real answer for this.
"You don't fall out of love with one, until you fall into it with another"
I love that quote, except for the fact, how're you ever going to love another if you don't let go of the first one to an extent of letting yourself even be with someone else, and feel right about it.
You could talk to him about it,
or make the move to put it in the past, and work on REALLY getting over him.
There's always going to be other options, even if you don't even really look at them as options at first.
It'll be hard. honestly.
and even though it feels like you can't. You can. it happens to everyone, and everytime it's going to feel worse. but that's all leading up to the good one, the keeper. :]
Just stay positive. Keep yourself busy, maybe you'll start thinking of him less.
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Coming in second always hurts. But if you tell him how you feel and that you think that girl took your place yo can scoot up to first. Guys love it when they're being chased. It makes them feel wanted. Give it a little bit of time. If he still doesn't notice you, go for it. Tell him that you can't get over him and that you really want him in your life. Telling the truth will always make you feel better but will also make him feel better about the situation. If you feel uncomforatable talking to him then you can just try to be friends for awhile and then tell him how you feel. Waiting to state never hurt anyone.
hope this helps!
Let me know how it worked out!
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