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Stupid Boys(please Help Me)
Okay so ill give u sum background.. me and this guy we'll say his name is tyler dated for 5 months. I fell so in love with him at the beginning of the relationship then he was different later on in the relationship and all we ever did was fight and argue and he was insecure so he was really protective and would freak out if another guy talked or texted me. So then we finally broke up. We broke up almost a week ago. Well, we still talk and he wants to be with me but thinks he messed up too bad. most of the time when we talk he acts like im still his girlfriend or like im his property and goes around threating people. He irritates me soo much but I cant seem to get over him and when he mentions his chick friends it drives me crazy and makes me sort of jealous. When other guys ask me out and things i feel like im cheating. How do I get over him? So i can move on with my life??
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Think About this Question for a second, do you WANNA get over him??
Or do you just not feel right with him and you wanna go into other people???
Start a new and fresh life with some one else?
If you want that then you have to start talking to other guys...just as friends to begin things.
Then, you find one your really into and you'll eventually think of tyler just as a FRIEND.
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Tyler is abusive. The way he acts is violent, even though there may not be any physical hurting. The way he acts is jealousy gone out of control, and he is possessive. You guys did not have a healthy relationship, and you won't in the future. So don't think about it. Just realize that you'll never be happy in this violence cycle. i suggest to go to a guidance counselor, recommend to them that Tyler should visit them too, and get out there and find some people who won't abuse you. I would give you more information for an organization called the Katie Brown Organization which is founded by the family of a girl killed by domestic violence, but they don't have a website. Good Luck!
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Hmm this is tough. I have the same problem with getting over my ex. Its been 8 months sense we've been broken up and everyday that goes by, I miss him more. The only difference is, I want my ex back. I think what you really need is a really good boyfriend thats fun, there for you and who gives you your space. Tell "tyler" that you still do like him, but you cant go on with him because it never works out between the two of you so you need to move on. Trust me, its not worth it if all you do is fight, your waisting time. There are so many boys out there waiting for you that could be the best thing in your world. Having a better boyfriend than "tyler" will most likely make you realize how much of a jerk he really is now that you know what a good boyfriend is. That will probably help you get over him.
Ughhh. Stupid boysss! They're nothing but problems. Haha
Hope I helped, good luck ;)
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You can't just get over someone. It takes time for that to happen. if you want to get over someone try to not think about them or try going out with another person in which you have your eye on. but you can't jsut tell your self that you are over someone and for it to work. it takes time and you have to be patient for everything to work. but if you want to move on, then just try and forget about him, or look at all the bad things that you didn't like about him like him saying that you were his property and just say o, well i guess i don't like him as much as i thought and that might help you get over him but you will need time, don't puch it. it could just make the situation worst if you push it. so just relax and try not to think about it but have fun. Good luck and i hope everything works out.
~sealgirl~
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If you really want to get over him, ask him to just stop talking to you so much. Tell him that you really want to get over him(and be nice about it), but that you can't with him constantly saying he wants to get back together. Tell him that the breakup is final-- you both need a little more closure. And he's probably mentioning his girl friends to make you jealous, so don't let it get to you. Tell him that you don't just need to get away from your relationship, but you need to get away from him. Once that's final, give yourself a good week to wallow. Be upset, eat ice cream out of the container, and watch tragic romance movies. But after that week, get right back on your feet and go looking for some more guys!
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