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Is he lying???
16/f
This is kinda long.. I'm 16 and i'm dating a 19 yr old. He has a baby thats 3 and his babys mom pregnant again... Now they live together but he says nothing is going on. And she got pregnant while me and him were broken up. We have been together a year on and off.. And I completely love this boy and i've tried to let him go but its so hard. Within the first month i found out he was dating another girl but they never saw each other so i didnt care and then the first time we broke up he started messing with this girl and hes cheated on me a hundred times with her but now he says they're done for good. but i'm not too sure if i believe him.. this is a mess what do i do.. and if you think i should break up with him please tell me how to get over him and just know that i see him a lot its my brothers best friend
THANKs
Lynzi
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He's got to go, it'll just get worse from here. If you really want to get over him, just hangout with YOUR friends more and try your best to stay away from him and when you do have to see him make sure you treat him just like you would a friend and as hard as it is, eventually thats all you'll see him as.
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Hi,
Right - get him out your life now. He clearly cannot be trusted as far as you could throw him and serial cheaters don't normally change! Based on all the other cheating I think there is no chance he is telling the truth regarding the woman he is living with. There are two children involved in this and it's going to turn into a horrible mess very soon. You have no real ties to this man or this situation so get your self out of it. Sticking around would be like pushing the self destruct button.
As for how to get over it, there is no easy way unfortunately and its something we all have to go through but in two words TIME and FRIENDS.
Good luck... Take care
Chandler
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wow, theres soo many things wrong with that statement, i dont even know where to begin. firsst off, why the hell is your man livin with another women? what the hell, girl? AND its his babys mama!? uhuh., no. why you lettin that fly? dont even say its because he wants to be with his kid.. ever heard of visitation? second... what makes you think your boyfriends not gettin it on at night wit his babys mama when they live togetha. especially when you know she pregnant!! and he lives with her!! and you KNOW he cheated before, and it was when you guys were broken up. so there you go. but 2 and 2 togetha girl, she pregnant wit yoa mans baby. uhuh., no. hun, i know you love him and its hard to hear this, but if you guys have only been goin out for a year, and hes fucked up that many times already, it aint gunna last. think about ur future, and dont lie to yourself. you know yous wont be togetha wit a family 10 yrs from now. AND he addmitted to cheatin in the first month. whether dey saw eachother or not, how you gunna just say you dont care and let that go? how you gunna let a man treat you like that? the more hes seein that your lettin it slide, the more hes gunna do it to YOU because he knows he'll get away wit it. now your sayin he cheated on you a hundred times and now hes sayin its done for good. i bet you believed that the other 100 times, didnt you? what makes you think this times really gunna be different? girl, check yaself. look at you. you must be a mess. ya need to let him go. you know you should. but you holdin yourself back for what you think is love. fact- theres always someone better than the last. wheather you believe it or not, its true. and i know itll be hard. you just have to comletely let go of him. this worked for me.- i threw away and shreded all of my memories of my exboyfriend, and when i see him, i look the other way. thats what you gotta do. pretend he doesnt exist and forget everything. it took me a year to get over mine and its tough., i know. but when i finally realized i didnt need him anymore and i threw all the shit away, it felt so good. and i found someone 46327364 times better. (= does your brother know his best friends treatin you this way? maybe you should fill him in. i know my brother wouldnt let that go by ;) anyways... you dont need him, i have faith in you. and all the girls goin through this. just let it go (=
good luck hun, and i hope i helped <3
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You would have to be an idiot to believe this guy isn't, or wont, cheat.
I don't think you are an idiot: I think you know this guy is scum and not worth another moment of your time. Just be grateful that you aren't pregnant by him.
Break up with him, then avoid him the best of your ability. If he comes over to your home: Go out. If your brother insists on talking about him to you, ask him to stop. Surely your brother doesn't WANT you going out with a nineteen yearold cheating ass with two kids even if he is friends with this loser! So he should support you in this breaking up and stay far away from this guy.
Then you just need to cry it out and GET over him. I afriad there is no trick to this. You just have to make it happen and stay busy. Getting over someone doesn't just happen, you have to work hard at it.
Good luck.
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