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so ya me and my bf like having oral and i was wondering, he likes to stick his tounge all the way up my vagina, and i mean ALL the way! is that normal?
also, my boobs are huge, theyre D's, and i have a friend who isnt my bf, but he really likes to squeeze my boobs and touch my when im naked. is that cheating? (link)
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Yup, very normal.
and YES, that is definatly cheating, being naked with someone who isn't your boyfriend is cheating too, so keep your clothes on. :)
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just a simple question. what is cheating. cause honeslty i don't know. i mean i know sex and kissing is but..is there more to cheating than physically? cause sometimes i feel like i might be cheating on my boyfriend even though i've never done anything sexually with anyone else. (link)
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I think that cheating is when you act on feeling that you have for someone other than a boyfriend/husband. Even flirting with someone who isn't your boyfriend.
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I've been seeing this girl for about 5 months online. Before then, we did all kinds of stuff for about 9 months. I'm not completely sure how I feel about her.
Before I started seeing her, I was in a horrible relationship. I had those sparks you're supposed to have when you kiss, but that was about it. It became obvious that she was crazy and I was scarred from it ((convincing me to have unprotected sex after making me incredibly depressed, then saying she wants to get pregnant and doesn't care who the father is. Treating me poorly in public. Lying to me and several important things and lying about me. etc...)) She came onto me a couple of months ago and the sparks were gone.
Anyway, I saw the girl I'm seeing now for the first time last week. I kissed her and there weren't very many sparks. It was nice. For the longest time, I was worried that I simply wasn't attracted to her enough. Sure, I thought she was pretty, but I wasn't sure if that was enough. She stayed a week with me and left today. I wasn't sure how I felt about her, but I knew I cared for her more than anyone else.
After I got back from dropping her off at the airport, I noticed dishes that she left out and her bed was still unmade. I broke down into tears and have been crying off and on since. It wasn't just because she is gone, but that's what set it off. I'm not the type of guy who cries because my best friend leaves, so I think my feelings are far deeper than friendship.
I want to stay with her, but I'm afraid that I'll always be afraid of getting close. Other things scare me about the whole thing (We live 27 hours away from each other, she's only 17 and I'm 23) and probably contribute to my fears. But I cried so hard for her. Harder than I can remember ever crying before. It's more than friendship. Most of the time I'm comfortable with her in my arms.
I'm wondering if anyone else thinks the same. Is there no chemistry or am I still just scarred from my last horrid relationship? I should mention that she's the only girl that has gotten me to cum with a condom on. Sex seems to be great, but kissing is only just nice. I have plans to go to her house for a month this summer. I think I might love her, but I'm still confused. Is there any advice on how to deal with this situation. (link)
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I'd say just be casual until your sure that she's what you want. Don't worry so much about it, I know thats hard to do but if you keep thinking about it so much you'll eventually convince yourself that she's to much trouble but thats not true, it's just you overthinking it. The sparks will come on their own. The distance can complicate things because you don't form that physical relationship the same way you do when your close and can actually see and touch each other all the time but those feelings are still there so it makes things a little akward when your are actually together. When and if you two can actually live closer it'll fix itself.
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hi. i'm a freshman. and i kinda like this junior. it's possible he has herpes. what do i do?
do i have a chance with him even though hes a junior.. and if he has herpes.. what happens then? (link)
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You deffinatly have a chance with a junior guys will usually date younger. (every guy i've ever dated has.)
ahh, Herpes, that's complicated. Theres medicines for that kind of thing. You have to just think about it. Does he mean that much to you that you would risk getting herpes and having to live with it your entire life and be willing to tell your husband "I've got herpes, I got it from a guy when I was 14, a freshman in highschool." and you have to consider how he got herpes... from a steady girlfriend that he had for a really long time, from some girl... he doesn't know which one because he's done alot of stuff with ALOT of girls, or because he cheated on a girlfriend with some slut who had herpes? That can tell you alot about him, BE CAREFUL not only with your body but with your heart :)
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My boyfriend and I have made out and he's gone farther with me than I have with him. He's felt my chest, fingered me, and nearly performed oral on me. I haven't even reached second with him. I'm ready for it but i'm inexperianced so I don't really know how to go about it. Everyone says it comes naturally but this isnt really, since I don't even have a general idea how to go about it. Please let me know or if you'd like, guide me to some helpful websites. Thanks! (link)
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My best advice turn it into a joke. Tell him that you're not very good at it and then just don't be embarressed. Just have fun with it :)
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13/F/Canada
Well I am going to tell you the whole story form start to finish sorry if it is long I will try my best to not detail it as much.
Well, on Saturday there was this guy named Dillon on webcam with me and we were talking, all of a sudden he asks "Will you go out with me?" And I said what are u joking?! And he said no! And I could see the grin on his face. Dillon is a big joker so I though it was another one of his jokes like they always are, so I kept on saying no and I asked my bestfriend if it was true and she said she asked him and she said he said it wasn't true so I okay and I told him no again, then Eric said it was true and I didn't beleive him either because Dillon was sleeping over at Eric's. So he had to go, we said good-bye and stuff and we logged off. At school on Monday Dillon woulden't even so much as look at me when we got in class!! Then he started telling all of his guy friends, and they were all saying "Dude that was harst you said no to him" And I said " I though he was joking like he always is!?" And they said no and everyone is bugging me that I said no to him. But the only reason why I didn't go out with him is becuase if I did say yes and it was a joke then he would bug me that I like him and that I said yes to him. But I REALLY like him and I messed up big time! I am soo upset..:(. Everyone is telling me to tell him that I though he was joking and that I want to go out with him but I want to wait for him to ask me out again.. Everyone thinks thats wrong, I have liked Dillon for 6 years and now he asks me out and I mess it all up. . . Help Me Please! (link)
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I agree, tell him you thought he was joking and that you want to date him. :)
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13/F
ok.... so i yesterday i could see it in my friends eyes that she was keeping something from me. So I calmly talked to her about and she told me that her boyfriend (my x'friend) made fun of her two best friends. He said that I was fat and he said that Melonhead was a lesbian and had bad hair. He was already a jerk but I just couldn't take this anymore. I was going to talk to him about it but I cant because Katie promised him she wouldn't tell that he made fun of us. So now, pease dont judge me but i told her that she had to choose... would she rather have a friend or a boyfriend. That sounds rude but I am just offended that my best friend would go out with a creep that makes fun of me. I am sorry that this is so long but please help me.
thank you (link)
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Okay, so you 13. This won't even be important 3 months from now, this boyfriend probably won't last long either for her. She'll probably go through alot of them in her life (because, we all do. Its extremely rare to marry someone you started dating when your 13, it just doesn't happen.) SO if you don't want to lose your bestfriend then I'd say you just tough it out and realize that he won't be around forever and just be a good friend to her. Sometimes being a good friend means just grinning and bearing it. Just think about it, if your boyfriend called her fat and she said "choose between us now" how would you feel? Good luck.
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16/f
This is kinda long.. I'm 16 and i'm dating a 19 yr old. He has a baby thats 3 and his babys mom pregnant again... Now they live together but he says nothing is going on. And she got pregnant while me and him were broken up. We have been together a year on and off.. And I completely love this boy and i've tried to let him go but its so hard. Within the first month i found out he was dating another girl but they never saw each other so i didnt care and then the first time we broke up he started messing with this girl and hes cheated on me a hundred times with her but now he says they're done for good. but i'm not too sure if i believe him.. this is a mess what do i do.. and if you think i should break up with him please tell me how to get over him and just know that i see him a lot its my brothers best friend
THANKs
Lynzi (link)
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He's got to go, it'll just get worse from here. If you really want to get over him, just hangout with YOUR friends more and try your best to stay away from him and when you do have to see him make sure you treat him just like you would a friend and as hard as it is, eventually thats all you'll see him as.
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so an ex of mine from about three months ago wants me back. we havent seen each other at school very much the past month and last month he decided to ask a friend of both of ours out- not a good friend of mine though- and she turned him down. Then last saturday at a fundraiser for our wrestling team, he was there and we started talking, and he tried to kiss me. well, ever since last weekend, he keeps hinting that he wants to go back out with me and that he is gonna let me know what the deal is on fiday, as in, what his thoughts are. so he might ask me out on friday. now, i dont know if i want to go back out with him. here are the pro's and con's
pros:
My best friend erika, who knows the whole story, told me that i should give him another chance, and i trust her.
he was sweet when we dated, and i was happy with him.
he has changed in some good ways.
we are no longer on the wrestling team, so less having to keep a secret from the team that we were dating, cuz we'd have gotten in trouble.
these two girls that were causing major problems with us, are no lo9nger in the picture.
i like being around him.
his mom might lay off- his mom really really didnt like me. shes seriosuly a freeeeaaakkk.
she told me that she didnt want him being in a relationship at the time and she told me that if i didnt stay away from him then she'd file a restraining order against me. lol
con's
phsycho mom
parents dont like him
when we werent together, he went back and forth with girls
some friends dont want me to date him again.
please help me with what i should do!!! (link)
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sounds like you really don't want him back but you don't have any reason other than you just don't want to but thats okay. I'd say don't do it. There will be a guy that you want to be with because you just do, no pro-con list needed to figure it out. Don't waste your time with this guy :)
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okay im 14/f and my bf spent the night at my house, we made out big time. i sat on his lap facing him, and he went hard, i think he might have spermed but he doesn't know, i was wearing sweat pants and so was he so is their a posibility that im pregnat? (link)
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No, you are not.
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Would you rather love a loser or lose a lover? Why? (link)
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Love a loser, because If you loved them you wouldn't see them as a loser anyways.
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