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HELP I MIGHT BE PREGNAT
okay im 14/f and my bf spent the night at my house, we made out big time. i sat on his lap facing him, and he went hard, i think he might have spermed but he doesn't know, i was wearing sweat pants and so was he so is their a posibility that im pregnat?
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The only way you could possibly get pregnant from that would have to be if he soaked your pants with himself at your vagina.
Sperm need a moist environment to move in. They are little bitty creatures with tails--the tail flutters and propels them throughout the moist area. They are very small so there IS a chance they can swim through fabric as long as it was throughly moistened. These little guys were designed to ensure reproduction--that is the only reason they are alive; they will do what they can to find the goal.
As a side note, if you're not entirely sure how one gets pregnant then you may want to think about what you're doing a little more carefully. This was sort-of a silly question to most users on this site--do you really think you're knowledgeable enough to handle the consequences of sexual activities?
I am simply concerned for your health and safety. I feel like I should bring some things to your attention that you may have overlooked or that you simply were not aware of before. I only want you to be in the best situation possible.
Before starting sexual activity you and your partner should both be very aware of all possible consequences. It is important to be informed so that nobody is hurt in any way. You should really check out some photos of STDs/STIs and what pregnancy at such a young age does to a woman's body before rushing into things. Like I said, it's better to be informed than to trip into something you're absolutely clueless about.
STDs:
Many people now have STDs or STIs and don't even know it. Mothers can also pass their STDs onto their babies so everyone is pretty much at risk of having something they can pass along to others. It's important to be picky on who you have sexual relations with because if you contract an STD/STI from them then some really bad things can happen--including life-long illness, infertility, and brain deterioration.
No method of birth control is 100% effective. Even if you use two methods of birth control there is still a pregnancy risk. No matter what birth control you use, you also risk contracting an STD or STI.
Here is a list of some super scary facts about STDs. You'd be surprised at how many people now have some sort of STD and how much money we put toward trying to cure them. This is a really interesting link and it gives you a lot of think about and discuss with your partner:
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Here is also a link of photos of various STDs. Most of the photos are of males but there are a few female photos in there. Some are very scary. Don't worry about many photos popping up when you click the link, they're behind other links so you can choose which ones you might want to check out:
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Pregnancy:
One night of sex can result in creating another life or living with a disease the rest of yours. I know many people who lost their virginity and became pregnant (or had gotten the girl pregnant) the same night. They weren't emotionally ready to have children but they made one mistake and they now have a tough road ahead of them trying to make enough money and time for their child. Having a child means being completely selfless because they need 100% of your attention 100% of the time. Having children means major sacrifices, especially in the emotional department.
Even if you think that you can have an abortion if there happens to be a pregnancy, consider the consequences of that action too. Some women suffer major depression for many years after having an abortion. There are cases of women committing suicide years after having an abortion because they couldn't deal with what they had done. Some women become infertile and can no longer have any children. Some really good men refuse to be with a woman who has had an abortion. Throwing a life away because you wanted to have some fun should be an unacceptable option.
You're aware you're not financially and emotionally ready to be a parent or you wouldn't worry about pregnancy. I'm sure you want to give your future children the best possibly life and if you contract an STD you may not be able to have children, may be too sick to raise them completely, or may pass something along to them. It would be especially scary if your partner impregnated you and then left the relationship for you to handle all of the childcare.
Here are some facts about how much a baby costs within the first year of life; you should really check it out just for future issues as the knowledge could come in very handy:
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Virginity:
Virginity should be more valuable than we make it. The media feeds us a bunch of crap telling us that if we love someone we should give them our bodies. Instead we should be showing our love in other ways and making wedding night extra special for that person. Contrary to popular belief, sex does not make us attractive, rich, famous, liked, or popular.
Here is a link about some things you should think about before engaging in sex. Even if you've already lost your virginity or are definite on losing it, it's still really interesting to look at. The site really makes you think about things you overlooked before:
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Communication and Knowledge:
Before engaging in any sexual activity you need to sit down and discuss everything with your partners. He needs to be just as informed as you are. He needs to know all of the little details--the good and the bad. Have him check out the links with you if possible so he knows the facts too.
I wish you luck on becoming more knowledgeable about sexual activity so that we don't see you again here in fear of a pregnancy.
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I don't know what "pregnat" is, but you're not pregnaNt.
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No, you are not.
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I am a Certified Medical Assistant and have been for 4 years and I can tell you there is absolutley no way in hell you are pregnant.
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Don't panic... there is no chance of you becoming pregnant from this at all!!
Chan
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No,your're not pregnant you won't naked.
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no theres like a teeny tiny chance that you could be pregnant. and its not spermed, its cummed. but yeah i wouldnt worry about it babe. <33
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No !
There'd probably be alittle chance only if, you both were naked, you were sitting on him and he spermed near or on you, by your vaginal area.
So no, you're not pregnant most likely.
Hope I Helped !
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there is no chance in hell you're pregnant. even if you had unprotected sex, it wouldn't be a 100% chance that you would be.
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No, you not only might not be pregnant, you are not pregnant. If he "spermed but doesn't know" then it would've had to travel through several layers of clothing. Plus one would kind of assume you know when you cum, so I'd say he didn't.
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There is a very very very small chance, if any, that you are pregnant. The sperm would have had to make it through his underwear, both your sweats, and your underwear, so it is highly unlikely.
Hope I Helped.
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Girl , come on . Your not pregnate .
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