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yes or no...??


Question Posted Wednesday April 2 2008, 3:05 pm

so an ex of mine from about three months ago wants me back. we havent seen each other at school very much the past month and last month he decided to ask a friend of both of ours out- not a good friend of mine though- and she turned him down. Then last saturday at a fundraiser for our wrestling team, he was there and we started talking, and he tried to kiss me. well, ever since last weekend, he keeps hinting that he wants to go back out with me and that he is gonna let me know what the deal is on fiday, as in, what his thoughts are. so he might ask me out on friday. now, i dont know if i want to go back out with him. here are the pro's and con's
pros:
My best friend erika, who knows the whole story, told me that i should give him another chance, and i trust her.

he was sweet when we dated, and i was happy with him.

he has changed in some good ways.

we are no longer on the wrestling team, so less having to keep a secret from the team that we were dating, cuz we'd have gotten in trouble.

these two girls that were causing major problems with us, are no lo9nger in the picture.

i like being around him.

his mom might lay off- his mom really really didnt like me. shes seriosuly a freeeeaaakkk.
she told me that she didnt want him being in a relationship at the time and she told me that if i didnt stay away from him then she'd file a restraining order against me. lol

con's

phsycho mom

parents dont like him

when we werent together, he went back and forth with girls

some friends dont want me to date him again.

please help me with what i should do!!!


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lizmvickers answered Thursday April 3 2008, 12:52 pm:
sounds like you really don't want him back but you don't have any reason other than you just don't want to but thats okay. I'd say don't do it. There will be a guy that you want to be with because you just do, no pro-con list needed to figure it out. Don't waste your time with this guy :)

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xojessii answered Wednesday April 2 2008, 11:38 pm:
wellll if you like him and he asks you out say yes. but if you don't really like him and your just going out with him for the heck of it. follow your heart.

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