My boyfriend and I have made out and he's gone farther with me than I have with him. He's felt my chest, fingered me, and nearly performed oral on me. I haven't even reached second with him. I'm ready for it but i'm inexperianced so I don't really know how to go about it. Everyone says it comes naturally but this isnt really, since I don't even have a general idea how to go about it. Please let me know or if you'd like, guide me to some helpful websites. Thanks!
xcheerbabex108 answered Tuesday April 1 2008, 7:45 am: Well, to be honest, it really only takes experience.
Like, I know I'm being blunt about this,
but some people are really good, although they don't even know what they're doing.
And some people are just really bad, in general.
I agree that it comes naturally,
though I know how you feel because when I was just starting to try that with my boyfriend, I was like,
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I say you should let him know that you're nervous and that this is kind of like your first time doing this. I'm sure he'll be okay with it.
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