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Getting to 2nd with a guy... My boyfriend and I have made out and he's gone farther with me than I have with him. He's felt my chest, fingered me, and nearly performed oral on me. I haven't even reached second with him. I'm ready for it but i'm inexperianced so I don't really know how to go about it. Everyone says it comes naturally but this isnt really, since I don't even have a general idea how to go about it. Please let me know or if you'd like, guide me to some helpful websites. Thanks!
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My best advice turn it into a joke. Tell him that you're not very good at it and then just don't be embarressed. Just have fun with it :) ]
Well, to be honest, it really only takes experience.
Like, I know I'm being blunt about this,
but some people are really good, although they don't even know what they're doing.
And some people are just really bad, in general.
I agree that it comes naturally,
though I know how you feel because when I was just starting to try that with my boyfriend, I was like,
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I say you should let him know that you're nervous and that this is kind of like your first time doing this. I'm sure he'll be okay with it.
Good Luck, hun,
Jess<3 ]
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