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A man who was married lie to me that he is single and said he will marry me and plan to marry me, therefore one night we have intercourse.
Then, due to his personal matters done before, he was jailed for two weeks.
He did lie to me in the very beginning that the case was not a criminal case. In fact it was a criminal case and he was the offender of the case.
When i visit him during his imprisonment, i found that he was married and i met his wife and talk to her for 10 hours, in fact it was his wife helping him to find the victims like me, to "feed" her husband, she provide the account for him to lie that it was his bank account etc..
i loved him so much and he wrote a letter to me that he will marry me immediately if he can be discharged (since the 2 weeks' jail was not a defined time, it depends whether i can get letter of pleading from the person with good social status ). He and his wife both promise me so.
Unexpectedly, after i got five letters of pleading and this guy then discharged from the imprisonment, everything changed , all the promises from the man and his wife gone.
What should i do ? Please help me.... (link)
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there are more people in the world. just wash your hands of this experience and move on.
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okay so i've had a boyfriend for about 2 and a half years and we've been dating on and off, but the longest we stay broken up for is about 2days. anyways a few months back we weren't really doing to good. we fought constantly over everything, and neither of us knew why. So we broke up and i went out with my friends and i was really mad at him, even though i broke up with him, so i hooked up (we only made out nothing too bad right?) with this kid i'd met before. I knew i wasn't over my ex yet though so the next day i told him what happened and how i realized i only wanted him. he was really mad at me and felt hurt and betrayed. however he said he would forgive me and so we got back together. He hasn't forgiven me yet, he is still really hurt by this he tells me how he feels "broken inside" and i want to make it better, he says that i basically cheated on him since we were only broken up for a short period of time. did i? and how can i make him forgive me and understand i'm sorry? please help me. thanks (link)
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first off he shouldnt have even broke up with you in the first place. dont break up over fights thats stupid. if i broke up for every fight with my girl i would break up everyday. but i dont because at the end of the day we realize we love each other and petty stuff doesnt matter. only thing that truly matters is that we care and love each other. hes going to be like that to you for a while because he was expecting you to come back with no problems but it didnt go like that. just take it slow with him and work on the fighting. time fixes everything
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I am 17, and I kind of have my eye on someone. I don't know him well enough to say I like him, but I am definitely interested in getting to know him.
Problem is, he is most definitely older than me. I don't know his age, but I would say he is between 20 and 25.
He is a very good person, smart, worldly, mysterious, funny, etc. I doubt he is in a relationship, but of course, he might be.
Would it be wrong for me to try to get to know him better? Would he even be interested in the company of a 17 year old? Well, no, I know we will have a great time if we were to talk or hang out, but I'm just afraid he won't be receptive because I'm just a 17 year old girl. Or, because he is super friendly, he will be very polite and courteous but deep down he would be thinking "What is this teenager doing around me?"
I just don't know what to do. I'm scared he will reject me now, and screw up any chances we might have for the future because he will remember that day "when a teenager came on to him." And then some 2-3 years later I'll see him and he will be like, "oh no, not you again." What do I do?
He knows my age by the way. (link)
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feel free to dive into this relationship if you have the responsibility and intelligence to exist in it. older people have different views on how relationships should be. just be ready for anything.
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I hate that I'm actually posting this, but here it goes..
I have some self-esteem issues. I'm not pretty, but I think I'm okay with that part. It's just that I don't feel like there's anything to 'balance' that out, you know? There are a ton of girls who are amazing because of their personality, even if they're not incredibly pretty. I'm really not outgoing. I have a problem with being afraid of how people will react to me, if that makes sense.
What sucks the most is that I know where this came from, and I know its stupid, but I can't get over it. Ever since I was really young, my family has compared me to my perfect, insanely pretty cousin. Plus, all my friends are gorgeous. HOW do I get over this?? I want to be able to flirt with a guy without immediately realizing how pointless it is. (link)
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just dont care what people say. i know a lot of ugly people that get with pretty people because of confidence. your worrying to much about what other people gain instead of what you gain. its not anymore self esteem problem as it is being a pessimist.
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I think I might be Schizophrenic.And Im not lying when I say this either. I feel really weird saying this I've only told three people. Well,Sometimes I hallucinate demon and demonic and scary weird stuff. Like when I blink... and it happens so fast that by the time my eyes are opened its already gone. But ill remember it. They're really super graphic and realistic and sometimes I will see like... almost shadows with no face or shape. not normal shadows and they like move either fast or slow and theyre scary.
I see those in my room at night all the time. and I see those with my eyes open.This has happened to me my whole life and it seems to get worse as i get older.I will also seem to feel something brush by my shoulder or tug at my clothes and pull at my hair and when I turn around, nothing is thier. I looked schizophrenia up and it says depression and anxiety are common to have along with it. and I have Severe depression and anxiety so that really got me thinking..So yeah can you tell me whats wrong with me and if I should see a doctor. I dont really wanna tell my mom is their a way I can get around telling her and still get help? I told her once when I was little and she didnt belive me.and she always thinks I lie for attention
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no man. its ok i went through the same thing its just a phase. i went through it for four months. just dont think about it. find something else to do. if your a guy just start hooking up with girls to get that stuff off your head. if your a girl then go shopping. look i went through it its not schizophrenia man its just paranoia. you have a really active imagination. take all the bad stuff in your head and write a book on it. find stuff to distract you
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