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a couple promise gone
A man who was married lie to me that he is single and said he will marry me and plan to marry me, therefore one night we have intercourse.
Then, due to his personal matters done before, he was jailed for two weeks.
He did lie to me in the very beginning that the case was not a criminal case. In fact it was a criminal case and he was the offender of the case.
When i visit him during his imprisonment, i found that he was married and i met his wife and talk to her for 10 hours, in fact it was his wife helping him to find the victims like me, to "feed" her husband, she provide the account for him to lie that it was his bank account etc..
i loved him so much and he wrote a letter to me that he will marry me immediately if he can be discharged (since the 2 weeks' jail was not a defined time, it depends whether i can get letter of pleading from the person with good social status ). He and his wife both promise me so.
Unexpectedly, after i got five letters of pleading and this guy then discharged from the imprisonment, everything changed , all the promises from the man and his wife gone.
What should i do ? Please help me....
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there are more people in the world. just wash your hands of this experience and move on.
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All you have to do is forget about this man and these people that used you move on with your life and find a etter man that loves you and cares about you because alot of ```girls like us fall for the wrong guy and we dont realize it sometimes...but move on and START A NEW BEGINING!!!
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I think most of us women have fallen prey to the wrong type of man before. You have just so happened to fall for the extremely wrong type of man.
What should you do?
Move on with your life. Forget these people and their empty promises. You can't change them, and you can't change what's happened, so you learn from this experience.
Remember that you deserve so much better.
You deserve to go out there and find a man who won't lie to you, who won't scam you, who won't take advantage of you, and who won't make promises he doesn't intend to keep.
I know it's hard to get past this and move on. But today is a new day, and if you start the healing process today, it will be a little bit easier with each passing day.
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This guy lied to you. I know it would be hard to forget about him. But to be honest he doesn't care about you. You should stand high and try your best to forget about this man. There are tons of guys out there that will care about you and will not use you like this man did. Good luck.
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i am really sorry that this man and his wife used you. it was a terrible thing for them to do. you are a wonderful person and you deserve better than something like this. i think you should forget about this man because there is a better man who will love you forever. i know that it is very difficult to be alone when you are in love but you will be okay. be strong! and if you ever feel sad just say "nam myoho renge kyo" and it will help you feel better.
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You have to forget about this man. I know it will break your heart but this man doesn't want you. He is only using you. The only question you have to ask yourself is are you willing to start mending your broken heart now or after you've been used some more. But you are not going to be able to avoid the broken heart. You just want to get over the broken heart as fast as you can. Try focusing your energy on finding a good man.
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You should drop him. And all of his issues along with it. It was a con to begin with. Lose his number and dont even chase him. I know it may kill you because you love him but its one sided.
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First off... rofl... and if you not laughing with me then I'm laughing with you. A lot of good people like yourself get taken for a ride everyday. I'm laughing because you became part of a threesome in which you didn't even question the loyalties and trustworthyness of any of your cohorts. As for what should you do? Make a report with the police, give them the descriptions and leave them rest up to them if you truly wanna do something. If you don't wanna do that, simply... just let it go.. they used you to their advantage and dipped. What are you going to do? Chase them down yourself? Besides, it seems to me that are pros and have in power couple in understanding each other. And they have no concern for you. Look at it this way... they could of been a murderous crazzi married couple with no regards to your life. Chalk it up to life and experience and leave it be. They played on your emotions... and left you right? I wouldn't suggest doing anything drastic.. its really not neccessary.. they damage has been done. Hope this helps.
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These two are scam artists. They use trusting
people like you. They used you to get what
they wanted not once but twice.
Since they are now free to scam another
innocent person. I think you should contact
the police in the town you live in. Explain
the whole thing to them. It may be
embarrassing having to tell them how you were
taken advantage of, but please, save someone
else from having to go through the same thing. :)
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This guy and his wife are crazy.
The only thing you need to hear is to STAY AWAY FROM HIM!
He's in jail for a criminal offense. He's married to an equally crazy wife.
I don't understand how he would marry you if he's already married.
That's not going to happen.
This couple is somehow taking advantage of you and you really need to just stay away!
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