Member Since: March 10, 2008
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Last Update: March 31, 2008
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well im in high school and i am practically fluncking everyone of my classes i cant seem to concentrate any advice? (link)
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Can you give us more information so we could better focus our answers? If you aren't concentrating on school work, is there something else that is occupying your thoughts? Have you been going through a particularly difficult situation at home or with friends? Have you been to a doctor recently and made sure there isn't something physically wrong? There could be all kinds of reasons for you feeling so sad at this point but we would need to explore the cause before we could help find a solution. Keep trying though. Never give up.
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A man who was married lie to me that he is single and said he will marry me and plan to marry me, therefore one night we have intercourse.
Then, due to his personal matters done before, he was jailed for two weeks.
He did lie to me in the very beginning that the case was not a criminal case. In fact it was a criminal case and he was the offender of the case.
When i visit him during his imprisonment, i found that he was married and i met his wife and talk to her for 10 hours, in fact it was his wife helping him to find the victims like me, to "feed" her husband, she provide the account for him to lie that it was his bank account etc..
i loved him so much and he wrote a letter to me that he will marry me immediately if he can be discharged (since the 2 weeks' jail was not a defined time, it depends whether i can get letter of pleading from the person with good social status ). He and his wife both promise me so.
Unexpectedly, after i got five letters of pleading and this guy then discharged from the imprisonment, everything changed , all the promises from the man and his wife gone.
What should i do ? Please help me.... (link)
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You have to forget about this man. I know it will break your heart but this man doesn't want you. He is only using you. The only question you have to ask yourself is are you willing to start mending your broken heart now or after you've been used some more. But you are not going to be able to avoid the broken heart. You just want to get over the broken heart as fast as you can. Try focusing your energy on finding a good man.
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wellll my neck/the top of my back has brocken out and there are little pimples all over it! it is so embarrassing!! im growing my hair so this is the first time it has been long enough to reach my back. i wash my hair almost every day because thats the only way i can make it look decent (its a disaster when i wake up!) so what should i do? i started washing it with my face cleanser and it seemed to help but what else? i dont really want to put my hair up because then pple might see the pimples! please help! i will rate! :) thanks so much (link)
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This has happened to quite a few of my friends. I was told that it is caused by sweating. Washing with face soap is a good idea. Also use a mud mask on your back and neck and keep it exposed to air as much as possible. If you don't want to go out with your hair up, at least keep it up when you're home so your back can get as much air as possible. Also keep your clothes clean - try not to wear the same shirt twice without washing it. The bacteria can also cause breakouts. Good luck.
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Well, I just found out that this guy, John [not his real name], likes me. I've seen him look at me a couple of times. Today, his friends came and sat at my lunch table, because their table was full and my table was the only one that had open seats. Anyways, his 2 friends and I talked a bit, and we talked before that too. One of his friends was like 'Oh, by the way, John likes you, but he's too shy to come and talk to you'. I was like 'Okay.. that's fine'..
Anyways, I asked this other guy that talks to John if he liked me and he's like 'Ohh yeah, big time'. So I think that this is past just a little crush. I've heard that he can be a jerk sometimes..
I talked to my older cousin and she said just to play it cool and let it come to me, because when guys find out that girls like them, they get ego's.
So now what? (link)
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Congratulations! Now that you know he likes you, you can feel a little more confident about talking to him. It's OK to let him know that you like the idea that he likes you. Don't worry too much about what he might think of you because that will only make you feel self-concious. Instead, just be yourself, that's what he liked about you in the first place, and enjoy the new feelings. If he starts developing an ego, firmly and confidently let him know that you expect to be treated well. He'll know you mean business and will act accordingly. Good luck and let us know how you make out.
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okay, so a couple weeks ago i was with my bf and everything and he was fingering me (we've done this multiple times so it was nothin new) and he made it feel really good. i mean, he he was doin a great job and everything, but the funny thing was i started crying! he asked me if he did anything wrong and i said i had no idea why i was!
it was such and awkward moment, but if it felt good and it didn't hurt at all, why did i start crying? (link)
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I can't tell you why you started to cry but I can tell you that you want to spend some time trying to understand yourself. Most people have at one time or another surprised themselves with a particular action or outburst. It's nothing to be ashamed of or embarrassed about. But it is an indication that you don't know yourself as well as you should. The better you know yourself, the easier it is to accept yourself, and the more confidence you will have in every day life. So take a little time to explore what you may have been feeling at that moment. Best of luck of your journey of self-discovery.
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