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how did that happen??
okay, so a couple weeks ago i was with my bf and everything and he was fingering me (we've done this multiple times so it was nothin new) and he made it feel really good. i mean, he he was doin a great job and everything, but the funny thing was i started crying! he asked me if he did anything wrong and i said i had no idea why i was!
it was such and awkward moment, but if it felt good and it didn't hurt at all, why did i start crying?
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Because you were so wrapped up in the moment, and it felt so good, you were probably thinking about so many things at once especially about your boyfriend. All that emotion probably just overwhelmed you, and even though you might not remember all of those thoughts running through your mind, you must have gotten caught up in the moment. thats why you cried, and they were happy tears.
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Nothing is wrong and neither you nor him should be embarrassed or concerned. The article I'm linking you to explains that it's just pent up energy and emotion being released during orgasm. Some people produce tears and some don't. Pretty common. It could also be hormonal too.
One article I read mentioned that if you've just lost a relationship and started a new one that you may be "grieving" and that the tears stem from that as the orgasm reminds you of being with your other partner. That was written by sex therapist on a women's health site.
All it is is your body's way of releasing all that tension. Why did it happen now rather than before? Perhaps it was more intense this time than before. Just a thought. But do read this as it explains a lot of the reasons why.
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I would also do a Google search as there's scores and scores of articles about this that will ease your mind. If you start crying again both of you can laugh and know it's okay. Which leads me to my next point it's also common for some women not to cry but to start laughter after/during orgasm. It's all about our bodies way to release all the pent up energy.
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I can't tell you why you started to cry but I can tell you that you want to spend some time trying to understand yourself. Most people have at one time or another surprised themselves with a particular action or outburst. It's nothing to be ashamed of or embarrassed about. But it is an indication that you don't know yourself as well as you should. The better you know yourself, the easier it is to accept yourself, and the more confidence you will have in every day life. So take a little time to explore what you may have been feeling at that moment. Best of luck of your journey of self-discovery.
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i dont know why. that is kind of weird. like sometimes, ill start crying over the weirdest things, or even when im not upset at all. i think it just happened.
or maybe you felt guilty? like that your not a little kid anymore and your sexually active. idk those are the only things i could think of.
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