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i think i have a sweating problem. when i was little i couldn't sweat at all and now i sweat way too much. like i'll be sitting in school and not be hot but still be sweating to the point i have sweat stains on my under arms. it's really embarrasing and i can't wear t shirts i want because the sweating. i tired telling my mom to take me to the doctor but it's like she doesn't believe me. so is there any think like you can make at home that will stop the sweating? i already use secret clinical strength and it doesn't work. and i tried baking powder and water.

if you could give me something that helped you or someone you know that'd be great!

thanks (link)
same thing used to happen to me.
use either cetri dri.
or secret clinical.
i say secret clinical. it works soo good.


How can i get better at math?I try my hardest but i just cant do it.I get so confused and frustrated about it.Does anybody knnow any math websites that could help me out alot in math.Any advice is acceptable.THANK YOU!!! (link)
yeah i totally would help you, & explain it to you but i kinda need to know what your learning.
soo just tell me and i'll like attempt to help. aha. im good in math tho soo.


ask your teacher to stay after & for extra help.
study for math everyday with an adult whos good in math. i did that. it helps.

websites:

http://search.yahoo.com/search?p=help+in+math&ei=utf-8&fr=b2ie7

http://www.wikihow.com/Study-Math

http://www.wikihow.com/Learn-Math

http://www.funbrain.com/

http://search.yahoo.com/search?p=practice+math+problems+online&ei=utf-8&fr=b2ie7


check themm outt. idkk if theyre what your looking for. look at them all tho.


so i put this under health because i didn't know what else to...
i'm a senior girl in highschool. i shave down there along bikini line but not the whole thing. i feel like my bf would like it better if i shave the whole thing.. but it looks okay the way it is and he says he likes it. despite this i still feel uncomfortable about it. should i shave it all off? i'm afraid it will grow back thicker and there will be stubble and if i ever want to stop shaving it will be gross. what should i do? (link)
shave it all off.
firstly, it will make you feel alot comfortable.
secondly, it will be alot cleaner and whatnot.
thirdly, most guys dont like hair down there.

besides if you dont like it like.. all the way off you its ganna grow back so its not like you cant change back to the way it is now.

btww, if your scared about it growing back thicker etc. i really dont think it does. like i shave every single day down there (i hate hair on my body loll). but you could always get it waxed or use a at home waxing kit. like it takes a while for the hair to grow back that wayy. and they also have lazor hair removal which, removes the hair permantly so you never have to like shave it or anything.

peacee. =)


My hair is about shoulder length, very fine, and pretty curly. Towards the bottom layer of my hair, closer to the neck, my hair forms perfect, shiny ringlets. But the top layer is really inconsistent, with waves and curls randomly in the same strand of hair. I don't like the way that it looks drying naturally (I get triangle hair), and when I use a diffuser, my hair gets a really weird inch or so on the part that's perfectly straight, but the rest looks okay. How can I get a consistent curl all over my head, and maybe more volume towards the scalp without damaging my hair?! (link)
personally, i think it sounds good.
i have really nice wavy hair too and from experience,when your hair gets longer, it seems more consistant throught it. so try growing it out longer. dont straighten it too much or blow dry it, it will cause split ends and make it harder for it to grow. use products in your hair like biosilk, which makes it soft and shiny and is actually good for it. um, i use a variety of shampoo for long hair, that consists of:
.long relationship by herbal essance
.fruit garniece for long hair (or something like that)
.this shampoo for horses (but it works so good because its suppose to be for horse hair) called Mane 'n Tail

kayyy, but if you dont want to grow your hair long, you could alway like use gel or mouse and sculpt your hair to the way you want it. theres this stuff from l'oreal called Lasting curls & its like not gel or anything like that, but you just put it in your hair and like sculpt it kind of. & it enhances/holds the curls/waves too. it works pretty good :)

may like use some rollers or something. they dont do any damage. you could use a curling iron, but thats going to damage your hair somewhat over time. just use a heat protection spray for your hair.

soo. you could like try looking up on websites for some info. i found some that seem good.

this one seems really good.
http://youtube.com/watch?v=O88kGXKueRo

http://www.wikihow.com/Make-Your-Hair-Look-Great

http://www.wikihow.com/Make-Your-Hair-Wavy

http://www.azhairstyles.com/curly-hairstyles/ringlet-curls.html

http://www.marieclaire.com/hair/hairstyles/hair/curly-hair

http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=450386

http://www.hairboutique.com/tips/tip473.htm

http://www.essortment.com/lifestyle/curlhairspiral_slen.htm

http://youtube.com/watch?v=rfkvVvYSkCk&feature=related

for this one, you could use this type of technique on the parts you feel are uneven. http://youtube.com/watch?v=4XUKOx_u8UI

welcomee.


I wear lip gloss but i don't over-wear it or anything. But at the end of the day when i'm looking at the mirror, I'll realize that there's white stuff on my lips (and it isn't dry skin). There's just a thin line of it on my inner lip and it's really annoying. How can I get that to not happen when i wear lip gloss? (link)
yeah that happens to me too sometimes. like. i think its like dead skin. i suggest like using like a scrub ment for your lips to get all the dead skin off.

like umm there some product by i think its mary kay and its like a lip mask and you leave it on for like two minutes and its get all the dead skin off.

& then also (i read this in a mag) you mix like.. brown sugar and olive oil (i forget how much of each tho) & scrub you lips with it & it removes like all the dead skin. check on seventeen.com they probably have it on there.


welll, i have a short torso and really long legs,
so for jeans to look normal on my body, i need to get superrr low rise jeans;; thing is,i'm not sure where to get them. Where can i get super low rised jeans?

haha,thanks :] (link)

hollister.
thats the only store i can really think of, or know of that fit really good. i have a really short torso and extremely long legs and like, hollister jeans are built for girls like that.


I shaved my pubes 10 days ago and I kind of regret it. I still have itchy red bumps down there. How can I get rid of them? (link)
well was it your first time?
i remember when i first started shaving it was just like that. it goes away after time. for now, just use like shaving cream stuff and a good razor when you shave down there.
lotion or something is good for it maybe when your dried off.
&& idk how old you are but you could get it permanently removed by lazer treatment.


cute spring outfits?
links would be great. (link)
umm i'll send you some links of stores with cute spring stuff. : ) im guessing your a girl?.

http://www.hollisterco.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/CategoryDisplay?storeId=10251&catalogId=10201&categoryId=12552&langId=-1&cm_ven=site&cm_cat=homepage&cm_pla=shop_tab&cm_ite=bettys

http://www.ae.com/web/browse/hp_womens.jsp?catId=womens

http://www.abercrombie.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/CategoryDisplay?langId=-1&storeId=10051&catalogId=10901&categoryId=12203

http://www2.victoriassecret.com/collection/?cgname=OSPNKSPRZZZ&cgnbr=OSPNKSPRZZZ&rfnbr=4652

all of those webs have a part that have spring break outfits, which is like spring clothing. also they have really good stuff for the spring. if you looking for actual like links of jeans and a matching shirt, just right back and i'll find some good stuff. && make sure you like tell me what kind of style you like so that i dont pick out stuff you dont like. :)
work itttt


Ok so this little girl was hugging me on this hill and I sliped and fell right on my face. For 2 days my nose has been hurting really really really bad! The pain is so unberible some times. If you slightly touch it I feel like I need to go to the emergency room. What could be wrong. Oh yeah and my mom said I had a sun burn on my face when I came home the day the little girl huged me, but whatever I did that usally works for a sunburn didnt work so I think it was just my nose. Any ideas what this could be? (link)
umm you could have sprained it, if thats possable.
or you could have broken it.
either way you should DEFFINATLEY go see a docter about it. like, if your nose is really becoming a problem and is really hurting then something got messed up.
feel betterr divagirll.


Is it true, that on Neopets, the more you donate to the money tree, the more 'random events' happen? (link)
i used to go on neopets!
and yes random events happen alot.
but i dont think that the donating to the money tree does anything. and like the person said because not all of the events are good.


okay, so a couple weeks ago i was with my bf and everything and he was fingering me (we've done this multiple times so it was nothin new) and he made it feel really good. i mean, he he was doin a great job and everything, but the funny thing was i started crying! he asked me if he did anything wrong and i said i had no idea why i was!

it was such and awkward moment, but if it felt good and it didn't hurt at all, why did i start crying? (link)
i dont know why. that is kind of weird. like sometimes, ill start crying over the weirdest things, or even when im not upset at all. i think it just happened.
or maybe you felt guilty? like that your not a little kid anymore and your sexually active. idk those are the only things i could think of.


is it bad for girls to have pubes? (link)
umm well everybody gets pubes.
but i know that guys really like when girls who shave down there, or wax them. or get them removed in some way.
its kinda of unattractive in alot of guys opinions. i personally shave, because i think its gross too.
but its your option/opinion.


I know this may sound nasty and a wierd question . But in my underwear its like this white kind of thick gooy stuff , iv only noticed it to days in a row . Any idea what it is ?

oh and its like i can pull some off & it feels like a booger . (link)
thats discharge. all girls get it.


i just bought "Jergens Natural Glow" cause i really want to stop tanning, but i still want to be tan! does this work?!! tell me what you experiecned and if you like it/dont like it.
(i would like REAL answers by people who actually used it, not by people who looked up shit online k thanks!!) (link)
its okay. i used it and i didn't really see a result.its like eh.
my friend also used it, and she said that she started noticing that it was like turning her skin yellowish.
i prefer banana boat sun dial lotion. or aveeno sun dial lotion (their self tanners). they would real good. just make sure you exfolaite before you use it. and um bronzer makes you look tanner.


Well.. so i like this guy. We are really good friends. But it seems more than that lately.. He sit across from me in 2 of my classes and

this is what he does in those classes...

- always looks at me in the eyes and smiles
- loves making me laugh ( and trys to alot)
- trys to be nice to my bestfriends
- he makes excuses to sit near me.
-he will try to make a conversation up of something we both like ( basketball, gym, ect.)
- if i ask a question to a guy sitting next to him he'll answer it.
- if another guy makes a joke and i laugh he'll make one and then smile at me.
- i pass notes to my friend diagnol of me and right of him.. so ill says pass it to her and he'll read the note.
- i told my friend "i wrote my sn in the note" and i gave it to her and he read it before passing it to her..and read it again after. like he was memorizing it.
- he will always jump into conversations with other guys that im talking to.
- today i had a basketball game after his and he came and watched my game.

Do u think he likes me or does he not? please reply i want to know. thanks in advance. ( ill answer your questions too if u answer mine)

please help me,
arie :) (link)
personally, i think so.
like it sounds like it.
or maybe hes just interested in you.
but i think that he deff has a thing for you.

http://www.wikihow.com/Act-Around-a-Guy-You-Think-Likes-You

http://www.wikihow.com/Find-out-if-a-Guy-Likes-You

http://www.wikihow.com/Know-if-a-Guy-Likes-You



Is there any place I'd be able to buy an adult size pacifier? (link)
yeah.
probably spencers, or hot topic.
i mean sometimes they might have it in stores like CVS or a toystore. but idk. aha.


alrigh so im a sophmore and ive been tanning for about a year. i LOVE being tan because i look so much better and my skin looks so much healthier looking.. ive heard all the dangers and what not but it never really hit me till my moms friends daughter who is ONLY 24, got skin cancer from tanning a lot.. she had to get a freaking chunk cut outta her leg and now she cant even be out in the sun anymore! now i really want to stop tanning because i dont want this to happen to me, but i cant stand being pale! what can i do to keep myself tan? also can i use the tanning beds while using sunscreen and still get tan, without it harming me so much????? (link)
girl, i totally know what you mean.
i HATE being pale, its depressing and i look horrible.
you have a couple options.
one it that you can go get spray tans, which are pretty good. i know this girl who works there and she gets free spray tans and they look pretty good. she works at holly wood tans. normally there like 10-18 dollars for a week or two for being tan.

you can also do a at home tanner, which is what i do. i use bannaboat sun dial or aveeno sun dial (you can control how tan you want to be). i love it. it looks so much better then all the other fake tanners out there. there like 10 to 15 dollars depending where you get it. i normally get mine for around 12 dollars at like walmart or some store like that.
make sure before you doing any type of tanning whether it spray or lotion, you exfoliate real good because you can look soo blotchy and bad if you dont (trust me im like the queen of fake tanners).

and try some bronzer too. it makes you looks tanner. i use like marykate and ashley bronzer. its like 3 dollars and works soo good. it also comes with like a "sunkissed" lipgloss. :]

ooh. and they have this stuff that you use in the summer. like after your tanning you put it on (its like a lotion) and it makes your tanner healthier and stuff. and its suppose to like emphasize it and make it last longer. so maybe that will make you tan last longer. i forget the name, but you can find it like, in a place ment for bathing suits/tanning. i think its like from some Australia company or something with the kula bear. ahah.

best of luckk :)

hope i helpedd.


Every winter this happens...Whenever I run , even if it is for a couple or minutes or anything , I get this taste of blood in the back of my mouth and throut[sp?].It only happens in the cold though.Like witer...lol obviously

Any reasons for this ? May it be serious ?
Thanks :)

xoxo
Stephii ♥♥♥ (link)
yeah. its normal.
i get it. and i hate it tho.
do what the person below said, that works.
and also drinking water while running helps.


i really want to get in shape for the summer. and i work out at night but its just too much for me. i have a membership to the ymca but i dont have time to actually go there or get a ride since my parents work at nightish. having a treadmill would really help me manage my time and get in shape fast.

i want to know how much a tredmil would be and if it would be worth spending sooo much of my own money on it. also, any ideas on how to get the cash.?

i really want to be in shape and im starting to get "chubz" even tho you cant see it when wearing clothes. and i cant deit, foods too good. :) (link)
im considering this treadmill
http://www.walmart.com/catalog/product.do?product_id=6561182
does it seem good?
i have 227 dollars and its like 294


I have a boston terrier that's about 5 years old, and a new kitten. And well, my dog likes to get into the cat litter box, and eat the uhm...dung. =/ and my mother knew a woman that her dog use to do that, and it ended up getting liver cancer. and we can't move the litter box..and i was wondering if they made something to like...spray on the litter pan, so the dog wouldn't go near it?

or something, anything really...


because i really don't want my dog to die. =[ (link)
um. kay well firstly. maybe put a little gate were the litter box is so that the kitten can stay in that room with the litter box while the dog cant get in there, you know.?
secondly, they have this stuff call like.
something like bitter apple spray. and it prevents animals from biting, chewing, eating, or licking whatever it is that you spray it on.
maybe you could like spray it in the cat box..?
also theres this thing that comes from the same place as the electric fence company but instead its just like a little plate thing and yeah. it does the same thing as an electric fence but for inside. you just put the little saucer plate thing (whatever it is) whereever you dont want your dog to goo.
you might wanna look into that. you could put it near the cat box and whenever the dog tries to go over to it, the thing gives it a warning and then it zaps the dog so it cant get into it.
youd have to train it a bit with the fence. whatever.

best of luckkkkkkkk :)




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