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This guy likes me.. now what?


Question Posted Monday March 10 2008, 6:02 pm

Well, I just found out that this guy, John [not his real name], likes me. I've seen him look at me a couple of times. Today, his friends came and sat at my lunch table, because their table was full and my table was the only one that had open seats. Anyways, his 2 friends and I talked a bit, and we talked before that too. One of his friends was like 'Oh, by the way, John likes you, but he's too shy to come and talk to you'. I was like 'Okay.. that's fine'..

Anyways, I asked this other guy that talks to John if he liked me and he's like 'Ohh yeah, big time'. So I think that this is past just a little crush. I've heard that he can be a jerk sometimes..

I talked to my older cousin and she said just to play it cool and let it come to me, because when guys find out that girls like them, they get ego's.

So now what?


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michelle823 answered Saturday March 15 2008, 9:50 pm:
i say make the first move. just approach him. if hes shy hes probaly not going to come to you first and besides some guys actually prefer it if a girl make the first move. hope i helped. write back and tell me what happens. =]

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LonelySumyku answered Monday March 10 2008, 10:12 pm:
well im not sure if you like him back or anything..
but judging from what"john's" friends said. i'd say its quite true & you should go for it[if u like him back]
because i think that was his intentions. having his friends tell you that hes mad crazy with you since hes shy. and that he wanna get the vibe that you're interested too. loll.

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NicolaCandor answered Monday March 10 2008, 8:33 pm:
Congratulations! Now that you know he likes you, you can feel a little more confident about talking to him. It's OK to let him know that you like the idea that he likes you. Don't worry too much about what he might think of you because that will only make you feel self-concious. Instead, just be yourself, that's what he liked about you in the first place, and enjoy the new feelings. If he starts developing an ego, firmly and confidently let him know that you expect to be treated well. He'll know you mean business and will act accordingly. Good luck and let us know how you make out.

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