|
broke my boyfriend
okay so i've had a boyfriend for about 2 and a half years and we've been dating on and off, but the longest we stay broken up for is about 2days. anyways a few months back we weren't really doing to good. we fought constantly over everything, and neither of us knew why. So we broke up and i went out with my friends and i was really mad at him, even though i broke up with him, so i hooked up (we only made out nothing too bad right?) with this kid i'd met before. I knew i wasn't over my ex yet though so the next day i told him what happened and how i realized i only wanted him. he was really mad at me and felt hurt and betrayed. however he said he would forgive me and so we got back together. He hasn't forgiven me yet, he is still really hurt by this he tells me how he feels "broken inside" and i want to make it better, he says that i basically cheated on him since we were only broken up for a short period of time. did i? and how can i make him forgive me and understand i'm sorry? please help me. thanks
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
first off he shouldnt have even broke up with you in the first place. dont break up over fights thats stupid. if i broke up for every fight with my girl i would break up everyday. but i dont because at the end of the day we realize we love each other and petty stuff doesnt matter. only thing that truly matters is that we care and love each other. hes going to be like that to you for a while because he was expecting you to come back with no problems but it didnt go like that. just take it slow with him and work on the fighting. time fixes everything
]
Girl , i was in your EXACT position . The only thing that will work is time . It tore me from head to toe waiting to see if he even would forgive me & cheating made me realize that my boyfriend was the ONLY one for me , He never understood why i cheated to see i really needed him . But enough about mine . You just have to reasure him that your sorry , over and over and over again let him know you love him & your sorry over and over a million times , Be there for him because it does hurt to get cheated on but me and you will never know truley how it feels because we were the Ones doing it . As time goes by things will slowly get back to normal & it may take FOREVER but if its love it will work out .
]
More Questions: |