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How & When Did You Lose Your Virginity?
So I'm still a virgin and it's kind of a big deal.
So, out of curiosity I was wondering when did you lose your virginity (what age you were) and how did it happen?
Give details please, not on the actual sex but on how it happened. For example, don't just say 'with my first boyfriend' or 'at a house party', say exactly how it happened.
And if you're still a virgin, would you please say so too and say your age and how you feel about losing your virginity? For example, do you think you're ready to? Do you want to? Why do you want to or why do you want to wait? Do you feel pressured?
Thanks, x
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I was 15 when i lost mine, we were at his neighbors house, upstairs. its only two rooms up there and his neighbor is gay and lives by himself, didnt really care and didnt check up on us. so we had been talking about it for a while. and he took off my clothes i took off his. then he put on the condom, and got on top of me, kinda awkward but comfortable at the same time. his second time ever and my first time. he couldnt get it in all the way. and it hurt more and more it went in. THEN, his dad calls so he had to go seee what he wanted, both got dressed and we had to go to he carwash and rinse his dads truck off.. lol it was the randomist thing but when we got back we went upstairs again and he told me to get on top and i just sat. it hurt so bad but once it was all the way in it was ok then i was on bottom. After, i got up and there was blood on the sheets. no one goes in that bedroom or bed so its cool i guess i was just a little embarrased but my boyfriend understood it being my first time and all. by the end of the night, idk why, but my underwear where full of blood through my shorts and everything. it went away by the evening the next day though.
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I am a virgin and i am saving myself till marrage, i think it is very important to wait for the right guy. I love saying i am a virgin cause it makes me different and it makes guys want me more. I am also more respected, than other girls. and i just have fun being a teen i don't want to waist my time on guys that don't really love me. so i am Staying pure till marrige.
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I love the question. Sounds like your getting ideas to write a book. Any way I am 26/m I had sex for the first time a little after I turned 16. It was with a friend who also wanted to do it for the first time and with me. I don't know why. Any way It happend at a park, in public, at night, on a kinds jungle gym. lol We had sex once after that and never spoke again. hmm Was I used... I'd like to think so. lol
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I was exceptionally past the typical age of losing it. I was still in college and was waiting because I was exceptionally picky with guys I kissed little lone a guy I lost it to. I met this musician - he was 8 years older than me. Absolutely gorgeous. I was the only girl in my group of friends who wasn't a virgin and I did feel the pressure. Well, the musician guy and I started seeing each other for a few months...and then one night it happened. It was painful, I didnt get off, and I thought how stupid I was to do it with someone I didnt even love. Right when it was over...his bedroom window opened and a crazy girl tried to come in his room yelling and screaming and trying to grab my leg...Turns out it was his ex...Who he was still seeing plus 3 other girls. I was so upset that I lost it to someone like him. Moral of the story: Don't lose it just to lose it. You will always remember your first, make it something special - and I promise you won't regret it like I did.
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For me it was only like a month ago... I'm 14... very young I know. Well I reallly liked this guy and had done everything but sex and I had always thought sex was a huge deal but when it came down to it I liked this guy alot. story is me and my friend went to the guys house.. realllly drunk.. there was a guy she was talking to there for her. and my guy there too. it just happened, it hurt SOOO BAD like I had thought people were exagerating.. they're not. Now I regret it, I wish I was still a virgin. and now I'm still talking to this guy kinda.. but we're not dating. and my friend... her and her guy have been dating and they're head over heels for eachother... my advice, wait wait wait because once it's gone you can't get it back. Save yourself for the one person that really is worth it. :)
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i love this question :) i'm 18 from Minnesota. female. still a virgin, yay! honestly, i love the reaction i get when asked how many times i've had sex and i say i'm still a virgin. people don't believe me, because of the way i look. you could say i'm the popular girl at school, but who cares! just because people expect me to be experienced doesn't mean i'm going to do something i'm not ready for. i've thought about doing it, a couple times, with the same guy. it never happened. i do love him, we're best friends, i can trust him with my life, but i still have my doubts. when i have sex, i don't want ANY doubts that it's the right guy. even though i don't think i'd regret doing it with my best friend because he's someone i can trust with everything i have, he's not the one i'm IN love with. he's not the one i can look at and say "that's him, hands down" if i'm doubting, there's NO doubt i'm not ready, and i'm fine with that. it gets really annoying when everyone starts talking about having sex with their boyfriend or girlfriend and then they look at me and say haha you wouldn't know! i'm on birth control, to regulate my period so it's nice knowing that when i do have sex i'll be protected. of course i'll make him wear a condom too. people respect me that i'm still a virgin, and i love that. people tell me all the time that they look up to me, and it makes me feel good. i don't have to worry about being pregnant, about getting emotionally hurt or about having regrets. i can live my life as a teenager, as a senior in high school without all these worries. i'm not saying i'm going to wait until i get married, it may be a possibility, but i'm definately waiting for someone who i'm in love with, and who i know won't hurt me. i'm not going to just give it up right away. sometimes i feel pressured, but i don't care. i don't let it get to me, i do what I want, not what others want :)
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There is this whole myth about losing your virginity, that it's supposed to me magical and perfect. I lost mine when i was 16 and it was probably the most awkward experience of my life. My boyfriend and i were hooking up and i said do you want to have sex? He then proceeded to ask me about 10 times if i was sure.When we finally began it was so painful!then suddenly his mom came home he pulled out whipped the condom and the wall yanked his pants on and ordered me to get dressed. Awkward yes, but i dont regret it one bit. its been two years since then and im still with him and we laugh about it now. but in all seriousness dont feel pressured because even if your 1st time isnt as amazing as you thought it was going to be at least youll never say AH i wish i never did that.
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I'm 18 and a female, and I'll be 19 in a month and im still a virgin. It doesn't bother me too much because I'm waiting for the right guy to come along. Although, the majority of my friends have had sex and they tell me how great it is, Its not that I dont want to, its just that I feel I should wait until I'm ready and with someone who I can see myself being with for a long time.
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I lost mine when I was 18 (19 now). It was with my boyfriend (22) while we were in his home town staying at his friends house. We had been together for 2 months but I definitely knew that there was something bigger to this relationship than just dating and we've been together for almost 9 months now. It was very special :)
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Hi there :)...i'm seventeen still a virgin! haha...guys find it unbelievable when they find out....everytime i'm close to doing it, i get turned off. Its weird, but i think its just my body tellin me that maybe its the wrong guy, or that simply i'm just not ready. But the pressure with friends is really hard though sometimes. Most of them have done it, and i'm one out of two only virgins in the group. When they talk about it, its really awkward because it makes me feel like, oh wow, i don't know anything, it makes me feel left out. But i just deal with it because I really want to enjoy my time with boyfriends in highschool. I'm not trying to "grow up" too fast. If i were to lose it it would be when i'm twenty or at least out of highschool...that way if i get pregnant or something, i don't have to worry about walking into school with a huge belley...or people whispering and looking at me all weird...but yeah, not that anything would go wrong, but you know, just to be safe....i am just doin it after highschool....when my friends have done that, they are so different, like i don't even recognize who they are you know. They look older. Having sex at a young age i think is not too good though...your body is still developing till you are eighteen i think....its like giving a little baby a piece of meat, instead of apple sauce you know....until it's all grown you can give it the meat but i look at sex in the same way...i'm not ready for the meat haha
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i am still a virgin and i want to do it because i am in a group of friends that haev done it but i am trying to wait tell i am married so i can loose it to someone one special and someone i love. Oh and i am 16/m
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I lost mine at age 17. My girlfriend wasn't a virgin, so it was actually her who was the aggressor. I wouldn't say I was pressured into it, and I wouldn't say I wasn't ready. We had only been together for a month or two at the time.
Had we not stayed together, I couldn't tell you if I would have regretted it. However, we've been together for nearly 5 years now.
Even under different circumstances, I don't think I would have considered losing it to be that big of a deal. Once you've had sex...whoo, big deal.
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I was tricked into it by candy and words
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I had my virginity stolen. i was raped at 13 and i think that is why after words i didn't care i had sex with boys ended up a teen mother which i don't regret. but be careful im not sure how old you are but take your time. wait for mr right be with that guy for a while and use protection. be on birth control.
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I'm 19 and 18 when I lost it. I had been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years and I was waiting for the right time. I wanted to make sure he genuinely cared about me and wasn't going to expect it from then on. We were having a hotel party for my best friend and after they all left it was just me and him and I felt of all times was a good time to do it. I don't regret it and I'm still with him. We've been dating a little over 2 years & a half. Make sure you're completely ready and do it with someone you genuinely care about. Do NOT let anyone pressure you into doing anything your not comfortable doing. Use protection and enjoy! :]
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When I lost my virginity I was just shy of 18, I had been in a relationship for about 7 months. We started out kissing then came the sweet talk then the touchy feeling etc. we were alone and then it just happened and I was not pressured. Having sex is something that should be special between two people who love and trust each other and have a strong relationship there should be no pressure. Loosing your virginity is not something you just do because you want too, It's something you always remember and most of all you remember who it was with. I am also from Massachusetts but I don't currently live there.
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I'm still a virgin! Yay! Haha. I'm 14. I'm not ready for sure. Every time I think about it, it never comes out right for some reason. Of course I want to do it, and bad!Haha. No I don't feel pressured though most of my friends aren't I feel like I have the right friends that don't tease me or anything about that.
LILLIAN
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