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I don't know what to do with him! I found out from my bff that my bf made a facebook group thing about our relationshp. I went and red a few things on it and it is personal and nothing anybody should know but us so I told him I knew he had a secret he was keeping from me but not what it was so he would tell me or something but he didn't. i kinda thought that he posted stuff and didn't think it was bad and I wanted to give him chances to say so but he just said he didnt have no secrets so i went back to read the rest and he had made it private only so now it is hidden from me.
I guess what I am asking is if he didn't think this was wrong why did he hide it when i found out? He still denies everything and now i got no proof because i cant see it anymore!!! i have been crying about this and i feel betrayed like he has a secret life on facebook or something! should i stay with him if he isn't going to be honest and still hides things?
Sorry if this is too long! (link)
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The most important thing you have to have in a relationship is trust and honesty, when he posts personal things about your guy's relationship, that is uncalled for, especially when it's on something as public as facebook. And you know what you saw, you know it was there so him lieing only makes it worst. tell him straight up be like I know what I saw and I do not appreciate it, let him know how mad you are. Do not let him walk all over you. if this was his first time lieing give him another chance but If he continues to lie then he's just another jerk. Break that off.Hope I helped (:
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So last night I was at a party and I got really drunk and I ended up making out with a couple people including these two girls. Everyone was drunk and the only reason I made out with the girls was because these guys were egging us on. I'm not a prude and this wasn't like the first time but I just feel really awkward about it now. I'm kind of dreading seeing them in school and stuff. Idk I guess I'm just looking for words of advice to get through this in the least awkward way possible.
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Im in the same exact situation as you, except i hooked up with a guy, just chilll. when you see them in school don't act embarrassed act pretty much like it never happened if you're awkwarded out by it, just avoid those girls/guys.
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i have bigger boobs then most people at my skool... and i feel like there are people looking at my boobs..and we re going to sky ranch and in my swim suites... there are pads...and i know that people will make fun of me... how do i make if so that people arent looking or going out with me just because of my boobs?! (link)
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Hunnny, stop looking at your boobs as a disadvantage. Take it from me I'm a big B thats nothing to brag about. If you have big boobs make them work, and don't worry if people are going out with you because of that because I doubt they are..
Don't be insecure Just be happy with what you got (:
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I cut my wrists for the first time about two years ago when my boyfriend of 8 months and I broke up, but I only did it once or twice and it was more of a scratch rather than a cut. Between then and up until about January of this year, I've done it, maybe a total of 7 or 8 times because of break ups, family issues and issues with myself. Lately though, I can't seem to stop. I sit around and think about it all day until my mother finally goes to sleep so I can cut again. Is it possible I'm addicted? Maybe even obsessed with it? What do I do? (link)
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Cuttting causes scars, find another way to cope when you're sad
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im 16 female my boyfriend hes 17 have just started having sex we were both virgins and he doesnt last that long he cums after about 3 or 4 minutes how do i get him to last longer? (link)
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theres really no sure fire way to get him to ladt longer maybe i dont know how comfortabe you'd be with it but before you have sex give him oral or a hj and have him cum.. that might help
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my boyfriend and i have never had sex, but we're completely in love and we want to. im 16 and hes 17 and we've done everything else besides sex (handjob, blowjob, eat out, fingered) and, i dont think this is the case, but my boyfriend thinks i might be pregnant because a few times he has come right around my vagina, and its come very close and i never worried about how close we were when he came because i never thought it was an issue. the last time i got my period was around january 28th, and it is now march 3rd. he's the first guy i've ever done anything with if that helps, but could someone maybe help me what should i do? should i have sex with him soon? or should i wait and see if i get my period/ or take a pregnancy test or something? thank you so much! (link)
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STOP STRESSING you stressing out about it could be the cause to your irregular period after ejaculation hits the air its dead nd unable to get you pregnant, so as long as you werent having actual sex, and he didnt cum inside you, you're good girl (: dont even sweat it have fun with your foreplay because actual sex compliates everything in a relationship and i known you've prob heqrd it before but you would regret it so bad, hope it goes great (:
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Okay so my ex boyfriend and I had dated over a year and he ended up breaking up with me multiple times, each time coming back to me... Im going to say he is not a jerk and really a nice guy but he decided to block/ unfriend me on facebook. I was really upset but after about a month he unblocks me. He sees me at church and then I soon get a friend request. I dont accept it for 5 days and then the next day i say whats up hi... and he actually wrote me back 2 min later say hey I just wanted to apologize for unfriending you, it wasnt meant to be mean and i hope all goes well ttyl. He told me that he got some mean phonecall and didnt want to see what was up with me and he needed a break. So we both made amends and are now fb messaging... but idk where we stand... like why is he now talking to me? im confused what should i do? what are his intentions? (link)
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sorry hun but chances are he has no intentions, He's talking to you on FACEBOOK if it were in person or MAYBE on a phonecall it would be different.. but it's facebook.. face the facts he really is a jerk.. advice:ask him to meet up or call him see how that goes ? hope it goes well (:
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Hi,I'm an 18 yr old female from Canada
okay so there's this guy who I like for almost 2 years now, this all started when we had 2 classes together in grade 11 and I would notice that he would stare at me all the time. I didn't like him then, but then I started to have a crush on him because I thought he was cute. so I decided to tell him that I liked him through a secret admirer e-mail and he later found out that it was me. So he told me that he didn't want to waste my time b.c he had a g.f..o.k fine, but after that, he would still stare at me...whenever i would walk by him, he wouldn't look at me until i would turn around to look back at him, then I would see him look back at me at the same time. So a yr passed and we didn't really tlk much after that until Prom 09. At Prom, I noticed that he kept on staring at me, while I was with my friends or when I was dancing with a guy. Then I was finally alone and then I felt him come closer and closer to me until he grabbed me by my waist and start dancing with me.He was all over me, rubbing my arms, he clasped his hand into mine. We danced for 6 songs straight, I was the only girl he danced with that night.We also slow danced. after prom, I got the feeling that he liked me but then him and my friend spoke on msn 2 days later and she mentioned me and him dancing and how we looked so hot together but then he said that he didn't want to give the wrong intentions b.c he was only having fun. so i felt stupid b.c i was gushing to my friend that I think he likes me and he already knew I liked him...so I left him an offline msg saying that I danced with other guys so i didn't get the wrong impression and that he wasn't the one who made my night...I felt bad about it so I confessed to him at school saying that I was sorry and that he was the one who made my night and he was smiling for the whole time...so we didn't talk after that until one night in summer, he sent me a msg and a "poke" on facebook saying:"what's up?" then we didn't talk since then...so here's my dilemma now: last week I used this application called"profile checker" and I saw that he was in my Top 10 list for ppl who view my page the most and he was #7...so I thought that was kind of weird since I do the same thing...I look at his page everyday more than once, I'm a little obsessed I would say:P, but do you think the feelings are mutual here? sorry that it's so long (link)
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honestly i dont think so.. i think he cares about you but in a friend way.. guys are usually very straight up and if he had feelings for you he would tell you or at least your friend when she tslked to him.. im sorrry you could keep trying but my best advice is to move on to another guy ya never know the guy you're actually longing for may the become jealous and realize his true feelings for you ? be open and be happy (:
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Okay, odd question I know. My friend lost her virginity the other week. She orgasmed and told me it felt amazing. She said she couldn't remember much because she "passed out from pleasure". I was mad at her for losing her virginity, she's only 16. She assured me she took all of the precausions, condom and the pill so I forgave her. I was interested when she was discribing what it felt like to experience an orgasm, but I promised my parents I would save myself until marriage. So, embarassed to say, I rubbed myself with a pen, but only my clit. The result was out standing pleasure.. to the point where my back arched and I almost screamed. So, my question is, what does an orgasm feel like? I want to relate your answers to my experience. (link)
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what you did was masterbation.. with a pen.. which is MUCHHH smaller and harder then a penis.. yes an orgasm would be much like what you experienced but when you have actual sex and get an orgasm, its like what you felt with the pen times 10 it truely is amazing haha im young too lost my virginity really young, but it is great like a realease of pleasure through out your entire body hahaha
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So I had a miscairage 3months ago and I want to get pregnant!!! Im 15 and need tips on how to conceive. Thnx (: (link)
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Tht is dumb.. You are a child.. how do you want to have a baby at fifteen how would you take care of it or anything my suggestion dont try andb get pregnant you'll regret it believe me I'm 15 and get it..
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So I'm still a virgin and it's kind of a big deal.
So, out of curiosity I was wondering when did you lose your virginity (what age you were) and how did it happen?
Give details please, not on the actual sex but on how it happened. For example, don't just say 'with my first boyfriend' or 'at a house party', say exactly how it happened.
And if you're still a virgin, would you please say so too and say your age and how you feel about losing your virginity? For example, do you think you're ready to? Do you want to? Why do you want to or why do you want to wait? Do you feel pressured?
Thanks, x (link)
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For me it was only like a month ago... I'm 14... very young I know. Well I reallly liked this guy and had done everything but sex and I had always thought sex was a huge deal but when it came down to it I liked this guy alot. story is me and my friend went to the guys house.. realllly drunk.. there was a guy she was talking to there for her. and my guy there too. it just happened, it hurt SOOO BAD like I had thought people were exagerating.. they're not. Now I regret it, I wish I was still a virgin. and now I'm still talking to this guy kinda.. but we're not dating. and my friend... her and her guy have been dating and they're head over heels for eachother... my advice, wait wait wait because once it's gone you can't get it back. Save yourself for the one person that really is worth it. :)
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Ok, I'm the one who just asked the question about my possibility of being pregnant. Thanks for the answer. I have 2 more questions though-
-what if he had masturbated earlier that day or something and there were still fluids on his hands? is that possible?
-what if he had precum on his hands and then put his hands inside of me?
sorry. I'm just worry a lot. Thanks in advance. (link)
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The only way that you could be pregnant is if he cummed or precummed inside of you during sex. Once cum hits the air it's like dead and unable to fertilize an egg So no worries you can't be pregnant :)
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ok so i really like this boy and he wants to do stuff with me and i dont know what to do...i mean i want to do stuff with him but the furthest ive gone is makeout and i dont know what to do....PLEASE HELP!!!! (link)
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it's entirely up to you If you think that it feeels right then do it. Don't let him pressure you into it Do it if you want to not because He wants to Goooodluckkk ;)
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Im a female and only thirteen but has had sex for the first time with someone i thought i really liked and i thought he really liked me back. But like after we did he told everybody lies and stuff like saying I was gonna cry and stuff. I will admit it hurt really really badly but i wasn't gonna cry. Also he broke up with me and now it feels like i have the weight of the world on my shoulders because i know he is gonna tell everybody but i feel really guilty because of my mom and i wanna tell her but shes all i have and I dont wanna hurt her. So should I tell her? and if i do how can I? (link)
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I don't think you should tell her yeahh she might be all you have but She's your mom and for now She's gonna look at you as her little baby because you're so young take it from experience don't tell her...
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how likely is it to get pregnant from pre cum...are the chances like pretty low, or is it about as likely as cum? (link)
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it's the same odds pre cum has about 2,oo0 little sperm and actual sum has about 10,000 it only takes 1 to get you pregnant
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if you get fingered, are you still considered a virgin? (link)
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yeah losing your virginity only happens if the penis is inserted into the vagina yeahhh...
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Okay so...i gave my boyfriend a hj and haver he jizzed he washed his hands and dick..then he took his penis out of his pants to put a condom on so we could have sex...then later he fingered me. from touching his dick even after washing his hands could i get pregnant? (link)
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No you can't get pregnant from that enless He actually cums or precums inside of you during sex you can't After cum has hit the air it is then unable to fertilize an egg there for nope you aren't pregnant from his fingering
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