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ok so i really like this boy and he wants to do stuff with me and i dont know what to do...i mean i want to do stuff with him but the furthest ive gone is makeout and i dont know what to do....PLEASE HELP!!!!
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it's entirely up to you If you think that it feeels right then do it. Don't let him pressure you into it Do it if you want to not because He wants to Goooodluckkk ;)
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Know what you're getting into before you get in too deep. I'm not sure how old you are, how old this boy is etc. I'm just telling you make sure this guy is actually into you for you and not just to hook up unless its understood by both of you that its a no-strings-attached deal.
Basically .. this is hooking up.
You'll hang out and things will be a bit awkward because you'll both know whats going to happen. You'll probably watch a movie or something. Talking will happen and some playful argument. Some where in there he will start to kiss you and you two will makeout. From here, he will probably start feeling you up from outside of your clothes until he makes his way under your shirt and into your bra. There's a good chance now he'll take off your shirt & bra if you two plan on going this far. You can take of his shirt if you want. Next of course, the pants come off. Mutual masturbation, *hand jobs & fingering* can take place. I'm not sure how much further things will go because, like I said, I do not have much information on you. But, oral sex can occur next then finally intercourse. Usually after, you'll get dressed, clean up, make out a little more then one of you will leave until the next time.
I'm not sure what you're question is, so I basically laid out a typical situation so you know what to expect. If you have any more specific questions, just inbox me.
Good luck :)
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Ok well this is entirely up to you. If you are ready emotionally to go to the next level with this boy then by all means.. go for it.
However, if you do not feel comfortable or ready then you need to tell this boy. No one can force you into this, this is totally your choice!!
If he can't handle that your not ready then he's not the right one for you to be doing this with.
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Talk to him. If you're not ready for anything more than making out, don't do it.
Let him know what you're comfortable with. Ask him what he's comfortable with. Don't go any further than you're "weakest" link.
--Jack
(17/m)
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