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Hi,Im a 5th grader going on 6th and I think I heard this girl in my grade level is likley pregnant (i think 2 months already) so is it true average 5th grader girls get pregnant?? :0

It's not "average" or normal for a 5th grader to be pregnant, but it happens. It is possible to get pregnant even before you have your period. However, I definitely do not suggest it at all. I don't understand why girls that young are having sex anyway, it's not like its cool. When I was in 5th grade (almost 12 years ago), I was embarrassed to even talk about sex.

Hope this helps!

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At my work I would give people free things such as cartons of ciggerettes and other items. I have also stolen a total of $20 out of the drawer and have stolen some items for myself. They watched the cameras and fired me. They calculated that the amount of money lost was $5000. It is my first offense and i was very cooperative and confessed to it all. What will happen to me? Will I go to jail?

Typically any stolen goods over $500 is a felony and can result in numerous fines and jail time. It all depends on whether or not the store is pressing charges, and what the court decides if they pressed charges on you. If you're a minor it won't affect you being able to get a job from the criminal side of it because it will be off your record, but the fact that you're guilty of stealing could affect the ability for you to get a job anytime in life. Good luck, and I would suggest not doing it again! :)

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18/f
typical; i have no idea what to get my boyfriend for valentine's day. sadder yet is that due to a recent emergency, literally ALL i have to spend on his gift is bout 25 dollars. so on top of not knowing what to get him, my choices are pretty much limited. what do i get him that obviously has to be pretty cheap that won't SEEM cheap, or make it seem i don't care? because i really do; i've been racking my brain but he happens to be very difficult to shop for. he's not the typical guy in that he's not into sports at all. he's not the cologne type either. he's into technology and video games but all the good stuff is either expensive and/or he already has it. and we've only been together for 6 months; we haven't had sex, nor are we planning anything close to it, so you can cross anything related off your suggestion list if you were thinking that :) but seriously. any ideas?

You could make him a fleece tie blanket with his favorite thing on it. There are tons of fabric prints to choose from! :) Those make great gifts for guys or girls, its personal and they are pretty cheap too! You could also get him chocolates along with it or a nice card. Hope this helps! Good luck!

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Long story short i got pregnant and im not sure when, My last period was Dec 16-20th.. I had sex December 25th with someone three times that night, And then someone different Jan 1st just once. When would you say i got pregnant im so confused and i need to figure out who is the father of my child, please dont judge im not the only person this happens too and im stressed as it is so please.

You could either get a paternity test, or dna test after the baby is born. You could also go to the doctor and see how far along they believe your pregnancy is and base it off of when you had sex, but chances are if it was on the 25th you probably got pregnant on the 28th or 29th since thats when the sperm reaches the egg, or if it was the 1st it was probably the 4th or 5th. It would be hard to tell by your due date since they were so close. Sorry if this was confusing! I was trying to base it off my knowledge from my womens health class. Good luck!!

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this summer i plan on doing both bungee jumping and sky diving. i was wondering if anyone knows a rough estimate as to how much that would cost?

When I went skydiving it was $200 for the skydiving part and $100 for the video and pictures. I went in Wisconsin in 2009. Have an AMAZING time, it was awesome!

Hope this helps! :)

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Hey so me and my best friend are doing a figure skating pairs routine. were both girls. its like a duet . we just have fun and stuff and its a fun routine that we get to make up and skate to. but we need help deciding music! we cant decide on music to skaate to. we are teenage girls. and we want the music to be up beat and fun and something that we can have really cool glitz outfits to when we compete and perform it :) any music ideas would be GREATLY appreciated. but asap answer please we have to make the routine soon.

I figure skate too! :) I'm doing a duet with another girl and we're doing a Glee medley. Last year me and another girl did "nothing in this world" by Paris Hilton, that was fun. "Girls Just wanna have fun" is always a fun one too, by Cindy Lauper or Miley Cyrus. Or you could do a Taylor Swift song, or you could both choose your favorite song and do a mash up, thats always fun too! Good Luck & Have fun!! :)

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Recently, I went prom dress shopping. I was only going to browse, but I tried one dress on and I fell in love. It is a corset top with a princess, tulle poofy skirt. I really loved the way I felt in it, and I looked like a princess haha.

But I feel like I've rushed the decision since it was only the second store I went to. I'm so scared that I'll end up hating it by the time prom rolls around in May.

Can anyone give me any personal experience? I'm afraid it will be hard to walk in, hard to sit in, and I won't even be able to dance with my date. I've always worn the 'sexier' form fitting dresses, and I'm just scared I made a mistake. I would be so upset if I ended up regretting buying the dress, since my parents spent so much money on it.

I'd love to hear your opinions!

I wore a princess poofy corset type dress to my senior prom and I didn't have any problem dancing in it. Getting in and out of the car wasn't too hard, you just need to make sure you have all the poof in there haha, and sitting wasn't too bad either. Although, going to the bathroom was slightly difficult. Either way I'm sure you will look gorgeous and have a blast. Just enjoy it!!

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This is going to sound crazy but like...

My bf was with this girl about 5 months ago. They had sex a few times. I had sex with my boyfriend 2 months ago for the first time.

When he saw me naked and touched me he remarked about how smooth I was down there. He said all the other girls he'd ever been with weren't as smoothe as me. Hes did it with like 6 other girls before. I took it as a compliment.

Then we was talking and he said something about like his last gf had little bumps and he assumed that it was just a part of girls since he'd seen and felt those before.

Ok, now, fast forward now. It's been 2 months since our first time together and now I have these...bump things too? So, I looked it up and ppl say bumps on your vagina are genital warts.

The bumps dont have a head and they wont pop. they're like...around my hole part and...like...just...around that stuff down there.

So, I'm wondering if he some how gave me genital warts from his ex gf? It doesn't make sense because HE doesn't have warts. And he's the first and ONLY guy I've had sex with.

So, could I have some how caught warts from his EX girlfriend? I mean, it dont make sense because he doesnt have bumps but I didnt have these before we did it. Ugh. Anybody got answers? thnx

Yes genital warts are contagious, as well as herpes. I suggest going to see a doctor.

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i'm 18 and still a virgin. i'm definetly not ashamed of it, actually i'm kinda proud. its not like i'm ugly, actually alot of people are surprised or don't believe me that i'm still a virgin i just refuse to give my virginity to someone who doesn't deserve it and i haven't met anyone worth giving it to yet (i know i'm old fashioned but whatever). i've had a few boyfriends and definetly many opportunities but i just didn't want to. but i feel like everyone my age and even a little younger has had sex. when i hang out with certain friends thats all they talk about. i mean somethings i can contribute because i've done everything else except actual intercourse. but i just feel like i'm alone. is there anyone out there my age virgins?

I'm 20 and still a virgin. A lot of my friends are always like you're missing out.. but you can't miss out on something you haven't done.. so I'm content with my decisions. just waiting for the right person.

Hope this helps!

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I am 15 years old and i have a horrible case of TMJ from grinding my teeth together. My jaw clicks when i open it up and down & even when i try opening it up and down, it moves to the right before coming down. I get bad headaches behind my eyes, or above my eyes. Sometimes alla round my head or on the sides of my head or in the back but mostly my Temporials. My parents are BOTH dentist's and they are trying to make an appointment for me to see my ortho. At their office, i got an x ray, and it proved that i had an immensely bad case of TMJ for my age. My teeth alignment is somewhat off. I am scared that my jaw is going to go crooked and stay crooked. /: Can veneers help with my tmj? what can heal my tmj? & no the sleep mouth guards do not work. i tried one for months and it did nothing- & braces are not an option for my age... so i was thinking maybe porcelain veneers? besides the teeth i have now are veryyy little/yellow/and spaced out. do you think that if i don't fix them now, i will need surgery later? East five pts

I went to physical therapy for my TMJ because it was so bad and it seemed to help a lot actually. Maybe look in to trying that. I went to a TMJ specialist and they referred me to physical therapy. I tried the mouth gaurd too and it didn't help me either. I'm 19 by the way.

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I'm 20/f almost 21 and I'm only a size 32 a.. what is wrong? Why havnt my boobs grown?

I'm in the exact same situation as you. I'm almost 20 and still a 32a.. probably even less than that. I think it is just in our genetics. At least that's what I've been told by my biology of women teacher.

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Hi 8)
ok i have a huge problem and its been on my mind for ages basically theres this boy i really like but he doesnt know me. he doesnt even know i exist. i see him sometimes but he hasnt ever seen me. ive had a crush on him for 5 and a half years now and i really want to meet him i hardly ever see him now only sometimes, and im always with parents when i do see him. i think im in love please help i need to find a way to speak to him, hes been on my mind a lot lately and i cant eat, think or study please help
thanks in advance (im 19)
xxx

Maybe you could find him on facebook or something of that matter and then gradually start talking to him. Then you will get comfortable with talking to him and maybe when you see him in public you will be able to go up to him and talk to him. Hope this helps!

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My friend gave me a thing of Velveeta cheese today because she accidentally bought a second box of it when she already had some at home. I accepted it but I've never eaten it. I know it's a processed cheese, obviously, but what are some things I can eat with this Velveeta?

If you melt it and then mix it with chili (with no beans) it makes a really good chip dip.

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can i get pregnant if i had sex on 3, 4 sept and my periods are due on 11th sept.

Yes that is very likely. Two weeks before your period starts an egg is released and it makes its way to the uterus which is about when your period starts.. so you were right in the middle of that so its very possible that you could be pregnant.

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How can you find out how tall you are? I'm 14 and I'm a girl and I'm white or caucasian or whatever. Everybody says I'm really short and I hate it because I'm only like 5'2" but I keep saying I'm only 14, right? and I got time to grow I think. Anyways, how tall is the average 14 year old girl then? && if I'm not that tall should I see a doctor?

Everyone has different DNA which determines how tall you will be. I'm almost 20 and I'm only 5' 3" so I wouldn't worry about it. If you're only 14 you still have time to grow, girls tend to grow until they are 20 or 21.

Hope this helps!

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I don't know what to do with him! I found out from my bff that my bf made a facebook group thing about our relationshp. I went and red a few things on it and it is personal and nothing anybody should know but us so I told him I knew he had a secret he was keeping from me but not what it was so he would tell me or something but he didn't. i kinda thought that he posted stuff and didn't think it was bad and I wanted to give him chances to say so but he just said he didnt have no secrets so i went back to read the rest and he had made it private only so now it is hidden from me.

I guess what I am asking is if he didn't think this was wrong why did he hide it when i found out? He still denies everything and now i got no proof because i cant see it anymore!!! i have been crying about this and i feel betrayed like he has a secret life on facebook or something! should i stay with him if he isn't going to be honest and still hides things?

Sorry if this is too long!

I think your best option is to come flat out and say what's bothering you. Guys don't understand the subtle hints and and need you to be blunt and just tell what it is you're trying to say. If he still doesn't fess up then I wouldn't stay with him if he's not going to be honest.. honesty is one of the most important things in a relationship.

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so im a senior this year. after highschool im going to college. i dont want to go to school in my home state i wanna go somewhere out of state. but my family keeps saying you gotta go to college instate because out of state is too expensive. well i really want to go out of state because i dont think any of the instate colleges will fit me. so what do i do?

Some states allow reciprocity.. (I think thats how it's spelled..) But anyways, its where the surrounding states recieve the "instate" tuition. For example, if you live in Minnesota, you can go to Iowa, North Dakota or Wisoconsin and pay the same tuition as if you lived in any of those states.. so I would check into that.

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my brother just passed away about a week ago and I want to name my first born after him. his name is richie. so obviously if my first born is a boy that would be the name. but I need a girl version of the name richie. any ideas please?

Richelle and you could call her Rikki for short :)

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Hello i have a 6 months old toy fox terrier shes a female. I received her when she was 3 months old. We've been trying to potty train her and she just cant seem to get it. She's very energetic and playful. The times she does go potty outside we reward her and praise her but shes so hyper all the time i dont think she knows what shes being rewarded for. We try to keep an eye on her to look for the signs of when she needs to go and when we cant we put her in her kennel. She rarely goes to the bathroom in there so we use it to our advantage as soon as we take her out of her kennel we bring her outside to go potty. The only problem is she doesnt understand to go OUTSIDE! We can be outside for like 45min and she wont go but as soon as we come inside she will. Its definitely getting frustrating! Any suggestions or tips?

Thanks

I trained my dog to a bell, so when we would take him out side we would hit the bell with his paw and then take him out and say "go potty!" and when he would go we would give him a treat and we continuously did that and after a week he was potty trained. You have to make sure to take him out right when they ring the bell so they understand why they are going out side.

hope this helps!

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When waz ur first kiss?

Mine was when I was 17.. which is late, but it was totally worth it no matter how awkward it was! Mine was in my car when I was dropping him off and it was kind of forced on us.

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