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boyfriend problem againnn.
me and my boyfriend live in different states
and he got kicked out of his aunts house. again..
he called me like the day after cause his work scedual is really lame so we barely talk anymore
and when he didnt have work on sunday. he decided to go hangout wiht his friends and not talk to me. i understand. but he always see's them and talks to them. and me and him go like a couple days without talking. which is his fault. but he still chose them over me.
he called me yesteday morning and told me and stuff bout what happened so he said he rented himself out an apartment. but i think hes lieing cuase he called me from the same number he called from last time he was kicked out. which is his friends? so idk. but i really dont care about that
but then he got off of work at like 1 at night so then he called me after we talked for like 10 mintues and then he said hes gonna go get something to eat and then he call me back. which of course never happened. and that made me really mad/sad. he alwaysss says he will and then never does. what i dont get is what is more important to do at like 2 in the morning? and im pretty sure he just had to go call another girl.. but whatever. this whole relationship thing is making me soo stressed out and its to the point where i dont even care anymore. and i never say that cause i always care. i care way too much. im the only one putting effort into this. and hes not. but then we do talk hes always like oh i dont think you like me blahblahblah but when really. its him who doesnt show how much he wants to be with me casue hes losing me. i really need help. i dont know what to do.
oh and ps. sorry this was long anddd. dont say try calling him cause his cell phone isnt working so he has to call me from one of his friends phone or something..
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I'm pretty sure you answered your own question. This guy your with shows he doesn't care about this relationship. If he did, he would choose YOU and call you every chance he had, also knowing you guys don't see each other it's hard to maintain a healthy relationship. Things are falling apart and your the only one putting an effort into making it work. It's time to let him go and find a better man. Honestly.. he seems like he has more "important" priorities. Find a guy who you can actually see and have a decent, healthy relationship, instead of waiting out for a guy who doesn't put an effort. Well hope I helped, good luck!
- lacey
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In all honesty it is time to move on.
He puts no effort into the relationship
and friends (who could easily be another
girl) are more important than you are.
Thats really not uncommon, he can't see
you, they are right there.
Since his own Aunt kicked him out he
must be up to something. You didn't say
why but it must be something his Aunt took
seriously. I will venture a guess that
maybe he can't keep job or maybe hes
into drugs. He could be giving you a
lie about that since you have no way
of knowing.
You could call his Aunt and ask her
side of the story. But its probably
best to look for a nice guy you can
actually spend time with.
Sorry if this sounds a little harsh.
I'm sure you have been having the same
thoughts though.
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