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okay im in 10th grade and im Really into fashion. i shop mostly at hollister abercrombie h&m bebe and forever 21..i mix and match things but it seems like whenever i dress up and look nice all the girls get really b*tchy and say mean things (and i don't look slutty in the things i wear either) so i just wear jeans and a regualar shirt like from a&f to school just so they'll have nothing to say about it. but when i wear that i feel like everyone else...what should i do?
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You know, I hate to burst everyone's bubble, but I don't think everyone is just jealous. AND, I don't think you should change the way you dress.
This is an attitude problem, and I don't think it's their's that's the problem. I've known plenty of girls and women, in all stages of life, who are extra pretty and / or dress extra nice, and they don't have this problem. I have also known girls and women who have an attitude and it shows.
I don't mean to be harsh, but there really is no reason you shouldn't be able to look the way you want, as long as your attitude is approachable and friendly. If you worry more about how you're treating people and making THEM feel, and less about how your being treated and how they make YOU feel, you will be pleasantly surprised!
Just remember, if they already have an opinion of you, they may be cautious at first, you need to understand that and not let it put you off. If you show a little vulnerability yourself, it can really help. Good luck!
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you have your own style so wear it! the other girls are probaly just acting bitchy because theyre jealous and mad because they cant mix and match as well as you.
it sounds cliche, but most of the time thats what it is.
i hope i helped! =]
let me know how everything goes!
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It's said so much, but these girls saying these things could just be saying them because they're jealous. I'd say not to listen. If they're not exactly being productive or helping you out at all/just making you feel bad, why bother listening to what they have to say? You're your own person, and if you know that you look good and you don't look slutty or anything, feel free and confident to wear what you want!
Honestly it sounds like they're looking for conformity. You look different, they don't know how to respond nicely and say that you look good, so they're responding negatively.
Really, don't worry about them. As long as there's not a ton of cleavage or anything, it should be fine. If you really have to, ask a friend for an honest opinion on whether or not your shirt or outfit looks inappropriate.
Good luck, and don't change yourself for anyone else!
XOXO
KAT.
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Girls really can be so mean. But, you shouldn't change the way you dress because jealous girls don't like it. Be yourself & wear what YOU want to wear, not what other people want you to wear. Don't let little things like that stop you from expressing yourself. All it is, is jealousy. You're probably a really pretty girl & they say clothes make a person. So the cuter your clothes, the more prettier you must be. So let them talk about you, at least you know you look a lot better than they do! ♥
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they probably are saying these things because you look cute and their jealous. personally i would ignore them,and strut my stuff...
anyways, you can still have alot of personality while wearing a tshirt. you can dress it up with cool jewlery peices like layered neclaces or braclets...
bottom line: look cute in jeans and a tee, but dont be afraid to be who you are and if that means you like to look good then work it out girlfriend!
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To mix with you're friend's try to be like them so they won't have to talk behind you're back, the way girls dress that you hang around with it's there gig so if you go to a dance and wan't to dress go alone with you're boyfriend, to keep thing's cool with you're school friend's dress casual. or you can take the????.
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