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love help
is loving someone enough to make a relationship work? idk im so lost it seems like its never gonna work but i love him and he loves me... bad bad circumstances tho we fight all the time and he makes me sad alot and i never get to see him but when ever i try to end it i cant. I love him and i dont know what to do
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Honestly, no. It has to come from both sides. Youu both have to love eachother. You also have to know how to respond to one another-whether it be their personality or their mood/attitude in certain circumstances. theres a lot more than goes into a relationship tha love. If youre not happy--100% happy--why be in the relationship? I understand you love him, but if youre not happy, what makes you think that you will be a couple years down the road. It took me a while to realize it, but theres so many guys out there. Not all of them will treat you bad, but not all will treat you well. Find out what exactly you want in a guy based on your own preference-not on what your boyfriend is like now-if hes not all of those and more, then why be with him? Theres a lot of guys out there who will love you and care for you more than you can ever imagine. Its just lifting your head up and getting out of that tunnel vision. Yea, it'll hurt to end a relationship with someone you love, but if youre not completely happy, its not worth staying upset about. There is someone else out there, you just have to be patient and wait for him to come along. Keep your chin up, if your not happy, end it. If you need anymore help or have anymore questions, lemme know!
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Loving a person isn't enough to keep a relationship together. Honesty, Trust, Etc. Needs to be in a relationship. If you never see him, your always fighting and he makes you sad chances are your relationship isnt going to work out. If i was in your shoes i would talk to him and tell him that you two need to talk in person and if not in person in the phone tell him how you honestly feel. If he fights about what you have to say or yells or something like that i would break up with him give it time to heal and try to move on. if you tell him how you feel he should be like aw baby i dont mean to make you sad or something like that.
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Loving not enough to complete the relationship. It's about devotion to your companion, it's about making your boyfriend/girlfriend happy. Doing what it takes to make the relationship work. Two people make a relationship. One person can't make the effort and the other try when it's convenient for them. If you both are devoted to your relationship then i'd say you have some hope, but if your boyfriend has NO intentions in making an effort to make it work then there's no point in trying to make the relationship work. It's not worth it. You need to either talk to him about it to see where he is and what are his intentions then go from there. Hope things work out for you
- Lacey
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Love isn't enough, but its a great start. For things to work, both people need to work hard at the relationship. Relationships are too much work for one person. If you really want it to work, try your hardest. Be realistic with yourself though, don't do all the work or be unfair to yourself. If this relationship isn't right for you, or is causing you constant unhappiness, don't be afraid to move on and let it go. Do what makes you happy even if it doesn't include the person you are with at the moment. Your prince could be patiently waiting in your future. Sometimes you have to let go of something old to get something new. You haven't let go yet because you aren't done and that's ok. I hope you guys can work things out. If things don't work out and you decide you really have had enough, you will find the strength to leave.
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Love is a battlefield.
Fight through it to win the battle. If you cant win you still wont lose because there will be more battles in your life some better some worse. Love is a battlefield. A battlefield is life.
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