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Shy Boy
ok about the shy boy.He is 16 years old. I am 15. I have asked some people in his grade about him, this is what i've found out. BTW this is gonna be long! He is shy,and has been picked-on in the past i guess because he doesn't meet societies standards of masculiity.He applies himself in school and gets extremly good grades. He cries a lot i guess due to low frustration tolerence. He also cried when people pushed books out of his hands(rude i know). He has never had a girlfriend which is good and bad for me. Good because compared to nobody i'm pretty good plus i'm giving him the time of day. Bad because if he did like me he may not have the courage to ask me out. Two boys in his grade(junior) said he was gay, which I highly doubt. He is on the swim team and plays golf. His family is fairly well off(he has a mustang convertible). He looks at me an awaful lot and during a convocation moved in the same row as me like four people away and looked at me like 7 times, but never spoke. He sits alone sometimes at lunch. When he does sit with others he sits on the end. Which I think means he doesn't like to feel closed in. After he is done eating he goes and sits with the populars but is not necessarily included in the dicussion if you know what i mean. 2 other juniors said to go for it because if I would just talk to him I have like a 90% chance with him. Arrgh, I am just soo shy though. I honestly don't know if i'll ever get the courage to talk to him. I know I am just building him up as something perfect in my head which is why it is so hard. I mean he's only human. So my question is really 2 parts. 1-What do you think I should do as in like conversation..ect. and 2- Do you think I have a chance in hell. Please be honest. And I AM SOO SORRY THIS IS SO FREAKIN' LONG!! SORRY
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It's worth a shot there's no harm in trying talk to him even if things don't work out the way you wanted you'll still know you tried he seems like he's interested in you as far as how to start the conversation maybe ask him how his day is and how he's doing and how his classes are then once you've started talking ask if he'd like to hangout with you everyone deserves chances at least once i'd give him a chance seeing as it seems like many other people don't maybe he'll apperciate you making a attempt to talk to him and him having your company there seeing as it seems like he's alone most of the time
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From The Sounds Of It This Boy Is Definitly Worth It..He May B Extremley Shy And You Mabey B Too But Don't You Think It Would Also B Worth It To Just Talk To Him, Get To Know Him And Who Knows Something Good Will Come Out Of It, You Might Have To B Paitent With Him, Let Him Know That You Are There For Him, Frienship Wise at First...It Would B Better For You To Continue To Find Out More About Him..:)..Hope this Helps...:)
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you talk to him, your gonna be his mother#&!*in hero, I tell you that mis, hes gonna love and love you.
Trust me, Courage is something you got, Everyone has it, And you got it! now go show it!
btw seriously, you must be really one cool girl, why can't boys meet well off nice people like you.
So #1 90% chance, the other 10% is hes really gay.
#2 tell him you want to eat lunch with him tomorrow, and or then ask if he would enjoy company to a park or if he wants to go buy some milkshakes together
its gonna be a little awkward at first, but you got it, remember you got courage! everyone does!
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