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what do i do?!
this is soooo long sorry haha....ok so this guy and me have been best friends for like a yearish. we seriously like besties for reals he is the only person who knows EVERYTHING about me and same with me about him. he broke up with his girlfriend at the begining of the summer and the first time we hung out while he was single this summer(i was grounded for a long time) we were out at like 3 and ended up getting pulled over and i got in trouble for breaking city curfew but he is 18 so he was good to go. we hung out a couple weeks later, my mom had kicked me out of the house and he rescued me and we went the movies twice that day haha and made out like hard core. im not allowed to see him anymore cuz my parents found out that he's been in trouble with the cops a bit. and i cant text him. but i like him sooo much i have no idea what to do. we are going to date if we could actually see each other but until then i have no idea what to do? i know if were together we will be together for a long long time. ahh i just dont what to do. i cant get in anymore trouble but i want so bad to see him!
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i was in a similar situation a few months ago.
my boyfriend who was also my best friend from highschool got me in trouble with the cops. He wanted to steal me a gift from a department store n me, just beign ther wiht him, i was considered an "accessory to the crime" and wsa charged along with him. My parents also restricted me from seeing him ever again, so trust me when i say, its just not worth it. Sometimes, being a daredevil and rebelious seems like the right hting to do but it truly isnt. Your parents are telling you to stay away because they care n they are the ONLY people that will care for u selflessly. Trust me on that. Tell the guy " it was fun while it lasted but if YOU don't care enough to take care of YOURSELF, you're not ready to take care of anybody else"
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My advice to you is pretty simple i know that you can't get into anymore trouble but do what you think is right if seeing him is what your heart tells you to do than my advice would be to do it take a chance with this guy if your positive that the two of you will be together for a long, long time and your also positive that he is a good guy to you than see him (it's okay to rebelle against your parents sometimes right?? i know i have!****) haha!!! good luck**
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Okay well you have to ask yourself
"Is putting a boy before your family the best idea?" I mean is it what you really want? I do not mean to sound harsh but you have to think what is the best for everyone including yourself.
Can you personally and honestly handle that stress of your family trying to protect you from a guy that may not be in your best interest? or do you think that boy is more important.
Yeah this seems like the most unselfish option but it is good for everyone including yourself if you can find someone that can protect you from hurt. Not get you wrapped up in it.
Just think about it. There are many guys out there. You may have to kiss a lot of toads before you find your handsome prince. Trust me I know the feeling.
I tried to hide a guy from my mom. My first boyfriend. The day he dumped me, my mom found out we kissed. It was a double whammy. Don't make this guy more trouble than he's worth if he's causing you to get into high tension with your family.
You have more chances of your family being there for you than that guy will.
Just please think it through.
-KD/f/15
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