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Which Guy?
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So I have a kinda big problemmm
I have been going out with a guy for about 3 months and I love him so muchhh
But...
I am REALLY attracted to a guy that I just met, we just clicked, almost like "love at first sight"
The guy I love is amazing but we have about 2 things in common, literally....I love horses he is dead scared of themmm, he is amazing at sports and I don't really do many of themmm, etc.
But the guy I am attracted to, and like a lot, we have almost everything in common! We have the same disposition and everythinggg! He is amazinggg and we would make a really great coupleee
The worst part is, he admited that he liked me a few days agooo, and I want to make a move, but I love another guyyy
And it is love, but the begining stages, not like "I would die without you" love....
If you know what I mean...
What should I do, be with the guy I love, or the guy that I have so much fun with and am REALLY attracted to...
By the wayyy, I am way more attracted to the guy I am NOT going out with...
If that helps anyyyyy
Thanks <3
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Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
dont leave the person you love for the person you like
write the pros and cons about each boy
whoever has more pros..that may be the better one
but also look at the future with each boy..their families..what your friends and family would think
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ok so the guy your with right now i can say that oppisites do attract but if you are extremley attracted to this other dude that you have tons in common with then i would go with the person you can actually talk to and i would also go with my gut feeling....
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If you actually loved him, the fact that he is scared of horses would not even phase you. You would respect his fear. You would also appreciate his talent for sports, even if it is not your thing. It's okay that your boyfriend isn't exactly like you. Someone does not have to be your clone in order for you to love them.
I hate to break it to you, but your definition of "love" seems to be what most people would call a "classic crush". If you really loved your boyfriend, you would never even begin to think of leaving him for somebody else who you barely know, just because the new guy seems fun.
That being said, you are obviously dating for fun as opposed to for true love and commitment. So, go ahead. Dump your boyfriend and have some fun.
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