Gender: Female
Location: michigan
Age: 15
Member Since: August 1, 2008
Answers: 25
Last Update: January 23, 2009
Visitors: 1758
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i want to die, i am having no interest to live, i tried my level best to die but i didnt get success. All doors closed for me i am not in position to live. my proffession is not successful my love is big failure. I am having no interest to live please help me (link)
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right now your only focusing on the negitive bad things in your life. you say you hae no interest to live but what about he ones that love you such as your family and friends. i know they would never wnat to see you dead. dont do that to them.
dont ever punish yourself because your not happy with yourself.
do what you can do make yourself happy.
listen to happy music.
watch a funny movie.
if your profession is not strong, change it. do what makes you happy
if your love is a failure, the person obviously isnt right for you and you deserve someone much better.
everyone has bad things in their life they dont like, but that DOES NOT mean you end your life jsut because your not happy with it.
fix the bad things in your life and find things that make you happy.
everything happens for a reason
and theres a reason god put you on this world
its his decision for when your lie ends.
he knows what is right for you he has a plan for you. follow his plan for you.
and life will be good. promise.
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Hey. This is a story in continuation. My boyfriend wrote me a note today, and he said he would write my best friend a note too. when my best friend didn't get a note, she was complaining to my boyfriend about how she didn't get a note. Its so hard for me to handle this because i'm just sitting there thinking....why the fuck does it matter if he gives you a note? Just because he kisses me it doesn't mean he has to kiss you too.... In the first question, I mentioned that she had been flirting with him. I really want to brake up with him because I think he likes the fact that she flirts with him. He doesn't want to be mine really. If he did, he wouldn't let her flirt with him. And the fact that she always comes running to me all happy and giddy after the class that she had with him showed that he was flirting back. One day I decided to test her. I had just had lunch with him, and earlier on in the day she was happy. I acted all happy and excited pretending that something had happened between me and my boyfriend, before he was my boyfriend. One of my friends asked me why I was so happy, I was just like. I don't know! I really like Joe. Then my so called best friend went deppressed...in like 2 seconds! it was weird. then i realized that she had a thing for him. Today she decided to invite him to a dance at her church. Normally when I ask him if he wants to hang out he doesn't try to ask his mother. But this time when my friend asked him, he asked her to go with him to go ask him mom. Its really sad, but i have to do what i have to do. My ex best friend by the way once told me this..."when i see a girl happy, i get this feeling inside me that says, GO GET HER". I am going to brake up with him, but i just want to figure out if i'm doing the right thing. My heart feels heavy, and i can't take the weight anymore. So if you guys can help me, i would really appreciate it so much. thank you for your responses.:D Would it be better to dump him on the phone, or in person? (link)
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wow your "best friend" is deffantly not a true friend. seriously they like each other and you know that quote thats like: you always want something you cant have. they both cant have each other because of you and are secretly flirting behind your back. you dont deserve both of them. seriously forget both of them. it might be hard but sit them down one by one and tell them your situation and how you feel. then if you feel its right..break it off. with both of them.
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Im going to a Halloween event at the local amusement park on friday with two of my friends, Mike and Anna. I have a huge crush on Mike and I want to take advantage of friday and show him that im interested in him. how do i do this without being obvious? i want to show that im interested but at the same time i dont want to come on too strong and be annoying. also im not sure if he likes me back so is there anyway to tell? we get along great and talk a lot. (link)
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when you guys make eye contact hold it longer than usual and smile alot more and smile at him
and innocently flirt haha
hope this helps:)
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okay so me and my friend are sort of sharing this dog.
and like she gave it to me,
and like i really cant buy dog food right now and i dont know why the heck i didnt think about asking her to bring me dog food (dumb i know).
but like u know those frozen vegetables?
well i cooked them and let them cool.and hes eating it, i mean it looks like it likes it but is it healthy for it??.
and what time of dog food do i get.
hes like almost 1. and a weiner dog.
what are you supposed to feed those
THANKS SO MUCH (link)
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when i dont have dog food, ill make hamburgers and you can give your dog the hamburger meat, and also enjoy one yourself:) haha
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i love my hair but my bangs are so flat and i was wondering how to give them more volume and stuff, does anyone have any ideas? thanks (link)
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blow drying with a round brush
also "teasing" them with a fine tip comb
ask your mother or friend how to tease your hair then hairspray it afterwards..that gives your major volume goood luck!
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Hey guys, I'm a senior in HS and I have been thinking about cheering in college. Overall I say I'm a pretty damn good cheerleader. I'm always the one to start the spiriting on the sidelines and I have the best jumps on the squad. I have good arm placements and I learn cheers and dances pretty fast. The only thing is I'm not the great on my faces, I smile, but I don't make good face expressions. I'm cheering the in Capital one bowl and the pro bowl in the coming months. I can tumble, but getting more tricks. I have a standing back hand spring, round off back hand springs, sometimes I will do three, just depends in I feel like I can. I have my round off back tuck, and I am currently working on my standing back tuck. So I think I have the skills to be a college cheerleader.
Can anyone who has cheered in college or am currently tell me the steps I need to take to make my wish come true? Thank you! (link)
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im a cheerleader in high school but you defffantly have the skills to be a college cheerleader! the facial expressions should just come naturally so when you want to make some happy ones, just think about how much fun your having and good things
but you should forsure cheer in college!
good luck!
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OK im 13 but i only weigh 76 lbs and i don't have an eating disorder because i eat all the time
why dont i weigh normal oh and im only 4'8 (link)
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every body is different, noone is the same.
you have not grown as much as others, but you will.
trust me, just wait it out, you will grow with time
maybe mark your height on a wall and check it every month you could see a differece then.
your height and weight are normal together
so dont worrry, but talk to your mom if it bothers you that much
hope this helps:)
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okay so i made a dumb mistake long story short
i had sex today and my boyfriend didnt use a condom.. i know we should have and i have had pregnancy scares lately where i think im pregnant because i end up missing my period but i guess my cycle just changed a bit bit now its back on track..
i use this online thing to track my period and it says like ovulation day and such this website
http://www.mymonthlycycles.com/
and it says that today i was fertile... and i had sex without a condom ah.. and im only 16 and i know it was a mistake so im not looking for a lecture i just want peoples opinions of if they think i have a high or low chance of getting pregnant.. i mean .. he pulled out and jizzed so.. i don't think any got in me.. (link)
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theres a "morning after pill" you should take that
also visit
www.teenwire.com
ive never been on it, but i heard its really helpful
hope this helps:)
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14/f i was just wondering if kissing comes naturally because i havent kissed a guy b4 and im pretty nervous about it...also if you have any kissing tips that would be great thanks =) muddymidfielder (link)
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dont force a kiss just because the guys cute and your friends are doing it.
do it when you feel the time is right, perfect place, perfect guy..etc.
follow your instinks
hope this helps:)
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omg i'm freaking out! i don't know if it's because i got myself scared or what, but here's the problem, i'm scared if i left a tampon in! and that means, i'd have two in right now!!! is there signs to know for sure? because, if there is two in me, it's only been in since yesterday... but still i'm really scared. and i'm trying to think if i took it out yesterday, but i just can't seem to remember!!! and today, when i put one in, it kinda hurt, so i'm wondering... what if i forgot to take one out yesterday? and i used one last night (after the one i might've left in) i know for a fact that i took that one out but nothing felt weird when i was wearing it... PLEASE HELP (link)
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take them all out, make sure nothing is in there that shouldnt be.
wear pads from now on unless you have to wear a tampon
be safe, good luck
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Okkk
So I have a kinda big problemmm
I have been going out with a guy for about 3 months and I love him so muchhh
But...
I am REALLY attracted to a guy that I just met, we just clicked, almost like "love at first sight"
The guy I love is amazing but we have about 2 things in common, literally....I love horses he is dead scared of themmm, he is amazing at sports and I don't really do many of themmm, etc.
But the guy I am attracted to, and like a lot, we have almost everything in common! We have the same disposition and everythinggg! He is amazinggg and we would make a really great coupleee
The worst part is, he admited that he liked me a few days agooo, and I want to make a move, but I love another guyyy
And it is love, but the begining stages, not like "I would die without you" love....
If you know what I mean...
What should I do, be with the guy I love, or the guy that I have so much fun with and am REALLY attracted to...
By the wayyy, I am way more attracted to the guy I am NOT going out with...
If that helps anyyyyy
Thanks (link)
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dont leave the person you love for the person you like
write the pros and cons about each boy
whoever has more pros..that may be the better one
but also look at the future with each boy..their families..what your friends and family would think
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I don't know what I have...
I think that it might be a problem but I don't even know...
My symptomns:
Tired ALL the time
Very forgetful
I shake all the time
Anxious about everything
Fluxuating eating habits (eating a lot then not anything at all)
Developing a very short attention span
Weird aches and pains
Moody (I am a girl if that helps anyy)
Can you help me? Have you seen this before? Have you had any or all of these symptomns? I am very confused and I am very afraid of what the docc might say...
IM me at ashleymarie854 if you need more infooo (via AIM)
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its probably intense stress
but dont tell yourslef that your sick or feel those symptoms.
you should probably goto a doctor and get medicine for that
hope this helps:)
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14/F
Alrighty, well... My friend and I were talking on IM about lacy panties for some reason. And I told her that they were pointless. Who's gonna see them anyway unless you go around flashing people? Well, she said maybe your bf or husband may wanna see them soon. I thought that was yucky. Well, as the conversation ended, it made me think about my body. My butt is like, huge. It's from sitting from front of a computer for the past two years. 0o; Well, that and my face has a lot of blemishes from scars and pimples. Then, my hair feels like a mop that you put out in the sun to dry. -.- Well, I told my friend that my body wasn't built for that stuff. She offered a make over, but it scared me so I denied, but secretly I wouldn't mind. I mean, looks aren't as important to me as computer time, but... Now it's bothering me. I know that if I ever wore those lacy kinky panties or any lolita, that I would probably even scare the devil away! >< Does anybody know what I can do to change this? Something simple? I must tell you that I am VERY lazy and... I am in love with the computer. -.- I practically worship it... So... I'm begging for help here, please! ToT
Thank you! ♥
If you have a site, send me the link, please. ^^ (link)
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dont feel like you have to wear lace undies to feel pretty, you should feel pretty mostly from the inside, if you dont like the outside then tell your friend: maybe that makeover doesnt sound like such a bad idea
who knows what could happenn:)
hope this works:)
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wht is social anxiety?
thakns:) (link)
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when people are stressted out from the pressure of being "popular" and friends..etc
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hey i need some help here
ok my boyfreind is really freaking me out we've only been dating two months and he already wants to Marry me?? plus he argues and treats me like shit
but i dont have the heart to dump him. im not one to break peoples hearts
so i wanna get him to dump me unpainfully to him
any ideas (link)
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i know this sounds bad..but if the situation is that bad..
i would tell your friends all the bad things about it.
then tell his friends all the bad things about it
and tell his friends what youwould want to say to him and have them say whatever is needed to be said to him for you
basicalllyy let people know how you really feel about him(the bad things) and make sure he finds out
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I had a best friend when i was five. She moved away and i didnt see her until i was eight and then i havnt seen her since [im 15 now]. I spoke to her recently through myspace/bebo/facebook/msn etc and she is coming down where i live due to family commitments and her and her mum are going to drop by for a visit. My mum and her mum are great friends, so they will have plenty to talk about/ But me and my "best" mate, we've talked on msn and stuff and she seems so nice and so friendly but what if its awakard and there is nothing to talk about, what should i do? I mean she suggested the arrangements, so she must want to see me...what do i do? How can i keep us talking (link)
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find old pictures of you two or ask your mum about good memories you two had, then when you guys meet up show her the pictures and talk about things you both remember, then to make it not so akward, casually ask your mum and her mum what they remember about you two, then tell her some common interest you have, or a good movie or book you enjoyed, then you guys might have things in common
hope this helps:)
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I've only dated a couple of guys- enough to get me started I guess... anyways, now I'm more "interested" in guys I guess, than I was before because I know a little bit of how things work. There's nobody I have an ABSOLUTE crush on, but there are a few guys that have caught my eye. I was just wondering, how do you initiate something with someone? I've only been asked out by guys, and I'd like to start taking chances myself and take my own picks. But it seems awkward, like what if they don't take the hint? I don't want to make it so methodical like: flip your hair around him or, wear his favorite color and talk about his interests... I mean, I want it to flow and not seem like work. Any advice? (link)
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*walk past him alot more
casually talk to his friends while he is around
talk to people that are around him
*smile at him alot more
*get some eye contact between you guys..then after it has happened a few times..hold it for longer
act happy and laugh when your around him
basically make him notice you**
if he likes what he sees, he will make an effort to talk to you or get your attention..then increase what your doing thats working to get his attention
hope this helps:)
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This is really weird and gross, but I think I have like stretch marks on my butt.
It's so embarrassing, I can't wear a bathing suit without feeling embarrassed because they show.
Anyway, I am skinny (105 lbs, 5' 4"). I don't understand why I have these weird marks. They just showed up a few months ago. I exercise three times a week, cardio and stuff.
I'm fifteen, so could they be like growth...marks?
Is there any way to get rid of them? (link)
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people only get stretch marks when the skin expands..so probably your butt got bigger and with your skin expanding..stretch marks appeared.
they make special lotion for like pregnant women with stretch marks on their tummys..they are made with like cocoa butter, that works like a charm. so look for cream made for stretch marks and lotions with cocoa butter.
hope this helps:)
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okay, so i was dating this kid for over 5monthss, and than we had a really bad fight, and he kept saying things like "haaaah i odnt need you, if you only knew the truth" and i figured he was just bluffing to make me jealous, that night we ended up breaking up. The next day at school, my "best friend" said, hey do you mind if me and your ex start talkingg? and i said whatever, hes scum. But that night when i got home me and him ended up working things out and i didnt even question his "if you only knew the truth" and my "bff" asking if they could start tlaking talking. So it was going good for about a month than i was hanging out with my friend and i went in her drawer to get a hoodie, and i see one of my bf's hoodies in htere, so i asked her about it and she said ohhh, we were outside in gym and he let me borrow it, can u take it and give it back to him for me? i didnt think much of that either, than i got home and it hit me like a rock, him saying "if you only knew the truth" her asking if they could talk, her having his hoodie in her room, i got livid, i asked him about it and he admitied hanging and kissing her, she just admited watching a movie. So i took him back, and gave her another chance, but within a month me and him got another fight and iwent out to get my nails done with my bff and i was on her phone, and he called and i answered, he thinking it was my friend said ayy babeee when will u be here? ( we were still together ). long stroy short, we broke up, its been aweek there dating, and he still tells me he loves me, blah blah blah, i wanna completely erase him, im so confused, what do i do, how do i get him out of my life, what do i say to her, Help? thanks. (link)
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wow she is NOT a true friend. dump her. you defffnatly dont need her. she is going behind your back with your boyfriend and then lieing about it! wow forget her. and your ex, forget him too! hes just out there looking for whatever he can get! you may love him but hes so not worth it. you can get a guy that will actually be loyal to you and not cheat on you with your best friend.
forget them both and move on from both. if i were you, id be mad and not talk to either of them and if your mad enough tell your other friends what they both did so they can watch out and know what both of them are really like.
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wow i need serious help
i am so white like its scary. not really but is there a good spraytan that stays for a while. i hate reaplyying things a million times please let me know (link)
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i am also scary pale too, with freckles hahah. but what i do is, i go to the beach or the pool like all the time, almost every day and i have gotten a little tan but my friends are very dark of coarse because they tan easier. so try to lay out alot but use protection! i got sun poisioning because i didnt use enough, and alsoo try self tanner lotions such as jergens natural glow, that works very well use fair skin tones first then after you are tanner move onto medium skin tones.
hope this helps!:)
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