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Boyfriend goes behind my back w/ best friend
okay, so i was dating this kid for over 5monthss, and than we had a really bad fight, and he kept saying things like "haaaah i odnt need you, if you only knew the truth" and i figured he was just bluffing to make me jealous, that night we ended up breaking up. The next day at school, my "best friend" said, hey do you mind if me and your ex start talkingg? and i said whatever, hes scum. But that night when i got home me and him ended up working things out and i didnt even question his "if you only knew the truth" and my "bff" asking if they could start tlaking talking. So it was going good for about a month than i was hanging out with my friend and i went in her drawer to get a hoodie, and i see one of my bf's hoodies in htere, so i asked her about it and she said ohhh, we were outside in gym and he let me borrow it, can u take it and give it back to him for me? i didnt think much of that either, than i got home and it hit me like a rock, him saying "if you only knew the truth" her asking if they could talk, her having his hoodie in her room, i got livid, i asked him about it and he admitied hanging and kissing her, she just admited watching a movie. So i took him back, and gave her another chance, but within a month me and him got another fight and iwent out to get my nails done with my bff and i was on her phone, and he called and i answered, he thinking it was my friend said ayy babeee when will u be here? ( we were still together ). long stroy short, we broke up, its been aweek there dating, and he still tells me he loves me, blah blah blah, i wanna completely erase him, im so confused, what do i do, how do i get him out of my life, what do i say to her, Help? thanks.
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wow she is NOT a true friend. dump her. you defffnatly dont need her. she is going behind your back with your boyfriend and then lieing about it! wow forget her. and your ex, forget him too! hes just out there looking for whatever he can get! you may love him but hes so not worth it. you can get a guy that will actually be loyal to you and not cheat on you with your best friend.
forget them both and move on from both. if i were you, id be mad and not talk to either of them and if your mad enough tell your other friends what they both did so they can watch out and know what both of them are really like.
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Hi,
I think the best thing for you to do is to get both of them out of your life. They both lied to you about the situation when you asked them about it.
As they always say men are going to be men. The fact that he through it up in your face "if you only knew the truth" is unforgiveable.
Going out with your best friend is a definite no, no in anyone's book. Friends don't share men.
If she did it once, she'll do it again.
Tell her how you feel and end the friendship.
He is not even worth your time. How can he love you if he's seeing your best friend? He's trying to be slick. He wants both.
Get things off your chest and move on.
Good Luck,
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first of all, dont let him get to you cuz he is worthless!! any guy who does that is just plain stupid and not worth your time! just laugh at his dumb ass!! and as for your so called "bestfriend" i would suggest that you completely throw her out of your life...besides what are you missing out on? anybody who even thinks about doing what she did is no friend at all!!! she can go to hell
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well apperently if he was going behind ur back he doesn't love u if hes hott then forget about him all guys with good looks are jerks i had a good looking boyfriend and while we were d8ing he was talking about my friends boobs but now i have a guy that doesn't have good looks but he has a great personality its not always about looks
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