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thinking of someone i dont even know


Question Posted Sunday August 24 2008, 5:00 pm

i'll try to make this one short, im 17 and she's about my age i think

so. i go snowboarding every sunday night its allaways a good laugh. tonight the ramps and stuff wernt made up so there wasnt anything else to do but bomb it down the slope all night. so 9 oclock comes and everyone but me is off the dry slope and in the bar, then a girl who i'v seen before working there had come out on her board, i dont even know her name we've spoken before but only breifly and then i was fine. but that was before i found out she had the same interest as me. anyway it turned half 9 and she'd had enough so she went up for the final time and i followed sort of on the lift a couple of hand rails back she got off at the top which was were i was going and she gave me the nicest smile and wave i have seen in my life. now of course that moment is stuck in my head and i dont want to get too attached to memories because i dont know her. i dont even know her name, i dont even know if she has a boy friend.. but yeah... has any one else had this trouble? how have you forgotten about things like this or if you have any good advice its all welcome, thanks

by the way dont say keep yourself busy :P im normally busy but its times like this that things just get to me lol thanks again


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0xymoron answered Sunday August 24 2008, 8:42 pm:
I know how that is. I've been through it. It's just something you have to deal with. If you see her again, don't just sit back. Be confident and say something. If you don't think you're going to see her again just live through it. You'll get over it, but just always remember, NEVER let a girl get away. If you like her, ASK FOR HER NUMBER. Don't get nervous or afraid, I know it's tough... But you'll end up regretting it later if you don't.

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Erinn_the_bamf answered Sunday August 24 2008, 6:57 pm:
I have had the same experience before. I was in a store once with a friend. As she was buying a shirt, I chatted it up with the boy working the register. He was just so funny and attractive, and I really regret not getting his number.

Anyway, moving on from my regrets, there really is no simple answer for how to get over someone like that. You just have to remember that there are other fish in the sea, and if fate really wants you to be with her, it will find a way to force you together. The only thing you really can do is go on living your life as you normally would, and you will eventually forget about her.

Oh, and by the way, every time I go into the store I met the cashier in, I secretly hope he'll be working. So I guess you could say I haven't forgotten about him completely :D

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