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What do i do?
My best friend jazmine dated this guy named tyson and she fell in love with him, he broke up with her and got together with a girl named kayla. Jazmine so isnt over it and is constantly trying to make him jealous and is even losing weight to try and get him back. She's goig to extremes and i dont know what to say to her to make her stop! She wont listen to me and the guy is a total jerk! She's not moving on how can i help her?
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First off let her know that your there for her and secondly id have to tell her to stop beating herself up over it because this dude is sooo not worth it no guy is really!!! ask her why she thinks she needs to lose weight ask her how this will make anything better..does it make her feel good will it make the guy come back?? if this is the way it's ment to be then there is nothing anybody can do i say forget the guy and move on it's not going to be easy but right now she needs a true and loyal friend that friend is you
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Just try and show her that you think she's beautiful, and show her that she doesnt need him!
obviously if he left her, she wasnt what he wanted...and thats how most guyz are, FLAT OUT SELFISH!! sooner or later she'll find someone new,until then just try try try
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Well, from any perspective, this could turn out to be a serious problem. It's not good at all that your friend is trying to lose weight...As i'm sure you know it is a sign of a possible diagnosis of Anorexia Nervousa. The absolute BEST thing that you can do for your friend (regardless of how many times she rejects) is to TALK TO A TRUSTED ADULT IMMMEDIATELY! Make sure it is either a parent or guardian of your friend, and explain to them what is going on. It may not seem as bad as i'm making it sound, but trust me, things could get very difficult for your friend. It could also turn into a life-threatening situation. So please, act now, as soon as you can before things go any further, if you want to help your friend.
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