Free AdviceGet Free Advice
Home | Get advice | Give advice | Topics | Columnists | - !START HERE! -
Make Suggestions | Sitemap

Get Advice


Search Questions

Ask A Question

Browse Advice Columnists

Search Advice Columnists

Chat Room

Give Advice

View Questions
Search Questions
Advice Topics

Login

Username:
Password:
Remember me
Register for free!
Lost Password?

Want to give Advice?

Sign Up Now
(It's FREE!)

Miscellaneous

Shirts and Stuff
Page Backgrounds
Make Suggestions
Site News
Link To Us
About Us
Terms of Service
Help/FAQ
Sitemap
Contact Us


I like a reallyyyy cute guy! What can i do?


Question Posted Thursday August 28 2008, 5:18 pm

Ok, im 17 years old and a female and this one boy thats in my first period class is like the cutest guy that i have ever seen. We haven't ever talked to each other but i have a mojor crush on him for like that longest time. I really want to know how i can tell if he likes me. We're both seniors and i want to go out with him this year and real soon. i feel like im in love with him and im not quite sure but i think i saw him looking at me today and when i looked at him he moved his eyes away fast but im not sure it that means he likes me. we live by each other for about 3-4 years now. please help me real soon so that i know what to do and i dont wanna go up to him and talk to him because im like really shy especially around guys that i like, like him. thanks

[ Answer this question ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?


Ramona answered Friday August 29 2008, 11:23 am:
This is a tough situation and i can honestly say that honesty is the best policy what would happen if you kept this a secret and never even asked him to hang out you wouldnt get the chance to actually know him and you might even miss out on what he might think what if he liked you back..you'll never really know until you put your shyness aside for now and ask him to hang out...

[ Ramona's advice column | Ask Ramona A Question
]




Purple-Monkey answered Friday August 29 2008, 6:36 am:
Sometimes its really hard to tell if someone like you, especially if they are very subtle about it.

The staring at you would seem like he likes you, but you never be too sure i guess.

Boys are very confusing creatures!

I understand how you feel, i was exactly like you, and i know its much easier said than done to just walk up to a guy that you like.

But you definately need to talk to this guy. Maybe try finding a subtler [if thats a word lol] way of talking to him, like texting etc. or if thats not possible, maybe wait until he's in a group and then you and a friend can go and mingle. That way you would get to know his friends as well. If it doesnt work out at least you tried.

Just look for little things to tell if he likes you, like the looking at you. the fact he looked away may show that he's nervous. When you do start talking to him for real, look at his body language for clues. If he looks into your eyes and leans in close then i would say thats a good factor.

Just try and build up a friendship with this guy first, instead of trying to dive into a relationship straight away. You need to make sure you like this guys personality as well as his looks.

So in short, try and build up a friendship with your boy. It may seem tough, but at least you will know him better, and your relationship is probably has more of a chance of working if you's were friends first.

Hope ive helped :)
xxxxxxx

[ Purple-Monkey's advice column | Ask Purple-Monkey A Question
]

More Questions:

<<< Previous Question: ceramic plates FLAT iron
Next Question >>> the cheapest CHI in the world

Recent popular questions:
Want to give advice?

Click here to start your own advice column!

What happened here with my gamer friends?

All content on this page posted by members of advicenators.com is the responsibility those individual members. Other content © 2003-2014 advicenators.com. We do not promise accuracy, completeness, or usefulness of any advice and are not responsible for content.

Attention: NOTHING on this site may be reproduced in any fashion whatsoever without explicit consent (in writing) of the owner of said material, unless otherwise stated on the page where the content originated. Search engines are free to index and cache our content.
Users who post their account names or personal information in their questions have no expectation of privacy beyond that point for anything they disclose. Questions are otherwise considered anonymous to the general public.

[Valid RSS] eXTReMe Tracker