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do adults ever seem to hit on you?! (teens)
so i'm barely 16 (girl), and really old guys try to hit on me all the time, its really creepy. i don't need any warnings about "stay away," blah blah blah, because that's obvious, and the oldest guy i'd date or even think about hooking up with is 18, maybe 19. but like so many guys give you that "i want you in bed" stare (hahaha;) & theyre like 30s or even in their 40s! its disgusting. like im short so im obviously no older than 17, i mean some days i could pass for legal but probably not. like i know when a guy is interested in you, he turns his torso to face you. i know this could be coincidental at times but i had a teacher last year that always sat on desks and (not to be gross) spread his legs to slump down with his elbows on his knees, and i know that when a guy points his you-know-what at you, hes interested in you. (its a natural mating instinct, don't believe me if you dont want to.) this teacher was like 30 and he always faced me. like i made a point to move to avoid him and move to different seats across the entire room and he still always faced me, every single day. like i know its just one incident but so many old guys give me creepy stares. i just want other peoples experiences to make sure im not the only one hahaha and maybe some advice to keep the creepers away ;)
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haha well im 16/F so i know what your
going through but im pretty tall about 5'7 and
I surely pass off as if im 18 or older for the
way i act ,people I hang with, the way I talk , etc.
I hate those old farts that stare at me,
I recommend you to not even look , completely
ignore them as hard as it is cause its sort of
funny yet disturbing and gross but thats
what helps them know theyre wayyyyyyyyy
out of your league.
even make an ugly face if you have to
a face that says " What the F ! are you looking at !? "
if they go upto u by any chance asking for your age or name ; give them a rude answer or dont even bother wasting youre time.
if they blow kisses or wink at you or sumthing
just laugh and walk away .
to tell you the truth it might be nasty and
all but only in their dreams will they ever get
with someone around our age , so at times take their compliments say thank you in a rudeish kinda nice way though
hope this helps
-MSunbelievable
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damn thats fucked up. I'm guilty of it, but the worst part about being 23 is not knowing whether a chick is 18 or not. wear stupid high school shirts, or don't dress certain ways, one of the ways I check age is by what a girl wears. its not fool-proof though. I've had cougars hit on me, one chick was old enough to be my mom, so I kinda understand, at least dirty old men usually have the common courtesy to not grope... that was a wierd episode at the bar lemme tell you. carry mace or something if you can, I carry a gun.
-gunner
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I have that problem too. It used to happen a lot, but now it isn't becoming so apparent, though some guy did hit on me today.
I don't really know what to tell you about it because you can't stop people from thinking you're attractive. I guess if someone hits on you, just tell them your age & maybe they'll back off.
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Hello barely 16. I was a young girl once and had neighbors and bosses hit on me. I fear for my daughter, but laws have changed and you have more legal protection.
Don't let them get away with it! Dirty old men are disgusting, stay away or use the law to file charges. One thing I have learned is that telling wives or friends that their wife, husband, brother, or boyfriend made a pass at you does not work! Love is blind and friends or wives will hate you, and not believe you.
Don't put up with it. I walked out at lunch and never went back. My bosses brother-in-law was a judge so it would have been a waste of time to press charges.
Try to avoid situations that put you alone with someone you distrust. Have faith in yourself and don't be afraid to tell them they are out of bounds.
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Haha ... !! Yeah it happens sometimes ..
I'm 16 but I look 19, and I've dated 25 years old guys ... lol
It's gross sometimes when a nasty looking old guy starts hitting on you in the most disgusting way, but if you think about it a lot then you're not going to let it go, so try taking it as a good laugh, like when someone looks at me, I laugh at their stupidness, so do the same, don't think about it a lot because it's going to bother you.
Good Luck =]=]
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haha... this isn't exactly rare for attractive teenage girls. And there isn't really anything you can do about it. Just ignore it :)
-Jessica 15/f
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...lol
You must be attractive for your age. Honestly, There really isn't anything you can do about "old" guys giving you a stare. It is not like they are harming you in anyway. However, If they compliment you in an unappropriate way then yes, you have the right to say something back and tell them you don't apprechiate it you are only 16 years old. I've had guys compliment me that are twice my age and I just sort of brush it off lol...either that or I show signs of being uncomfortable with the situation and they get the idea and back off. If a teacher faces you and you are uncomfortable with it try to sit out of his view.. if he is still facing you well..again there isn't much you can do about it unless he is doing something he shouldn't be doing.
-BahaiMa22
24/f
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