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I Really do need help!
Hi,I am 13 and I really need some help.
All of my friends have matured, and....they...look...drop...dead...gorgeuos.
But, then there is me, I have matured also(I have hips.I HATE them!) But that is the only place I have matured. I do not want to have a chest I just want to be tall (I am only 4'11)
and to have cheekbones.I am more of a round girl, and all the time I try to lose weight, I do but thenit never is the amount I want,and it comes back on. I just want to be the size that I was back in grade 6.
alright sorry for such a long introduction but, I think my real question is is it natural for in 1 year to go up 3 sizes in pants? Or ,4 depending on the pant.
My friends are all so nice like they gain weight but, not as much as I did.
I have cut back on my food but, that is not helping.
I also work out so much it kills,Do you know why this is happening to me?(Sorry that is 3 questions)
-N.
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Wow I feel like that's me talking I have the same problem! I am 13 and a female in 6th grade i was 5.2 and size 0 Then 7th grade I hit puberty :( and i hated it so much and i still do i now have hips and boobs and i don't mind boobs but yah no ha ha But i am always crying because i went up 3 sizes to!:( i was so uncofterable with my body and yes all my friends were going through puberty to but none of them were get big changes in there body and i felt like an outcast because of that.
So to fix my problem i have been going running and watching what i eat. And you said that you have been exercise witch is great but you can't just do it to loose weight you have to make it a life disetion that you will always do, you can't just do it in till you loose the amount of weight you wanna loose you have to commit to it and keep up with it.
I no this is long and I'm sorry but this is exactly what is happening to me and i hate it so much but all i can do is try to be positive and try my best to work on it.
Please message me if you have any qeuestions, because I'm at your age i no what you are going through and i no i can help you thanks.:)
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heeeeeyyy...before i say anymore you should know that beauti is not just on the outside, its on the inside 1st.
your 13 you still have alot of growing to do trust me i went through it. im 19 and when i was 13 i thought i was sooo ugly. i was bullied at school because i was chubby etc etc and a few years later i grew and matured etc.. i mean im small up the top and huge down the bottom and once your older its seen as a beautiful thing. You will grow to love yourself just have faith that you are beautiful.
with your weight problem are you eating healthy? For me i had a problem with my thyroid its located on your neck. its a gland that sends out hormones to the body. if its working too hard then this can trigger you gaining weight but if its not working hard enough then it can make you loose weight... for me i had a lump on it that was also affecting my beathing. take a look in the mirror and check if theres a lump on your throat. like when you touch your neck have a feel around.
you can even go to the doctor and ask for a blood test to check if your thyroid is working properly...its a theory it might just be puberty too. these are all theories please dont think that theres anything wrong with you because it could be just your body growing
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you are 13. sorry, no offence, but everyone nowadays looks at magazines and automatically wants to look like models immediatley. wait till you r 16, At Least! then if you feel the same, start thinking about it seriously. don't worry about height. it will kick in about 15/16 at average. relax! enjoy yourself.
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i now how you feel. I use to feel like that until i met my boyfriend. I would always argue with him about me being ugly. Finally i just realize he was right. What he was right about is everyone is beatiful in there own way. Especially you N. No one is ugly i can tell you that. No one is the RIGHT beatiful. There's no such thing. I swear to you everyone is beatiful in there own way. Your not losing no weight because your perfect the way you are. The more older you get the more beatiful you get. Like i said everyone is beatiful in there own way. And its not just happening to you. ITs happening to some others around your city or state or the world. And if someone tells you otherwise you just say i now i am beatiful. Everyone is beatiful in there own way and i got this beatiful.
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