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he says he has changed,i fell insecure..what should i do?
my boyfriend and i were together for about 1 year and then we broke up cuz his ex gf wasnt ready to leave him..we were ot of contact for about 6 months and then we started talking again and we got physical.this continued for about 2 years then i went out of country for a a few months and behind my back he made out with his gf again who he claimed to not have loved.i was heart broken cuz i thought he loved me for 3 years and everything felt a lie to me...anyway i stopped talking to him and then he started frequently calling,messaging,mailing telling me he has totally changed and will never hurt me again.he has changed a lot but i am pretty insecure..the thing is if he gets angry or depressed i cant work ,i cant do anything...itz like i am eddicted to him...please advice
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Maybe you shoulf listen to what he has to say. Than if you don't think he is telling the truth just let him down easy. The way to tell if he is lying or not is to see if he sounds like he is depressed without you. Try and find signs of him lying. But if you feel he is gonan cheat on you don't go back with him try and avoid him. Ignore his calls and messages and mailing. When you feel safe enough you can stop avoiding him. Get some fresh air and get to now new people. don't think about him clear your mind. Get rid of any pictures you have of him and get rid of anything that could remind you of him. Hope this helps
Jay
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