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i dont know if i can do this...
ok, so i've been with my boyfriend for almost a year. he left for college almost 2 weeks ago and wont be home for another 2 because of the fact that his schools 3 hours away and he doesnt have a car. i miss him sooo much. he's always on my mind and i just want him back here so much. i know that nothings gonna changet the fact that he's gone and so i've been trying to just live my life and be fine but its so hard. we used to talk all the time and now we dont talk nearly as much as we did. i understand he's in college now but like. ok the past two nights i've called him to say goodnight like i always do and he's been like ok i'll call you back in a few minutes and then he never does.. i just dont know if i can do a relationship when we're this far apart. its to hard and like. i love him with my whole heart i really do. and before he left we told eachother that love would be enough to get us through anything.. but i just dont know if it is anymore.. i have no idea what to do. could someone please help me.. :(
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Hey there,
If you trust in your heart that he loves you no matter what and will not think of anyone else, then no worries. Talk to him and tell him how you feel. Do not hold back your feelings! Tell him exactly how you feel and what you are thinking.
He may tell you he is going to call you back, and then he doesn't for he may be busy or get distracted and forget. This does not mean he doesn't remember you, it just means that he can be forgetful. Everyone can be from time to time. Just call him back once and a while when he doesn't return his call and ask him why he didn't call you like he said he would. He may be hoping you will call him back or he may be going through the same thing as you and is unsure of what to say.
After a while, you can ask him if he doesn't mind if you call him every night to talk for a little while since you do miss him or you can ask if he could call you so you can hear his voice. I am sure he will be fine with it if he has free time.
I know how you feel. Be patient, respect his space, tell him you really care for him, express your emotions to him, and be there for him. He may be going through hard times in his life right now as well with his schooling and such.
If he loves you he will respect you, he won't mind if you call him every now and then, he will make time for you, and he will hear whats in your heart <3
Love WILL get you through anything!
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DO what you think is right. Take a deep breath. Think of road A and road B. Down road A your with your boyfriend longer and yyou guys get to talk about things you havent talk about when you see him and when he is down with college. Down road B you have yourself and wondering if you did theright way. Free to date anyway you please. After a few months you get over him. But you dont get to see or hear how he has done in college. You dont now if he failed so you can covert him and if he succeed than you can congratale him but youll meet new poeple. Which one seems better to you? i would pick the one with my boyfriend.
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