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Mixed signals... =/


Question Posted Friday January 2 2009, 12:11 am

Alright so i was dating this guy and he left me for his Ex and like Im still friends with him not nearly as close of friends of course but still friends and like at random times he'll text me or something and say things that make me think that he still likes me and I dont know how to take it... like the other day he text me and was like "hey" and I was like "hi whats up" and he goes "oh nothing just listening to Death Cab and it reminded me of you" and if you didnt know Death cab is a band they are really called Death Cab For Cutie but which was the CD that I bought him for his birthday when we were dating and some of the songs on that CD ment alot to the both of us... and i jsut dont know what to think of what he is say its like he still likes me but wants to be with her... what should i think...

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TimothyDanger answered Sunday January 4 2009, 12:42 am:
He's jackin' with your head.
I have dated every evil creature on the planet and I know that old trick. By forcing you to remember sentimental stuff, he is also making you forget all the bad crap (like leaving you)
That doesnt mean he wants you back though, he just wants you to be on a string, its a power trip sort of thing both genders use.
Next time he says he was listening to a song that reminded him of you, say you heard one too... and then qoute something by Aretha Franklin... that's saucy

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Pink02 answered Saturday January 3 2009, 8:15 pm:
I've been in your situation more than once...but don't fall for his crap. He wan't you to want him back. My ex used to send me stuff all the time...the first song we danced to was one thing that he sent me...and i thought the same thing you do..."he wants me back" but believe me the best thing to do is move on. Guys like that aren't worth your time...i mean he left you for his ex..how low down is that? Well i hope my advice helped you....just remember that time heals everything...it took me forever to learn that... :] best of luck & if you need more advice...feel free to ask!

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Sweet_LiL_Angel answered Saturday January 3 2009, 7:31 pm:
I think you need to move on. He shouldnt have gotten into a relationship with you if he was still having feelings for his ex because he obviously hurt you in the process. I think you two should keep being friends. maybe best friends?? Try dating other people if you think you are ready.

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