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Whats it mean if he wants to cum in me

Question Posted Wednesday January 7 2009, 12:59 pm

This questions for the girls and guys, mainly guys though.

Well, i was having sex with this guy and its not the first time ive been with him, but we didnt have a condom. He said he didnt mind and he would just go in me, and i am not on any birth control or anything and he knows that. He said it was up to me, and he said he really wants to. Other times when we've had sex, he would always hint it, or say something like, "I just want to go in you so bad" or something along those lines.

What does this mean exactly? Is there something he is trying to tell me? Were any of you in this situation before? Or guys, did you do something like this? Why did you?

Thanks everyone :]

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Additional info, added Wednesday January 7 2009, 9:03 pm:
I just wanted to say, i know i could get pregnant. i wasnt asking that. I was looking as to WHY he would ask me to, and i was looking for a deeper meaning. I wanted personal opinions. Also, i didnt have unprotected sex with him at all, cause people seem to think i have..

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mrmike88 answered Thursday October 3 2013, 3:22 pm:
First off, let me say he probably doesn't mind getting you pregnant. (You probably realize this.) Lot's of guys think pregnancy is the girls problem. You would know best if he shares this logic. Now for your answer. It's instinctive to cum inside and to withdraw is like: enjoying the best steak ever then having to spit it out right when you begin to swollow. This X 100 = what it feels like to pull out. Back to it being instinctive to cum inside... It's a given that when a person tightens their buttocks it pulls the legs back and thrusts their genitals forward. Have you ever seen a guy cum without flexing their butt?

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Bigberetta answered Sunday September 13 2009, 2:25 am:
I don't know about him wanting to get you pregnant. I think he just wants to ejaculate inside of you because it would feel good for him. From what you have said, I would imagine that this guys doesn't care if you get pregnant or not. If you do he probably will bail and not support you or the child. If you don't, he will still probably bail at some point. Sounds like he wants what he wants and really doesn't care about you.

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kristamikele answered Friday January 9 2009, 9:18 am:
He wants to do this because it feels better. Imagine how it would feel for you if you were getting ready to have an orgasm and all of a sudden you had to stop. It would seem like a real let down. That is how it feels for him if he knows he has to pull out. Another thing, when a guy is in the middle of sex, he isn't thinking clearly about pregnancy, he's only thinking about that very moment. Consider when he says this to you. If it is only during sex I wouldn't look for any deeper meaning, but if he says it when the two of you are talking about sex it could be that he is hoping to get you pregnant.

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nikkimarie answered Friday January 9 2009, 4:47 am:
for guys it just feels better to come in a girl...and its easier...thats what my boyfriend said...i hope i helped a little

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Melody answered Thursday January 8 2009, 9:10 pm:
It could mean a lot of things.

If he's a prick and you two haven't been together for a long time, it could mean he just wants to brag to his buddies.

But if you have been together for a while and he really seems to love you, it could just mean he wants to be "closer" to you. Which is understandable in long-term relationships.

I don't think I need to go over the fact that it isn't a good idea if you aren't on birth control, seeing as how you seem to know that you can become pregnant. And you also shouldn't need reminding that without condoms you can get STD's too. But I figured I would say it anyway.

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icey0990 answered Wednesday January 7 2009, 11:23 pm:
it means hes a guy, and cumming inside you would feel good for him. it also means he isnt your bf, and doesnt really care about being safe with sex. its natural for guys to want to do it without a condom. i mean they arent the ones who could get pregnant, we are. girls need to be able to say no, because guys will pressure you to give in.

and to answer you yes i have been in this situation before, but i clearly said no we have to be safe. my bf loves and cares about me, but is still a guy.

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Matt answered Wednesday January 7 2009, 9:35 pm:
It means he doesn't give a shit about you or you getting pregnant.

Nice guy huh.

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ohitscassidy answered Wednesday January 7 2009, 9:32 pm:
he wants you to mother his children, put simply.

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LoveNJstyle answered Wednesday January 7 2009, 8:38 pm:
It means he wants to cum inside of you which could lead to pregnancy... it's not a good idea.
if he won't shut up about it after you tell him no, he doesn't respect you.
If you want to let him, make him or just make sure he's using a condom...It'd be a good idea to get another method as well. <3

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AnonymousAdvisor answered Wednesday January 7 2009, 7:28 pm:
Like the others said.
If he cums in you, your probably going to end up pregnant.
Be safe!
Don't let him, unless of course, you want a child.

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clouded_bluee answered Wednesday January 7 2009, 7:07 pm:
Short & Sweet:

If he cums inside of you, without a condom, you will MOST LIKELY end up pregnant. So, if you want to have a baby then let him cum in you, I'm not sure if he is hinting at anything, unless you're old enough to have a child, he might be hinting that he wants to have one with you.

Hope I Helped & Be Safe !

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WittyUsernameHere answered Wednesday January 7 2009, 6:15 pm:
Apologies then.

Given other questions on this site, its easy to make certain assumptions.

Also, you phrased it "I was having sex with this guy and its not the first time I've been with him, but we didn't have a condom"

That sounds like "Last night we had sex and didn't have a condom, what does it mean"

And my answer remains, it sounds like he's trying to get you pregnant, I can't think of any other reason he'd want to.

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Pink02 answered Wednesday January 7 2009, 5:26 pm:
If you don't know what that means then you shouldn't be having sex

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lexusm answered Wednesday January 7 2009, 4:55 pm:
okay when you have sex with a boy and when he says "iwanna cum in you " then that means he wants to nut in side you but in educational terms he wants to have intercoarse with you and and inject his sperm inside you basically whats he's sayin

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WhitneyJ answered Wednesday January 7 2009, 2:17 pm:
Don't let that happen without a condom!!
That's what will get you pregnant, and I'm sure you really don't want that to happen right now.
You shouldn't have unprotected sex regardless, but really don't let him cum in you without any means of protection.
A new little person would probably show up nine months later.

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triquetra answered Wednesday January 7 2009, 1:49 pm:
Never been in this situation before but I'll tell you what it means.

Basically, he wants to ejaculate in you. Depending upon how old you two are, he wants you pregnant.


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