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my names Nicole or Nikki whatever....im 18 and just trying to suvive...trying to forget my past and move on...make a new life by myself....ive been through hell and back six times and you know it sucked but it made me who i am today...i may not be perfect but at least i never did the things you assholees did to me...
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Recently, at some online store, I saw a RED shirt with a built-on BLACK vest, but now I can't find it. Anyone wann look? Don't tell me to buy red shirt and black vest seperately because that's not what I'm looking for. (link)
they have a crap load of shirts with attached vests at forman mills...but ill look for you


Please do not do peoples homework for them.
Thats not the kind of advise we give here.
If you see "homework" questions where the answer is all they want, please file an abuse report.

http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=558306

Thank you!

No need to respond. (link)
ill help who ever i want with what ever i want thank you...


what is your opinion on girls sending guys dirty pics. not completely nude, but just provacative. 15f (link)
whatever you send one person no matter what it is...could be seen by anybody....even off of a phone...

i was going out with this one guy...and we were dating for two years...he had a bunch of pics of me...sexy ones and some of me in my underwear...i trusted him...i loved him...

well he broke up with me and now my whole old neighborhood saw my pictures...there even on the Internet...and once there on the Internet...you can never get rid of them....

now i feel so gross and embarrassed


So...My boyfriend and I had sex the other night. I got off birth control about two months ago and now if somethin happens, hes pressed on getting Plan B. I took it the other night (feb 7). We had sex again last night and he wants to get it again. He never came inside me...and Im supposed to start my period in a few days! I already ovulated this month according to the ovulating calander (they said anywhere from the 21st tul 29th) so i dont think i could get pregnant...but would you suggest I go out and buy the Morning After Pill??

Thanks for your help! (link)
its not healthy to take it to many times...
its not birth control...
i mean if you have to use it then do...but please try going on some kind of birth control or using condoms...
there are so many types of birth control and if your trying to keep it a secret from your parents or if you don't have insurance there are many clinics that will give you birth control, condoms, and test you...for really cheap...and sometimes free....




I went out with this amazing guy a month ago. Or at least, I thought so at the time. We only dated a month because we both thought it wasn't working out. Well now, a month later, he's telling people we had sex. I'm only fourteen, a freshman in highschool, and this is ruining my reputation. People are now thinking I'm a whore. I know for a fact he started the rumor, because my brother was in the room when he said it. He was not kidding around, he was bragging about it. My brother and I are best friends, and he's the only person I completely trust, and I have a difficult time trusting people. So, obviously, my brother was very pissed that this boy would do this to me. I confronted this boy and asked him and he's denying it! I can't even believe he would try to deny it, considering my brother was able to tell me word for word what this boy said. I was so hurt and crushed and felt terrible. So obviously, I first went to my friends. All of them had the same reaction. "I'm going to kill him!". Well, I was talking to one specific friend, and she wanted to know his phone number so she could call him and tell him off. I didn't give it to her because I deleted it from my phone, but she some how got it and talked to him for the first time in her life. He denies it to her, and she COMPLETELY believes him! And on top of that, she said to me "It's not really that big of a deal" which is BULL because i'm NOT a whore! I'm a virgin, and this boy is ruining my reputation for his own benefit and it's crushing me and this girl tells me "I trust him more then I've trusted anyone in a long time". I am beyond pissed off. I don't know what I am right now, but it's worse then anything I've ever felt. She kept saying "Honey, it's not that big of a deal" and after we stopped talking, she actually set her myspace status to "Honey, i'm done". Like she'd completely given up on me. This hurts me the most, because she has a habit of blowing things way out of proportion and coming to me to whine about it almost every day, and it feels like she's being a MAJOR hippocrit to me. I just don't know what to do, my rep is ruined, one of my bestfriends is mad at me when she doesn't even have a good reason to be, and quite frankly, I feel completely betrayed. Help me, I just want to be happy again :( (link)
this exact same thing happened to me ...

it just shows that she is not your friend...even if you think she is or you've been friends forever...shes not....


people at this age are just immature...not saying you...but boys will say anything to attract attention to themselves and girls will believe anything to feel attractive and wanted...

just try to ignore everyone that's acting immature...be the adult...i know its hard to when it seems everyone is talking behind your back but eventually they move on to another stupid rumor...

i cant even count the rumors ive had about me...pretty crazy ones...

all that matters is that you know what you did and didn't do...only you know who you truly are...

just try to forget about everyone and hang out with friends go out talk on the phone talk online...do anything to keep your mind off of the situation...don't let the get to you...its not worth the emotional pain...

i hope all that helped...if you have any questions or anything feel free to contact me...ive been hell and back and ive learned quite a few things...

www.myspace.com/swizeet222


OK, we have to write a funny poem about our hands, but i have ABSOLUTELY NO IDEA HOW TO WRITE IT! can someone please help me, and when i say help, i mean give me a poem to use. oh, i'm in the 9th grade by the way (link)
Hands
© By Natalie Bonnett

I hold in my hands a bit of sunshine,
To share with all those in
The darkness of gloom.
I hold in my hands a bit of education,
To share with all those in
Poor, uneducated countries.
I hold in my hands a bit of food,
To share with those in
The depth of poverty.
I hold in my hands a bit of love,
To share with those in
Lonely, abusive homes.
I hold in my hands a bit of defense,
To share with those in
Need of protection.
I hold in my hands a bit of shelter,
To share with those who
Are homeless.
So let's all hold something
good in our hands,
To share with those in need.


or


i have to take a lie detector test to prove my innocence due to an accusion wich i had no part of. due to being a minor, i have to take one where i talk only and i have to lie about like 3 things on it. but nothing related to the accusion. a friend of mine told me to pinch myself then answer saying no because it does something to ur brain that lets you lie and gets away with it? idk. but i need help. because the three things i have 2 lie about i cant let my mom know...so i need a life saver! (link)
well if you pich yourself it does the opposite and makes it look like a lie...
its all bout your heart beat...just relax...try meditating...dont think about anything that will make your heart beat change in any way...breath slowly and stuff


i keep getting purple lines down my knuckles and have no idea what it is;
i am also getting red blotches with really pale rings round them.
I am only young and at first i let it pass but now it keeps coming back and looking at my knuckles make me feel sick.

Soo; does anyone know what it could be.
It is probably something pathetic and me just taking it to far
but BETTER SAFE THAN SORRY ;)

thankss...
xx (link)
definitely go to the doctors...it also sounds like limes disease


i'm going to go and get my ear's pierced so that i can work up to getting gauges. i once had my ears pierced whenever i was around 8 or so, and that got infected and i recall it hurting, so i've always been scared that it's going to happen again if i go get them re-done. but at this point, i really want gauges so i'm in a kind of "i'm just going to do it anyways" kind of state. but what would make me feel even better is if before i went, there was some kind of thing ic ould buy or something at home i could rub on my ears to make them numb a little before i go. i know that the clamp they use to pierce already is pretty much distracting and hurts more than the actual piercing, but it would just make me feel a little bit better about not feeling any pain.



so if anyone has any suggestions, i'd love to hear them.

thanks! (link)
well if your worried about it hurting and getting infected...the whole regal piercing is nothing...its the gauging that hurts...i have my ears at 00g...and the whole time gauging they were nasty and oozy...and whenever you go to gauge bigger that hurts bad...

BUT...if you go to a place...the use a certain oil to gauge it for you..it will only get one size bigger but it doesn't hurt as bad as you using tapers ....oh and some places will even basically just whole punch your ears so there immediately guard the size you want...

the process sucks but the end results are wicked awesome...i love my gauges

but then again everyone is different so yup


17/f.. for valentines day i want to put together a bunch of little things for my boyfriend. i'm going to make him some of those valentines day cookies, probably frame a picture of us.. any other ideas for little things like that?
anything would be appreciated! thanks :) (link)
oo oo for xmas i mad my fiance a coupon book...he loved it...ill give you a website or you can just make them yourself...

i put on them-
one full day of playing video games-with no complaining or birthing...lol

one foot massage complete with oils and lotions

a full back scratch-minimum of 20 minutes-with no pimple popping

just stupid stuff that we do...stupid thing i do that he doest like lol


My boyfriend is about almost 9 inches, thick as like, spray can of that string stuff. Im a 15f virgin, if we have sex, how bad should it hurt? Will it feel good at all ? If not, about how many times after should it feel good? and my cherry is already popped. (link)
everyone is different really...for me (about the same situation) hurt real bad bleed a lot...didnt feel good until like third tme...
but my friend was the exact oppostie...and he was huge...
so ionnoo lol...but it will only hurt for a lil...

oh and use a condom or some shiz


i want to learn a few small hip hop dances but i dont want to like go to a professional dancer or anything. just something online or something. thanks xoxo:D (link)
http://www.youtube.com/results?search_type=&search_query=learn+hip+hop+dance+moves&aq=1&oq=learn+hip+hop


I'm looking for some really eerie and beautiful irish music in their language or whatever. Does anyone know any that I can maybe download from limewire etc? (link)
Flogging Molly
and then go on youtube and just type in irish music or do the same in google...
but flogging molly is the shiz


what is lesbian sex? (link)
well sex is different from making love...all lesbians are different...when having sex some just do different things to orgam...there all different really some want to use dildos, but then other hate them...making love its more about just being together and being passionate...


This questions for the girls and guys, mainly guys though.

Well, i was having sex with this guy and its not the first time ive been with him, but we didnt have a condom. He said he didnt mind and he would just go in me, and i am not on any birth control or anything and he knows that. He said it was up to me, and he said he really wants to. Other times when we've had sex, he would always hint it, or say something like, "I just want to go in you so bad" or something along those lines.

What does this mean exactly? Is there something he is trying to tell me? Were any of you in this situation before? Or guys, did you do something like this? Why did you?


Thanks everyone :] (link)
for guys it just feels better to come in a girl...and its easier...thats what my boyfriend said...i hope i helped a little


I just wanted to know whether you think I have mis carried or not.

Me and my partner have been trying to concieve for a while, then 2 days before my period was actually due, I came on with only light bleeding, and it was very light in colour, and quite painful, and only last 3 days?

I have read a few different articles on the internet and it seems that what I suffered was a miscarriage.

Whats your opinion? Heres some facts:

1. My period is always on time, never late or early,
2 . Always lasts at least 6 days
3 . Normally very heavy
4 . Normally pain free.

Please help me figure out whether a miscarriage was the case, it does say on a few websites, that many women mistake it to just be a period, but with the symptoms so similar, I beg to differ that its a period. Thank you in advance. (link)
well usually when its spotting and early it means your pregnant...i dont think i can conceive ive had four miscarriages...they were all the same for me...very painful...im gonna be honest so it might sound gross...sorry...first day i bleed its a really big chunky piece of blood...very heavy and thick period for two weeks straight...but then again everyone is different...so i would definitely suggest going to your gyno..definitely go...




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