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Hey. Im only 14, but have experienced a lot. I have an expertise in "Love-Life." I've had my heart broken, been stuck, been abused, pretty much everything. So you can come to me for that anytime!:)
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Okay...well I've been dating this wonderful guy....*Mark* for 4 months now..and we haven't even made out. Yeah..sounds pathetic I know, but we cuddle and hug and you know...it's nice, but I just can't bring myself to make the first move..I'm so shy and so is he...HOW...help please

How the heck do I just know when to make out with him


Driving me nutsss

You know, when you're cuddling, snuggle really close to him and look at him in the eye, just start moving forward. He SHOULD get the message. If not, he's retarded lol. But dont force it. Just cause everyone else kisses, doesn't mean you have to feel pressured. Maybe it's because what you guys have isn't like what everyone else has. It will happen when it's supposed to happen.:)

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my girlfriend told me we act more like friends then a couple...but she wont explain what she means by that...help?

Okay, I'm guessing you have friends that are girls, right? (If not pretned you do lol.) What she means is that you treat her more like a friend than a girlfriend. Now, idk you, but if you haven't kissed her or anything like that, try it. Flirt with her. Give her massages maybe. You could even play with her hair or kiss her on the forehead. Hope I helped!:)

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I want a small pet. I was thinking of, geril, hamster, ferret, sugar glider, chinchilla... Ferrets I heard can be aggressive, shed too much. Hamsters may not be personable enough for me. Chinchillas and SUgar Gliders Are adorable but I do not know much about them as pets. I want a pet that will sleep and poop in there own cage. A pet I can take out daily and spend some time with him/her. A pet that will be friendly and is legal to have as a pet in canada. Any ideas of which small pet I should get and what store in toronto would sell it? Thanks

I had a guinea pig for a couple of years. They are great pets! His name was Carl. And they each have their owm personality which is awesome. So I think should get one of those.

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hey

im pretty sure i have depression and i have a lot of issues and problems and i used to cut to cope but i gave up 8 weeks ago. but im struggling to cope now. my mum has a vague idea of my depression but other than that know else knows.

i tried counselling but it didnt help. i do want to get better. im going to university in september and i dont want to turn up with all my problems.

im thinking of going to the doictors to see if i can get some anti-depressents but i dont want my mum to find out so im not sure if that it'll work cos im still 17.

also i was thinking about therapy where the thearapist can help me out and give me advice (the counseller didnt do any of that) i think i can only talk freely to a stranger cos id find it hard to talk to friends or family.

im just really stuck on what to do cos im fairly sure i cant beat all of it on my own.

any advice is greatly appreciated. thanks x

Hey, I really really am praying and pushing for you get through. Im serious about that. I will be praying for you. Believe that. First of all. If you dont have a religion, I would consider finding one that worships Jesus. It could honestly change you. And also I think you should tell your mom, I know it will be hard, but you have to. Anti-depressents could be what you really need to save yourself. I will honestly honestly honestly be looking into other options for you. Im begging you, please stay in touch with me. I will be searching for you. I give you my word.

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Okay so me and my boyfriend have been together for over two years,we want to have unprotected sex this weekend. Don't tell me its not safe because I already no all about that. but if we do decide to, what are some major precautions to take. Like I said even if we don't id like the advice for future reference

thank you.

Well, yes, it is very dangerous. But you have to consider the risks. You may become pregnant or get an STD, which you will be stuck with for the rest of your life. What I dont understand is what is the difference between unprotected sex and protected? What's it gonna matter if you use birth control and/or a condom? It doesn't change the experience. But if you really want this, I would consider first, talking with your boyfriend and asking him, honestly, if he has any STD's. And if you still deside to go on with it, go to a pharmacy and get Plan B after you have sex. It will prevent you from getting pregnent. But you have to get it in the 24 hours after. And then you may want to get tested. That's my advice. Hope I helped:)

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